After the blind date, what should the man and woman talk about? (The woman likes to go out and play)

As an emotional mentor and love expert. I have been working in the relationship industry for 8 years and have been helping students to prevent true love and save love. Today, the instructor shared how to solve the problem of "no topic" that plagues "single men".

Many brothers have done a good job in collecting female resources, but after greeting women, they don’t know how to start the conversation or what to talk about.

Both parties have a good impression and could have responded positively, but because they couldn't open their mouths or the content of the chat was relatively narrow, the girls instinctively chatted with us and turned into um, ah, yes.

Then today I will tell you how to expand the topic.

When many brothers chat, others ask a question and they answer a question themselves. The content also revolves around what the girl just said, so it is easy to go around in circles.

The most common thing is that girls say: It’s raining really hard today (it’s so cold, or it’s so hot).

Then you replied: Yes, did you hold an umbrella (did you put on more clothes).

With this kind of answer, a girl can only tell you, well, I got beaten.

If you are lucky, the girl will ask you if you are wearing too many clothes.

However, we are still going around in circles. After you replied "I wear a lot of clothes", the conversation ended!

The topics needed for chatting will not pop up by themselves. Everyone's misunderstanding is that they can't find new topics and feel that their thinking is not broad enough.

But in fact, chatting does not require you to find a topic, it only requires you to extend the topic.

For example, if you just talked about umbrellas, you can continue to talk about umbrellas, umbrella handles, whether you like straight or curved ones (provocative), or clothes, and you can talk about fashion.

It’s not scary if you don’t have a topic, because what you have to do is to find the points in the previous topic and extend the topic.

For example, after talking about rain and cold weather.

As mentioned just now, the girl may say that the weather is very hot, so you can also talk about the heat: It’s so hot today, and the perfume in my car is so hot, I really want to find it. The swimming pool is 200 meters deep. The topic opened up immediately.

First, a girl can ask you what kind of car you want.

Second, the perfume exploded? Glass? Does the bottle hurt anyone? Does it smell too strong?

Third, if you know how to dive, talk about your initial diving experience and make up a short story or joke.

If the girl is open to you and will even talk about bikinis, you can also ask her to send you photos.

Look, brothers, the openings you often see are about the weather, but how many people can talk about looking at naked photos of girls? (Okay, it’s not nude photos, I’m bragging).

However, it boils down to one point, that is, the more information points in your speech, the more interesting topics you can provide. With more options from multiple parties, you can chat to the sky.

What I just said is to expand the topic horizontally. There are many lines of defense to choose from in one sentence, and the other party will definitely be interested.

However, girls ignore topics that the other party is not interested in, or reply, so what should we do? Give up resources? No way!

We also need to learn to expand topics vertically. .

For example, a girl just listened to you talking about diving, told her own diving story, and sent you bikini photos.

But what should I do if I ignore the topic of perfume? Let’s expand on the issue of perfume vertically.

For example:

Mu Mu: The weather is too hot and the perfume in the car explodes.

Xiaomeng: Yes, haha.

What should I do after receiving a hehe? Extend it vertically!

Mu Mu: I felt so dizzy while driving that I almost lost my temper to the police.

Xiaomeng: Yes, then you are out of luck. Ah ha.

Mu Mu: The key is that I still smell a lot. After arriving at the company, my colleagues said that you wear such a strong perfume on your body, fool around with many women, and try your best to win over me.

Xiaomeng: What kind of perfume does the woman who is really fooling around with you use?~~~

Mu Mu: Forget about the brand, a few female colleagues are teasing me and saying that my Liushen is expired. . Next time I will buy a bunch of Liushen as gifts for them. Even if they don’t wear it for 10 yuan a bottle, they can’t do it!~

Xiaomeng: Haha, it seems that you are very popular. How many women in the unit like you?

The skill of chatting is to first expand a sentence horizontally into several topics, and then focus on one topic to enrich it, that is, expand it vertically.

The instructor has written articles on some of his experiences in the emotional industry over the years in the public account wanhui120. You can download the books "Restoring Standardized Process" and "Blocking True Love" from the WeChat official account.