Children who "go surfing" and "stay at home" are obviously different when they grow up.

Every child has a different personality. Some children are extroverted, some are shy, and some like to stay at home alone and do what they like. Some people like outdoor activities and go out to play whenever they have time. Children's different personality habits have a great influence on their growth and life when they grow up.

My friend Xiaoyu has twins, but the twins are different in many aspects except their looks, especially their personalities.

The twin brother is extroverted, not afraid to meet strangers, not shy, and sometimes very familiar. He also made many friends in class. He usually asks his mother to take him out on holidays. He likes everything, whether it is mountain climbing, outdoor sports or swimming. Staying at home is a torture for him. Xiaoyu often laughs that she has a nail on her ass and can't sit still.

A twin brother is the opposite of his brother. He is naturally shy and does not like to talk. When he meets people he doesn't know very well, he usually behaves very shy. He likes being alone. Painting and reading are his hobbies, and he likes to practice calligraphy occasionally. I don't want to go out unless I go out at ordinary times. I seldom talk to others, so I don't make friends and often stay at home.

For my younger brother, my mother is generally at ease, but for my younger brother, my mother Xiaoyu is very worried that being too self-enclosed will affect his growth and make him feel lonely, which will also have an adverse impact on his own development when he grows up.

1. The expression ability is different. Children who stay at home will have worse expressive ability than children who often go out to play. We are not good at communicating with others, and we are afraid of communication and interaction at ordinary times, so they will keep their distance from others, and their self-expression ability will naturally be poor.

2. Different thinking abilities. The thinking ability of children who are often alone is obviously different from that of active children. The latter's thinking will be more active, because they are exposed to more things, so many things can easily cause them to think. Children who stay at home may have more imagination.

3. Different communication skills. Outgoing and cheerful children make friends. I am also good at getting along with people. And what worries are shared with others, and the psychological pressure will not be too great. However, introverted and homesick children may be less inclined to talk to others, including sharing. It is not easy to say what is in your heart, which is not conducive to the healthy development of children's body and mind.

4. The ability to adapt to environmental changes is different. Children who often go surfing may have better adaptability to the environment. Because of their extroversion and frequent contact with new things, they may look at things from different angles and accept the influence of changes in things more easily. Children who are relatively homesick may find it more difficult to accept change.

Parents should communicate with their children more. Build a bridge of communication with children, let them get in touch with new things slowly, guide them out of their own world, see more outdoor things, and let them communicate with others more. First of all, we must overcome their timidity and let them learn to express themselves. Let the children change themselves slowly and talk more about what they like.

Parents should take their children to participate in outdoor sports. Children may be very resistant at first, but they should be attracted by some points that children are interested in, so that children can really feel the fun of outdoor sports. Let him find more beautiful things in nature.

Encourage children to make friends. Children may have fewer friends, so parents should encourage their children to make friends and support them to share their things, feelings and troubles with friends.

Parents can seek the help and cooperation of teachers. Besides spending the longest time with parents, the teacher is another role that spends the longest time with children. Parents can seek the cooperation of teachers, enlighten their children together, discuss problems together, and then find ways to solve them together, so that the problems can be solved slowly.

Parents want their children to grow up lively, cheerful, healthy and optimistic, but some children may be naturally introverted and shy, so parents don't have to worry too much about it. You can be more patient and slowly guide them out of their own circles and become lively.

I am the mother of Xiao C and a 5-year-old baby. In the process of raising and educating children, you can ask me any questions. I hope my advice can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of taking care of your baby and let our children grow up better!