They fell in love 20 years ago, and they still hold each other's hands after experiencing entrepreneurial failure and depression.

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They fell in love 20 years ago, and they still hold each other's hands after experiencing entrepreneurial failure and depression.

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If there is fate between people, they will always meet across the mountain.

And Han's sister is like this.

By chance, I helped her write some copywriting.

She likes my writing, and I like her cool personality.

We haven't met yet.

From the solstice of summer to this autumn, she has been busy transforming the handmade space.

I design, decorate and plant plants myself ... I describe her ideals bit by bit in the steps of time.

Handmade space has changed from an abandoned factory to a space of life and interest. I was at the other end, witnessing this process. How many hardships, in the hands of a thick cocoon.

When we communicate occasionally, she will happily share the changes in space, such as painting a wall with her brother, driving to the mountains with her brother to pick up dead branches to create a scene, and planting a lot of Gesang flowers in the garden with her brother. ...

Yes, with my brother.

When I said this for the first time, I thought she was spreading dog food, but I knew it was a natural and common emotional expression. It makes people feel warm and vivid.

At the end of this summer, I went to Yongchuan to see her. Their family drove to the station to meet me.

I'm finally going to meet her brother.

Brother Yong is the eldest brother, his son is the younger brother, and his eldest daughter is in high school. The kind of care, understanding, support, responsibility, commitment, protection and companionship among family members … deeply shocked me.

True love can't be hidden.

In her studio, we chatted.

The prosperity and wind and rain of the first half of my life are condensed into one day.

In the early 1980s and 1990s, Yongchuan was still a small town surrounded by mountains and waters.

Streets are old and rivers flow eastward.

She grew up here, with a rich family and no worries about food and clothing. The father didn't ask too much for his daughter's studies, but he repeatedly asked for it on the principle of being a man.

Love, but don't be spoiled.

Seventeen or eighteen years old, standing on the skating rink, free and easy, is a girl who can shine when Lian Xiao rises.

This light fell into a teenager's heart and began to be dense.

From then on, when he looks at her, April flowers will bloom in his eyes.

They became friends.

At that time, she was lively and provocative, with many suitors. He watched everything, waiting for the opportunity to enter her heart. It is a social practice activity. It was hot in summer, and others dispersed before the agreed time limit. Only he is with her.

They see a kind of persistence in each other. He helped her carry heavy objects and sent her home at night.

On midsummer night, there are occasional breezes and bright moons. They walked home slowly, talking about the future and ideals. Under the starry sky, young love slowly grows a vine covered with pink buds.

Later, in the long and hasty years, he would accompany her in everything she insisted on doing.

But more, it is a kind of mutual understanding and support.

There is no suitable match.

A father knew his daughter and gave her to him.

Life is just a choice. She has never suffered, but she is not afraid to suffer with him. A deep affection is also a gamble.

After all, five years of love, if others are afraid of boredom, is firm, is a lifelong commitment to each other.

Brother Yong is ambitious and vows to make a difference.

She accompanied him to start a business and open a factory.

Both of them are simple and straightforward people who don't understand the world and the subtle relationship between shopping malls and officialdom. It took a year to run the factory and equipment alone. This year, the twists and turns between various units and people exhausted money and energy.

Talking about this hardship between a cup of tea, they all sighed: "I was too young."

I'm too young to have the courage to hit the south wall, but I'm also going to break my head.

The factory finally opened, and the products are sold all over the country because of their high quality and good benefits. Later, the factory had to shut down because the voltage was unstable and could not be solved. Long-term shutdown, no income, no money for workers' wages.

They were more anxious than the workers and couldn't sleep all night. Finally, they sold the house they bought when they got married and paid the workers.

When the economy is in trouble, it is rich since childhood. Shopping has always been to buy a full set of girls from head to toe in brand stores, falling from the peak of life and losing all the aura. However, I also saw the ordinary and impermanence of life, and began to understand the inner wealth and peace, which is more satisfying than the beautiful fantasy brought by squandering money.

She said that the greatest advantage of herself and Brother Yong is that she knows how to reflect on herself. Instead of blaming each other. There's never been a one-night vendetta. There are concessions, understanding and love.

After 20 years of marriage, they will discuss all aspects of life together before going to bed, including parents, work, children, life, problems encountered and solutions.

People have different responsibilities at different stages of life. Always distinguish the importance of life in the busy, in order to make a home stable enough.

The darkest and bleakest day in twenty years was when the old man in the family was seriously ill in hospital and her second child was just born. In order to support his family, Brother Yong went out to earn money. She runs back and forth between the hospital and home every day, trying to take care of two places, and finally she is exhausted in isolation. Anxiety and depression come uninvited.

Since then, Brother Yong hasn't gone out for a long time, even if there are better opportunities to make money. They realize the importance of companionship, to each other, to the elderly and children.

Later, I opened a restaurant, and my business was booming. Because I didn't have much time to spend with my children, I chose to change careers behind closed doors. At that time, she came into contact with tea and handicrafts and found a world in them. Brother Yong studies with her. They do small hand-made experiences at home and do reading and sharing activities. ...

The human touch in that atmosphere brought everyone back. Gradually, the family can no longer accommodate more and more people who have heard of it.

So there is a special manual space, and then there is a "tea mountain interest."

She used to accompany Ge Yong to start a business, but now Ge Yong is accompanying her to do manual space.

Whenever there is an opportunity, they will learn all kinds of traditional handicrafts together.

Keep moving.

Hand in hand, walk side by side.

At dinner, Brother Yong brought back a pot of pepper fish by car.

That pepper fish shop has been open for twenty years. She often goes when she is in love with Brother Yong. In the past 20 years, great changes have taken place in the world, and the old streets and alleys in the city have been transformed. Many traces of youth have been lost, but the taste of pepper fish has not changed, and love has not changed.

After a day of chatting, I'm still unfinished, and dusk is coming. They took me to the station. I was in a hurry when I was caught in a traffic jam. They are more anxious than me. The car couldn't get into the square, so she got off and ran all the way with me to the entrance, and then waved goodbye.

At that time, the sunset on the horizon fell, and there was a crimson sunset in the corner of the city.

On the high-speed rail, I always thought that if we could talk about a love, it would be the 1980s and 1990s.

If you love each other, you can walk hand in hand.

Life is never smooth sailing, there are green hills, and there is no fear of burning firewood. It is often calm, and then it is stormy and ups and downs.

If it is not abandoned, it is a long-term love.

You can always be happy if you don't ask much.

Me: Many people don't believe in long-term love. People will face many temptations all their lives. Some people can suffer, but they may not share the same happiness. I want to know, how do you still love each other so much and feel new to each other after 20 years of marriage?

Implication: There are many temptations. But separation and firmness are a choice. In fact, we will quarrel, but we will reflect on our actions and make some concessions appropriately. As for the novelty, perhaps we have never stopped learning, and there is a synchronization in our hearts.

Me: Why do you love handcrafting?

Moral: Because writing can make people slow down and calm down. When people are quiet, the autumn moon in Pinghu is in my heart, disturbing the outside world. In fact, handicraft is a medium to heal oneself.

Me: This year in 2020, you ...

Moral: 2020, our 20th wedding anniversary. Look at 2020 and 20. This string of numbers is "love you, love you, love you". Isn't it interesting, hahaha?

Me: Me ...

Life is always full of storms.

When two people get along, they are always used to asking each other for an umbrella.

Later, one side gradually realized that he was right, and one side was inevitably tired.

But Sister Han and Brother Yong, they always hold umbrellas for each other in the first place.

So love will not fade.

Want to write such a series, is the idea of years ago. We live in a bustling and complicated city, and a person is a life attitude and lifestyle. Aside from the anxiety, impatience and fear caused by realistic pressure, there are always some people who can maintain their peace and joy, persistence and persistence in addition to their materialistic desires. Therefore, I want to see TA and understand the attitude and significance of life conveyed by what she loves and abides by. Maybe I can show you some differences in life.

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