I will be a mother soon. What do I need to prepare?

New mothers need to know

One thing that new mothers need to know-the preparation before the baby is born

1, half a month before the baby is born, prepare a plastic box, put what you need in it, and keep it for later use. The advantage is that it can be placed under the bed and clean.

2. What should a mother prepare:

Cotton towel (for postpartum hyperhidrosis);

Two chest tops (for feeding). My experience: summer is not necessary when it is convenient. It's convenient for my mother-in-law to make two breast-feeding sweaters out of cotton sweaters in winter, but they are also available on the market now.

Three bags of toilet paper (used to pad under the body after delivery, that is, the long one used before);

Soft toothbrush (for postpartum brushing);

A pack of baby diapers (for mother's personal hygiene problems);

Lower body towel (for cleaning personal hygiene);

Two pairs of socks (put them on immediately after delivery to prevent your feet from catching cold)

Don't forget this breast pump, it will be used the next day and the third day.

The general hospital provided some things that the baby wanted. You can consult first to see what is missing. Will bring is:

A cup, a spoon (don't use a bottle to feed water or milk when the baby is born, because it is easy for the baby to rely on the nipple and refuse breast milk. )。

Baby wipes * (Newborns don't need to be washed, just wet wipes).

A pack of diapers

4. precautions for mothers in the month.

(1) The baby should be breastfed immediately after birth, because at this time, the baby's consciousness has just emerged and it is the time with the strongest memory.

(2) Get out of bed as soon as possible after removing the catheter and relieve yourself to prevent intestinal adhesion. Hold the wound with your hand when you walk, and bend a little.

(3) Get up sideways first. Then put your elbow on the bed, hold the wound with one hand and get up slowly. When LG helps, try not to exert force on your waist, but learn to borrow money.

(4) Don't eat milk for the first three days after the baby is born, because the baby needs very little milk at this time. Secondly, if the milk is delivered too quickly, it will also cause milk leakage. If you feel bloated, you can squeeze it out by hand or ask LG for help. . . . Be sure to let the milk out, otherwise it will easily block the milk glands, and finally both adults and children will suffer. Be sure to remember.

(5) Pregnant women should pay attention to a balanced diet, eat less and eat more meals, and drink more soup while eating more vegetables.

(6) Within 20 days, mother had better stay in bed and walk around properly. Because when the baby is pregnant, the human spine leans backwards to support the weight. Once the baby is born, the weight suddenly disappears, and it takes a process for the spine to return to its daily state.

(7) Mom must pay attention to keep her head and feet warm when she goes out, and don't face the wind.

(8) Air-conditioned rooms shall be equipped with air fresheners and humidifiers, and shall be ventilated regularly. It is best to keep the room temperature at around 28 degrees. As long as the baby's palms and soles are hot, you don't need to wear too many clothes. Pay attention to the warmth of the stomach and neck. The baby can't sleep well if he wears too much.

(9) When the baby is born, the milk must be diluted. Remember to feed it with a spoon.

(10) After the newborn baby is born in the hospital, you can use white glucose syrup, 10ml, three times a day, diluted with or without water, and give it to the baby, mainly to help the baby get rid of jaundice. Neonatal jaundice usually appears after three days and disappears after 7- 14 days. If there is no jaundice after 14 days, you will go to the hospital. Note that some babies are breast-fed jaundice, and it will be fine if they don't eat their mother's milk. But some are not.

The second thing that new mothers need to know-the secret of labor-saving breastfeeding

It's not difficult to feed your baby, but if you don't feed it properly, it will cause your baby to vomit milk, or it will hurt your back if you feed for a long time. Here are some suggestions from experts to teach you to save time and effort when nursing your baby.

General feeding skills:

(1) Hold the baby at a 45-degree angle in a semi-sitting position.

(2) Let the baby's thigh and little ass sit on his thigh and let the baby's head rest in his arms.

(3) When the baby starts sucking, remember to make sure that the nipple is filled with milk to avoid inhaling too much air.

(4) To start feeding, you can first touch your baby's mouth with a pacifier. When the baby is hungry, he will naturally find a nipple to suck. When inserting the nipple, remember to put the nipple on the baby's tongue.

(5) When the baby's sucking speed starts to slow down, even if there is no sucking or milk flowing out of the mouth, stop feeding and burp first. Traditional mothers often stand their babies upright and put their pillows on their shoulders. In fact, this is not a good practice. A better way is to hold the baby's upper body with the hand holding the bottle, let it lean forward (at this time, the baby's thigh and little ass are still sitting on his thigh), and then burp with the other hand, so as to observe whether the baby vomits.

Tips for feeding in bed

(1) Put a pillow as a cushion first.

(2) Prepare hot water, paper towels, milk powder and other related feeding supplies at the bedside.

(3) take the baby to bed for breastfeeding. If it is winter, you can wrap the quilt around the baby after taking the baby to bed to keep the breastfeeding environment warm. In addition, when breastfeeding, the mother should lean back against the pillow to relieve the pressure on the waist.

Tips for sitting and feeding

(1) Find a chair with a handle.

(2) beside the chair, prepare hot water, paper towels, milk powder and other related feeding supplies.

(3) When feeding, both hands and arms can be placed on the armrest of the chair.

(4) Start breastfeeding

Expert advice

The choice of bottles should be plain and simple. Newborn babies' nipples should be round-hole-shaped, and they can only be changed into cross-shaped ones after adding complementary food.

In addition, there should be 8-9 baby bottles at home, and they must be disinfected before use. The process of bottle disinfection is divided into boiling disinfection and steamer disinfection. As for boiling disinfection, there are different methods according to the different materials of bottles. If it is a glass bottle, put it in the pot before the water boils (at this time, the height of the water must be higher than the bottle). After the water boils, roll for about 5- 10 minutes. As for the acrylic bottle, be sure to wait until the water boils before putting it in, and cook it for about 5- 10 minutes.

Sterilized bottles, if not used within 24 hours, must be disinfected again before use. Special attention must also be paid to the feeding time. Usually, babies must drink milk every four hours. Parents can flexibly advance or postpone for half an hour, and it is best to get ready half an hour before feeding. It is important to pay special attention to that the feeding time is best after bathing.

This is an introduction to artificial breeding.

The third thing that new mothers need to know-netizens talk about the wonderful prescription for new mothers to breastfeed.

Use a breast pump ... My daughter is fourteen years old, and my experience is that nipple invagination can be sucked out with a breast pump (commonly known as a breast pump); The recipe I once used was Cao Tong Stewed Seven-Star trotters (that is, seven trotters with small eyes or so), and the effect was good without salt.

Don't give up breastfeeding easily. Never give up breastfeeding easily. If all the methods provided by netizens don't work, then you have to suck out your mother's milk with a breast pump and feed it with a bottle. Nothing can replace the benefits of breast milk for babies. (user Aizi 9863)

Not sucking milk has something to do with your daughter not sucking nipples. First of all, you have to hurry up, try to suck out the milk in the second month, and use a breast pump or your husband to do it yourself, otherwise the milk will be in trouble. You can try the Chinese patent medicine "Shengruling" with crucian carp soup and pork elbow soup, two or three times a day. Not tired, but smart. At least my wife is at the end. (User Xian Peng)

Cook soup with deer antler slices, medulla tetrapanacis and angelica once a day in the morning and evening, and drink more soup at ordinary times. (user 99coco 1 124)

Try cooking crucian carp soup with medulla tetrapanacis (which is sold in pharmacies). Mother's nipple is sucked with a breast pump. (user xuma0227)

The fourth thing new mothers need to know is a documentary about caesarean section.

1. The anesthesiologist will let you hold your legs, bend your body at noon, and then put a needle down at the spine of the vest. After a few minutes, you will suddenly feel a bullet hit all over your body (without any warning), indicating that the anesthesia has begun to work. The doctor will constantly try the reaction with the needle to see if the anesthetic effect is achieved.

2, because the operation has been anesthetized, so there is no feeling. I just feel that my stomach has been cut open, and my baby will feel a little uncomfortable when he comes out, especially when he is too old to take it out, and he will feel that the knife edge is a little open. At this time, you should cooperate with the doctor, open your mouth to vent, keep the rhythm, don't breathe too fast, and breathe slowly.

3. It is best to bring an abdominal belt immediately after returning to the delivery room to help you recover the uterus and protect the knife edge. Pay attention to the abdominal belt, not the abdominal pants. Don't use a pillow, lie flat. Because it is local anesthesia, there may be a little pain after the anesthetic fails, and the baby will feel pain when nursing. It's time for the fucking test. Because of the operation, I have to wait for ventilation (commonly known as fart) before eating. You will feel uncomfortable when you urinate for the first time after the operation. Hold the wall with your hands slowly when squatting, but be sure to stick to it as soon as possible, which will help you discharge lochia as soon as possible. For reference.

What New Mothers Need to Know —— The 4th Notice in Baby's Daily Life

1, turn off the lights at night.

Some mothers are afraid that their babies are afraid of the dark at night, so they like to drive nightlight, which is also convenient for them to get up and take care of their babies. This is not good. Because newborns should develop good sleep habits, they must first distinguish between day and night. Baby bug has been sleeping in a crib since he was born. We never turn on the light except feeding him at night, so he has a good habit of not falling asleep for a day (that is, sleeping during the day and playing at night).

2. Don't put the baby's toys directly above the baby.

Because it is placed directly above, the baby's long-term attention will lead to cross-eye; Don't turn on small lights around the baby, which may lead to amblyopia. Finally, put it on the baby's chest, and change the position, don't always put it in one place.

3, the baby should immediately stand up and let him lie on your shoulder after eating milk, gently pat his back, and then put it down after hiccups to prevent spitting.

4. In order to prevent the baby from falling asleep. You can put some rice in a small cloth bag and put it behind your head when you lie on your side. Pay attention to changing your side every once in a while, so that you can sleep in a beautiful head shape.

When the baby is crying, the mother can pick it up, touch the baby's lips with her hands and move to both sides. If the baby's mouth changes direction with her fingers, it means he is hungry. Sometimes a baby just wants a hug from his mother and doesn't have to eat it.

6, sometimes you can let your baby cry loudly, which can increase his vital capacity and not hurt. That's a way for babies to keep healthy.

What a new mother needs to know-what does it mean for a baby to cry?

The biggest innovation of a newborn baby is that he can cry and express his birth by crying. Crying expresses many meanings, such as happiness, anger, hunger, thirst, pain, fear and so on. Crying is a way for babies to communicate with their parents. Young mothers are often unfamiliar with this language of "crying". As long as they hear the child crying, they will naturally pick him up, pat him or shake him, hoping to stop him from crying, but sometimes it doesn't work. This made the mother have a wish: how to understand the baby's crying language?

Generally speaking, mothers can understand children's needs better than fathers, which is a maternal instinct. Babies' cries really have different meanings. Acoustical research shows that every kind of crying of children has definite sound vibration, such as the tone of crying due to hunger is 250-450 Hz and the intensity is 80-85 dB. Although the mother can't strictly find out the full meaning of crying with instruments, careful observation will gradually identify the feelings and demands that the baby wants to express.

Several basic physiological activities of a baby, such as feeding, sleeping and urinating, all have certain timeliness and regularity. The baby cried to remind his mother: I'm sleepy. Cry to my mother: I'm wet. Therefore, close to these regular times, the baby's crying is easy to understand. If the child's wishes are satisfied-enough food, enough sleep, changing diapers and getting well, the child's crying will naturally stop. If you satisfy your child's desire before predicting possible problems, you can avoid crying. This is the cry of the baby to express his wishes, which is physiological.

Another kind of crying is pathological. For example: sharp crying reminds people of encephalitis and meningitis; Paroxysmal crying reminds people of intestinal spasm; After falling, if crying intensifies, think of a fracture; Crying for a long time may be related to diet and chronic indigestion.

Babies not only express themselves by crying, but also respond decisively. When the baby is quiet, if he hears other babies crying, he will join in the crying. When a baby cries and hears other babies cry, it will stop crying. These are the conclusions observed by two American psychologists. This shows that babies can distinguish between themselves and others' crying. What's even more surprising is that researchers at the University of Washington in the United States put forward that "infants aged 65,438+08-20 weeks can express their wishes through lip movements", which provides a possibility for people not only to distinguish the requirements and cries of infants, but also to try to communicate with infants through lip reading. I hope you can master the baby's language so skillfully.

The sixth thing that new mothers need to know-tableware

1, milk bottle (AVENT'\PIGEON'\NUK\ yellow duckling): 2- 1 large (240ml), 1 small (150ml), suitable for microwave ovens, and easy to clean wide-mouth glass. (If you breastfeed exclusively, you don't need a bottle for 4 months.)

My experience: I bought Anyi's breast pump, brought two bottles, and prepared a NUK medium bottle, which can be used for 3 months.

2, nipple (5): small, cross-opening (yellow glue was used within one month after birth, and then white silica gel was used).

My experience: If you are determined to breastfeed, you don't have to buy too many pacifiers first. A pacifier is enough on the big and small bottles. At that time, I also bought a small NUK nipple, white silicone, 13 yuan, because the yellow use time was too short.

3. Bottle brush (1)

My experience: It is necessary. I bought Adelaide (1around 5 yuan), and some people recommended Hualin Beibei's, or Beiqin's, around 25 yuan.

4. Sterilization pot (1): large, (sterilization cabinet or microwave oven can be used instead).

My experience: I don't trust to disinfect cabinets. Microwave ovens need extra appliances. I use an old steel pan, but it is more convenient to disinfect it with a special microwave oven. I haven't tried.

5, stainless steel pot (1): trumpet, cooking for the baby.

My experience: you don't need to add complementary food for four months. I didn't buy it.

6. Bottle insulation bag (1): used for insulation when going out.

My experience: because there is no need for breastfeeding, children usually don't go out for a long time when they are young, so they didn't buy it.

7. Milk warmer (1): double barrels. (If you don't need a milk warmer, heat the milk with water of about 40 degrees, and don't use a microwave oven or boiled water to avoid destroying nutrients. )

My experience: Breastfeeding is not necessary.

8. Baby Bowl and Spoon (1 set): used when the baby is older.

My experience: Newborn babies also need it. The baby takes medicine in the hospital and then drinks water. Spoons for babies are generally not easy to sprinkle, while spoons for adults are easy to sprinkle. This thing is quite useful.

9, breast pump (1): breast pump is a very useful thing, not only can avoid the pain of hand squeezing at the beginning of milk rise, but also provide convenience for mother to go out to work in the future. As for the brand of breast pump, mothers unanimously reflect that Anyi is the best to use, and some even call it the savior of breastfeeding.

The Seventh Thing New Mothers Need to Know-Bathing Tools

1, Bath: 1

My experience: it is necessary.

2, washbasin: 2

My experience: it is necessary, mainly to wash clothes and bottoms. I wash her face with absorbent cotton balls, and she blinks with a towel.

3. Take a bath with 1 or use a natural sponge.

My experience: I bought a gauze bath towel, and it is better to take off the mask at home, which is more absorbent.

4. The big towel 2 is used for wiping

My experience: I bought three bath towels at a time. In addition to wiping my body, it can also be used as a quilt cover, which can be placed behind the baby when nursing sideways to avoid her effort.

5. Small towel 10(70×35cm) for washing buttocks' (20* 15) for wiping mouth, and gauze towel is very good.

My experience: buy more gauze towels and less towels. I bought nine pieces of gauze and three towels. Washing your ass with a mask from home is better than buying it, and it absorbs water. You don't need to buy a good gauze towel, and the cheap one will come off the line after several washes.

6. NUK 1 :Nuk is too expensive. It is better to buy a water temperature meter for Adelaide, as long as

Measure the water temperature, don't be too extravagant.

My experience: it is necessary.

7. Powder puff box 1

My experience: It is necessary to be born in summer. There is a brand called Lebeier (like a dozen dollars) that can put powder in a puff, and it is very easy to use by rubbing a thin layer. It is better to dip it in. I bought Adelaide before, and then I saw this and made this.