What have you learned from stepping into society?

1, you don't like this either, so you don't like it either. Do you think this society cares about your opinion? What do you think is the use of

What have you learned from stepping into society?

1, you don't like this either, so you don't like it either. Do you think this society cares about your opinion? What do you think is the use of getting used to it? You think everyone is less thoughtful and knowledgeable than you. In fact, everyone can see through it, but everyone knows it's useless. If you don't like anything, the end result is that you will be disliked by this era.

People who are versatile and can't make ends meet are not unaware that what they do is greasy and not advanced, but have to.

2. When many people judge you, they are just venting their inner thoughts. For example, when you go to an ordinary class, some people say that you are not free, some people say that you are far from home, and some people say that your salary is low.

In fact, they each have their own intentions, and each knows whether they are envious or jealous. You should believe that those who really despise you will not take you seriously.

3. Don't be a bad person.

I work 40 kilometers away from home, and sometimes I drive to pick up my colleagues. At first, I felt very happy that I could help everyone. Gradually formed a habit, sometimes afraid to go to the gym before going back.

A few times, because I didn't go home, I heard someone speak ill of me behind my back, saying that I deliberately didn't send them back. I am sorry to hear such a rumor.

So now I just want to leave, and occasionally my colleagues will be happy to rub my car. Don't get into the habit of being a good person, it will only make you very tired.

Only if you are strong enough, people who follow you can enjoy your care. Buying tens of thousands of clothes for parents with a monthly salary of 3 thousand is not filial piety, but ignorance and shallowness.

Please keep your mouth shut about the secret that others have told you. When the other person tells you that he trusts you, maybe you don't think it is very important. If you say it casually as a joke, it may be a fatal blow to the other party, and it will also leave the impression of "big mouth" in others' hearts.

6. Bowing your head to please others is not only useless, but also makes others feel that you are weak and step on your head to bully you. Striving for strength and providing value is the "hard currency" to survive in this society.

7. You are too anxious because you think too much and read too little. You may stick to the habit of reading for a day or a week, but as long as you stick to it for a month, you will find that not only your temperament has improved, but also the views in your mind are different from before.

8. A person's energy is really limited. When studying, I don't feel tired playing games all night. Now I am very tired from work during the day, and I just want to lie quietly when I go home.

If you are not absolutely sure, don't tell a lie. Sometimes, in order to cover up a meaningless lie, you will cover it up with dozens of new lies until one day, because of this meaningless lie, all your people collapse.

10, parents are really old.

When I study, I will share any troubles with my parents. They will give me a lot of advice and help me solve them. Now that I am working, tell them about my troubles at work, and they will always say, "Be a man and know how to suffer", "Don't care too much" and "No matter what you do, we are behind you". They are old, and things in the workplace can't help, so they can only play the role of listeners.

Instead, I am afraid that they will be cheated now. There are so many swindlers in the society now, and deception emerges one after another. So I usually tell them that if you want to spend more than 10000 yuan, you must call me for details. My parents are not as powerful as you think. The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop. I hope everyone will cherish it.

1 1, no complaints, no negative energy. Yes, busy work, high pressure and tired life not only exist in your life, but also in most people's lives.

So please don't be full of negative energy in social occasions every time, and tell others about your great colleagues, troublesome work and unsatisfactory feelings. Life itself is very tiring, and no one wants to be with a guy who exudes negative energy.

12. When it comes to one's own interests, no one can give in. Do you think that if you are kind to others, others will be kind to you? Leave yourself a card. It's childish. Don't tell anyone everything, or you won't know when you are in trouble.

13, learning to be content is a very important thing. It's okay at school. No matter how different our economy is, it's just the difference between you and me, but after a few years out of society, our material gap is particularly obvious.

At this time, don't blame your parents for not being rich and second generation. Learn to be content with the status quo, and at the same time, fight for everything you want.

14, you can dislike or not touch a person, but don't look down on anyone. The worse the luck now, the better the next time. The attitude of others towards you depends on your attitude towards others.

15, you don't have to tell others about your difficulties and sufferings. No one will sympathize with your situation at all, and even feel glad when you know that you are not doing well. Just admit it, except for your closest relatives, there are not many people in the world who want you to live well.

They will only give you charity when you are too poor to eat or live, but that's not because you are poor, but because they feel that they are still a kind person in their hearts.

16, no matter how hard it is, don't send it to a circle of friends. No one will sympathize with you, and you will attract many people who watch your jokes.

17. Life never calls you before going to bed and says, "Be good, touch your head and I'll tell you the truth." It will only growl at your big mouth: "boy, learn!" "

18, money is never enough, learn to save money.

When I was in college, the money spent on meals in a month was 1000 yuan. At that time, I had surplus food every month, so I could travel once a year. Now after work, the monthly salary plus part-time income is tens of thousands. Unfortunately,

Faced with a mountain of mortgages, I still scrimp and save. Learn to save money and control your desires. You never know when you will need money.

19, don't give directions to others unless they ask. You take the initiative to show others that you think you are better than him. People don't accept your advice, which means they think you are not smart.

20, meaningless social as far as possible to avoid. Time is limited. If you spend your limited time on self-improvement, many friends will basically never meet again. Why waste time in this place? Spend more time with parents and partners. They are the people who will accompany you all your life.

2 1, I don't know when it started, but the time seems to have been accelerated. I used to feel that time was inexhaustible, and the day was very long. I hope time is faster and I can go out early to earn money. Now I just hope that time will get slower and slower, but I feel that a year has passed quickly.

22. Don't lend money to your friends. Talking about money between friends hurts feelings. Once a friend borrowed money from me. I was in a bad mood and didn't borrow it. My words are even heavier. He thought I hurt his self-esteem, deleted my WeChat, and never contacted him again.

23. Stay up late less, read more books, drink more water and exercise more. A 22-year-old girl died of si before, and then a 25-year-old fairy died of myocardial infarction. Youth is never a capital, but a healthy body is.

24. Don't think that the world is completely fair and just. The fact is that many people with bad conduct and small stomachs live far better than you. But we should stick to our own principles and values. This is not a shortcut to success, but it is the only way to happiness.

25. Visit a friend's house. No matter how good the relationship is, remember to bring something. At least the bag is spicy anyway.

26. With your present temperament, there are books you have read, roads you have traveled and people you have loved. No matter how beautifully dressed you are, you can really sit down and talk for a while. Read more books. It's always right to go out for a walk.

27. There are fewer people or things you don't like, and your ability to understand others is getting stronger and stronger. This is a sign of maturity.

1, someone who can sit in a certain position,

There must be something extraordinary about him,

No matter how much you hate him.

Although some people look incompetent and annoying, we have to admit that there must be a reason why people can climb to this position. You just don't want to admit it yourself

2, recognize a person and see what he does, not what he says. It is said that it's my treat tonight. When everyone was full, he went to the toilet. Such people can be hacked.

3. The person who will refute you as soon as the words fall, has a high probability of not having an opinion on your words, but having an opinion on you. It is common in life that they will look at what a person does and says with prejudice. Whatever you do is wrong in his eyes. In the face of such unreasonable people, just stick to your own point of view and ignore it.

4. only care about things related to yourself. Whether you are a billionaire or a government official. I don't care if you don't plan to give me 350 million yuan, or you don't plan to promote me as a deputy place. Doing business, seeking truth from facts.

5. Talk nonsense when you meet people. This is not hypocrisy, but ability.

6. Use less sarcasm and rhetorical questions for people close to you. "Didn't I say it many times?" "Shut up" and "Go away, I'll do it myself". Maybe you will feel nothing, but these words are tied to each other and hurt people. When you are in a bad mood, control your temper and be more patient with people close to you. Only those who are kind to outsiders and important to themselves can do better.

7. The more blx, the easier it is to worry about others scolding you; The more you worry about being scolded by others, the less you dare to make mistakes; The less you dare to make mistakes, the less pressure and responsibility you will bear; The less you dare to bear the pressure, the less opportunities you have to learn and grow; The less you grow, the more stupid you become. Many people, their lives have been wasted. So don't blx, just add drama to yourself.

8. pretend to be a grandson occasionally. There are always some people who are afraid that you will become better than them. If you are too good, they will be jealous and will pull you back. If you are too bad, they will belittle you and laugh at you; Only when you are similar to them will they be particularly comfortable and treat you as one of their own. So it can save a lot of trouble to have grandchildren occasionally. Why not?

9. Don't trust verbal promises. Many people don't take what they have said seriously.

10, it is easy to take the road planned by the elders, but it is difficult to take your own road, but the more you go, the more hopeful you are. You can listen carefully to the advice and guidance of ordinary elders, but the final choice must be decided by yourself. If you don't want to live a boring life like them, then find your own way, even if the road is difficult, at least you have no regrets.

1 1, good se is human nature, but don't indulge in color. Both extubation and pornography are poisons, which are addictive and harmful. People who are addicted to lust will be in poor health, look wretched, have a confused mind and have no energy, and live like a walking corpse every day, let alone make achievements. Learn to control your body with your mind.

12. Learn to express your gratitude. Many young people in the workplace are afraid to disturb others. Although they are grateful after getting help from others, they don't know what to do. It's simple. When someone helps you, sincerely say thank you, and then invite the other person to dinner, your relationship will often warm up in the process. Don't be silly, do nothing. Interpersonal relationship is not a profound knowledge. If you help me, I will repay you. It's that simple.

13. When doing things and joking, please distinguish between occasions. When you are with your elders, especially the older ones, try not to use some network terms when you speak, and patiently teach them to use these electronic devices. Your elders like what they say is the best.

14, don't give others stickers at will. Many times, we will judge a person because of the phenomenon of "beauty is good", but people are multifaceted. If you want to know a person, the quickest way is to know his performance when he is angry and loses his temper.

15, people who are embarrassed will always be bullied and have no status. Sorry to greet colleagues, eat with colleagues, pursue, ask questions you don't understand, admit mistakes, force customers to place orders, refuse things they don't want to do, and ask friends for your money. Sorry, not all the opportunities are yours. Don't be embarrassed, when you are young, your face is nothing.

16, you can't please everyone, because some people are not human sometimes. Most people are kind, but if you think everyone has a good side, you haven't met everyone yet.

17, don't flaunt yourself with other people's lives. You go to a village far away to buy rice. On the way, you met a young man herding cattle. Seeing him lying on the grass leisurely and interestingly, you stopped to talk with him for a long time. As a result, his cows are full, and your family is still waiting for your meal.

18, the usefulness of contacts is reflected in how valuable you are. A worthless person, no matter how hard he tries to manage his contacts, is in vain, because he can't produce value to others, and his initial intention is only to curry favor with others and improve himself. A network of valuable people is effective. Only by promoting each other will others be willing to associate with you.

19. A friend who wants you to have a good life is unlikely to want you to have a better life than him. You should believe that jealousy will always exist, as long as you accept those jealousy by default and don't hurt yourself.

20. Don't point out anything about others unless the other party takes the initiative to ask for advice. Whether you are really smart or just think you are smart.

2 1, some people always say that the body is the capital of the revolution, but we are always avoiding it. Steaming hamburgers and passionate cokes, accompanied by your chic and happy life, will always make you live a life you hate. The once strong chest muscles and handsome face are gone forever. While enjoying this life, you might as well forget the state at that time, go out for a run and play ball, say hello to friends passing by and say hello to fresh air.

22. Know people, don't judge them, and don't argue.

People with high emotional intelligence will never talk too much about others. After all, everyone is multifaceted, and it is subjective and impolite to judge others. Being familiar with things and not arguing about trivial matters is also a kind of tolerance.

23, a little close to the outspoken problem, must be changed! When you get along with anyone, you should pay attention to your discretion. Don't think that just because you are close, you can come with your mouth open and dare to say anything, which will definitely offend people! Few people are willing to be criticized by the other side, and few people can accept the so-called truth. How many old iron feelings are worth a sincere word!

24. Except for the life-saving money, I didn't intend to get it back when I gave it to you. Don't borrow other money. Loans, flowers and credit cards are very convenient now.

25. To tell the truth, being beautiful is really useful!

26. Don't try to convince anyone. It's useless to read Shuowen here. I took it at that time and changed it back soon. It is most effective to save the time of speaking and crush it with actions and results.

27. Without true empathy, everyone's pain is only known to himself. Don't use morality and compassion to persuade others to understand others. Just because you don't hurt yourself doesn't mean others don't.

28, learn to speak in two years, learn to shut up all your life!

The word "outspoken" is no longer a neutral word. After all, the mouth is faster than the brain, and there is no emotional intelligence ... Be careful, say less and make fewer mistakes.

29. Don't use your dabbling to challenge other people's majors.

Let's extend this one. If there is bing, go to a regular hospital. Don't be blind and don't ask questions.

30. Advice should be a booster for others, not a stumbling block. "Your plan is good, but it would be better if you changed it here." Your plan is not good. There may be hope if you change it. "Two identical suggestions, completely different ways. The first one sounds more comfortable. Praise you first and then point out the problem, which will be happily accepted. The second direct negative scheme leaves no room. This stumbling block proposal directly breaks the most vulnerable line of defense of people's hearts, and makes the parties suffer a blow, feeling that the scheme they have worked so hard to come up with is useless, thus giving up or losing confidence.

32. You can be kind, but sharp. As the saying goes, "people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden." It is foolish to be too kind. Kindness is a virtue, but it is best to have principles and leave a little margin.

33. People who seldom receive goodwill but keep a kind heart are not without experience of darkness, but always long for light. At some point in the future, they will shine brilliantly and usher in their highlight moment.

1. Don't shout "unfair" because society is unfair.

Acquaintances can use the back door, and friends are preferred. This is the present situation of society.

If someone asks you for advice, don't really give it foolishly, be sure to think it over before you speak.

The other person may just say some polite words, he just wants to get your approval and praise. If you really give an opinion, the other party will be unhappy.

If you want to be a leader with a promotion and salary increase, you can't just concentrate on learning technology.

Those who are promoted by superiors are often not the best skilled people. In management, the more important abilities are the execution ability to push the project forward and the communication ability to coordinate the relationship between superiors and subordinates.

In society, it is difficult to find the pure friendship without interest in school.

When you are in power, a group of people will gather around and want to make friends with you. They are very enthusiastic. When you lose power, these people will change their attitude towards you.

Don't give in easily on matters related to your own interests.

Concessions often can't solve the problem, others will only think that you are easy to bully, or even worse for you. So we should actively strive for our own interests.

6. Don't change jobs frequently, focus on a certain field and become an expert in this field.

Many technologies require the accumulation of experience and the precipitation of time. Job-hopping is too frequent and you can't get in touch with the core technology. Only by mastering the core technology will you be more valuable.

7. Don't trust other people's opinions easily, but learn to judge right and wrong by yourself.

Other people's views on something are only his one-sided words, and everyone will say something beneficial to himself. You have to listen to more people's opinions and infer the facts before you can see the truth clearly.

8. A person's reputation is very important. Don't ruin your image because of petty gain.

If you have a bad reputation, you can't move.

9. If you change jobs several times and feel dissatisfied with your job, it may be your own problem.

Every company is not perfect, and there are more or less unreasonable places. If you think a company has prospects, you should try to accept its imperfections. No one will tailor a company for a migrant worker.

10. Be low-key and do high-profile things.

Be humble and polite, and show your manners. Proactive, stand out from the crowd.

1 1. Sometimes, choice is more important than hard work.

Choosing the right industry and following the right boss will make your career develop faster.

12. Be a man and know how to choose.

When you pursue what you want, you often have to give up something. If you want everything, you will often get nothing in the end.

13. People should learn to take responsibility.

You only need to study when you go to school, and everything else is carried by your parents for you. When we step into the society, we should take the initiative to share the responsibility for our parents and contribute to our family.

14. In the workplace, if you don't understand the meaning of the leader, you must ask more why, and remember not to pretend to understand.

The leader won't mind you asking him more questions, but he will be very concerned that you will misunderstand. The leader said a, but you heard B.

15. Not many people care about you, so you should learn to care about yourself.

16. Learn to learn actively and don't dawdle.

After five years, the ability and knowledge of those who study hard and those who muddle along will be very different.

17. Learn to look at problems from the boss's point of view.

What the boss needs is someone who can help him solve the problem. Doing things from the boss's point of view can not only break the limitations of your own thinking, but also gain the appreciation of your boss more easily.

18. Don't try to convince others.

Everyone's cognitive range is different, and one can't understand what is beyond cognition. What I want to say is beyond the cognition of the other party. No matter what, he won't be persuaded by you.

19. If someone helps you, you should express your gratitude with substantive actions.

Don't just say thank you, either invite someone to dinner or send a gift to express your gratitude.

20. Even if someone hurts you in words, don't lose hope in society.

Although not everyone has goodwill, after all, there are far more good people than bad people. With the growing strength of the motherland and the gradual improvement of people's lives, society will surely become more and more beautiful.