Chatting with boys, he said it was hot.

Chatting with boys, he said it was hot.

Chatting with boys, he said it was hot. Sometimes boys talk and don't understand what it means. With the weather getting hotter and hotter, the sun is getting bigger and bigger every day. "Hot" is a topic that boys and girls often talk about. Let's take a look at chatting with a boy. He said it was very hot.

Chatting with a boy, he said it was hot. In this case, it should be possible that he is deliberately testing you in order to have further contact with you.

How should a girl reply when she says she is hot?

First, the relationship with girls is ordinary friends.

If you have no feelings for this girl, or the relationship between you is just ordinary classmates, friends and colleagues, then when she chats with you, she is basically sharing her feelings and complaining. I don't think you need to worry about how to reply. Just tell her how you feel and think.

I'm here to remind the old irons that it's best not to flirt with the girls in the same office, otherwise it will be difficult for you to get along in the work circle.

Second, you are pursuing this girl.

If you are pursuing this girl, if the girl tells you that she is hot when chatting, you should reply according to your current chat status, the girl's feedback and emotional state.

1, girls don't respond well

The girl's bad reaction shows that her emotional state is very unstable at this time. At this time, if you say that it is out of date and the weather is already hot and dry, it may detonate girls' emotions in an instant. So the correct way is to listen patiently, comfort and let the girl know that you understand her, and then the relationship will be much smoother.

For example:

Woman: "I'm so bored today. I'm bored to death."

Man: "This bad weather makes you unhappy. What's wrong? "

Female: "The boss blames me for not doing this and that ..."

Man: "It's not worth it now. I will buy you an ice cream after work. Let's fire the boss together. "

2. Girls' reaction is average.

Never say "turn on the air conditioner" and "find a cool place" to a girl. This is a very logical way to reply. Logical chat can't arouse girls' emotions, and even make girls who have a good impression on you lose interest in you. Therefore, we should try our best to make chatting interesting.

For example:

Woman: "It's too hot to do anything."

Male: "To get revenge, I am blowing air conditioning in the air-conditioned room at this time, grinning" (to stimulate girls' emotions)

Female: "cut"

Man: "Grandma Feng is my sister. I'll ask her to send you a bag of wind later "(role-playing)

3. Girls are having an affair with you.

If you are having an affair with a girl, it means that this girl is interested in you. You know, the purpose of chatting is to invite. Since the girl told you that she was hot, you might as well take the opportunity to find a reason to ask her out. If the current conditions are inconvenient, we should continue to enhance the ambiguous atmosphere with girls.

For example:

Woman: "It's too hot."

Man: "You need an ice cream when you pinch your fingers at this time. It's refreshing to think about it."

Woman: "Ha ha, you really know how to count. Are you a fortune teller? "

Man: "Why don't I treat you to ice cream after work and then go to the movies?"

Third, that girl is your girlfriend.

If your girlfriend tells you that she is very hot when chatting, she needs your comfort, understanding and companionship, and needs you to bring her a good emotional experience and help her get rid of the hot and restless bad mood. After all, girlfriends are used to coax and hurt, so as to maintain your long-term relationship.

1, ambiguous reply

Woman: "honey, it hurts me to death."

Man: "Then I'll help you undress."

Or: "You remind me of a shy photo. Shy "

Or: "I am a small air conditioner, and chatting with me can make you feel good."

Step 2 date directly

Woman: "honey, it's too hot today."

Man: "Then I'll take you to eat ice cream after work."

Or: "I'll wait for you in the air-conditioned room after work."

Or: "I'll buy you a bikini and we'll go swimming."

Chatting with boys, he said it was hot. 2. It is very important to chat with the boy actively and attract his attention.

1, interesting things in life

Sometimes you can tell some interesting things in life, such as a girl who made a childish mistake and forgot to bring her wallet when she went out to take a taxi. These little things in life may happen to everyone, so communication will feel more intimate and easy to close the distance.

2. Talk about each other's achievements and merits.

As the saying goes, lively women love to chat, and smart women can chat. Everyone has a past that they can be proud of, but after a long time, people will forget things that make them feel extremely proud, and they are embarrassed to show off again and again, so they can only leave it until late at night to relive it like a military medal.

Men prefer the worship of their women. When you talk to him about something he is proud of, he often gets great pride and satisfaction from it. The shining place on him is worthy of your worship. Talking to him about these things will make him feel proud again.

3. Humorous topics

If the other person doesn't have feelings for you, he won't reply to you. You can start your chat mode. But remember, to chat with a boy, you must first find a funny and humorous topic to make him feel that he is chatting with you. He is very happy, likes chatting with you, and thinks you are a humorous girl.

So he will slowly take the initiative to chat with you every day. Over time, it will become a habit. If you all stop talking suddenly, he will feel something is missing and will take the initiative to talk to you. Are you afraid you can't take him away at this time?

4. Computer games

Boys like games very much, whether it's stand-alone games or online games. Some games you have to study, such as the popular League of Legends, such as the classic Diablo, the legend of the Sword and the Chivalrous Man, and so on. You are not required to play. It is good to know the characters and plots inside, and you can achieve your goal by chatting.

5. Find a topic through a circle of friends

Through the circle of friends of both parties, for example, if the other party sends a dish, you can say which store it is from, how it tastes and how it tastes. If the other person gives the dog, you can say that the dog is so cute. I remember I had a puppy before. How should I tell each other? What if you say I never had a dog? If you don't have a dog, you can say you have a cat!

It doesn't matter what we talk about, the content is not important, what matters is the mood. After listening to your words, the other person seems to have a good relationship with you, because we have a lot in common, which will naturally attract his attention to you.

Talking to boys, he said it was too hot to talk to boys.

Think ahead and warm up.

What is a warm-up in thinking? To put it simply, it is to reserve a few pleasantries in advance to chat and talk about some unimportant things before getting to the point. For example, the other party's favorite team game, as well as recent interesting things around. "When I first went out, I saw the five best goals in the Thunder game. Did they win yesterday? " In fact, this is also a kind of "warm-up" for the two sides to slowly enter the previous chat, which can make the two sides closer and more comfortable.

Guide each other to say what they want to say.

What if you are not so talkative? It doesn't matter. Being a good listener sometimes makes people like it better. After all, people still want others to be self-centered. So the correct idea is not to care too much about what you have to say, but to focus on guiding the other person to say what he wants to say. For example, a sentence like this: "Really? Then tell me what the specific situation is, I really want to know! " "I also want to experience it again. Please tell me how you handled it then. "

As long as you can always get the other person to say what he wants to say, he will naturally feel happy and be more willing to provide you with all kinds of information. Especially if you are willing to listen to what a boy is proud of and satisfy his sense of accomplishment, you will be closer to you.

Matters needing attention in chatting with boys

1, don't mention the shortcomings of boys, such as height and looks. Although you don't say it, you will be unhappy in your heart, because boys love face.

2, chatting with boys must be serious, because boys are used to judging people by their appearances, and your carelessness is likely to become a dislike in his eyes.

3. Smiling will bring boys closer to you. Know that the other person may have the same concerns as you. Smiling will make the other person relax and won't think you are unattainable.

If he is willing to talk more, listen more and interrupt less, and find out his personality and hobbies to facilitate the next chat. Of course it can be appropriate. When you express your opinion, he will definitely look at you with new eyes.

5. Pay attention to the boy's reaction when chatting. After all, sometimes he will say some less or more sensitive topics. His expression can reveal whether he is interested in this matter.

6. Pay attention to his colleagues, friends and talking. Because only by knowing the things around him can you chat with him, and only by being in the same circle, having the same interests and having friends with each other can you chat with him.