Some people call Chen Sicheng "love rat of genius". what do you think?

On the afternoon of October 9th, 65438/KLOC-0, disciple Zhuo Wei broke the news that Chen Sicheng was exposed in the middle of the night with two women. At 0: 49 am and 2: 58 am, two women entered the hotel room in Chen Sicheng. When opening the door for the second woman, Chen Sicheng changed her clothes from black to white bathrobe. The reporter waited at the door of the room until 6 o'clock, but no girl left the room. Until noon the next day, Chen Sicheng went out of the hotel to the set, and three people spent the night in the presidential suite.

As soon as the news came out, some people ridiculed that the program "Real Men" was poisonous, and whoever participated in it would have an affair. However, the pair of Chen Sicheng and Yaya makes people feel particularly sorry and distressed.

Chen Sicheng and Yaya 20 10 fell in love for filming the TV series Beijing Love Story. In the play, Shen Bing and the madman deeply loved each other but finally left regrets, while Chen Sicheng and Yaya, the talented women and beauties, happily held hands and envied others for a while.

In my impression, Ya Ya, a girl from Xinjiang, has a beautiful pear vortex in her mouth. When I participated in Real Man, although I was still a delicate body not long after giving birth, I had an indomitable spirit, which made people feel distressed and admired, and made people love her even more.

"detective chinatown" is so amazing, and it looks so good when you smile. Gossip about Chen Sicheng is rare. They used to be a model couple in everyone's eyes, but no one thought that there was a huge bubble behind the loving couple, which would burst at once.

It seems that many public figures have cheated this year. Everyone is a person we don't think will cheat, and everyone is a person who plays the image of love. Every time the news comes out, we will be amazed: he cheated! !

How much infidelity are we not aware of?

We always think that cheating in love is basically a small probability event, just like feelings or marriage. The train runs on its own track, and it can't get off the track without signal failure or operation error. You see, since 1876, when the first railway in China was opened to traffic, during the period of 140, almost no train derailed.

But this is not the case.

I have seen colleagues who are called "the most model husband" around me also prostitute themselves; I heard that a newly married man came to me to complain that he was only married to get married and that he was going to cheat; I know the man who shows his love to his girlfriend in the circle of friends every day, and comes out to have sex on the eve of the wedding; I also saw the prodigal son play a big circle and said that he would stop playing, but he sent his dick thousands of miles away in one sentence.

Remember, men never miss the opportunity to try new things.

In fact, women are also like this.

On weekdays, my husband and I love each other. Because of a big fight, I was extremely sad and miserable. Let me find someone to comfort, and I was interrupted by the so-called old classmates. My husband went on a business trip for a day, met an old love, vividly recalled the past and talked about bed together; Somehow I want to try someone else. After all, others are so old, I also want to try. I secretly made an appointment with a younger one, and it felt really bright and clear. Pick up the children from school, talk about the children with their classmates' fathers, and have a particularly congenial chat, and then talk about the disharmony of their respective marriages. Appreciate each other and shake hands happily. ...

I am a member of ordinary people, and what I have experienced around me is a portrayal of the lives of countless ordinary people. I have read all these stories about cheating, and I know cheating is never a small probability event. 95% of people will cheat at least once in their lives, and even this number will be higher.

When men cheat, they always want to pretend to show off with their buddies, which seems to be a symbol of charm and sexual ability. Women usually sneak out when they cheat, and even girlfriends don't say that a person steals a bite and spits, as if nothing happened.

My friend said: Ya Ya is so beautiful and perfect. Why did Chen Sicheng cheat?

I said that because cheating has always been related to human nature, men naturally prefer early adopters, and women naturally like to seek satisfaction.

Before the ancients could not call it human, males conquered one female after another to declare their sovereign territory, in order to have more females.

Males never seem satisfied with having a female.

Women fall in love with those powerful men, giving them a sense of security and satisfaction. Once this sense of security and satisfaction is not enough to support their current needs, they begin to look for the next goal.

This is probably the embodiment of human nature at the beginning. In today's highly civilized society, the outside will change and the inside will remain unchanged. No matter how beautiful you are, I still want to try others.

This matter, for the spectators, may be just talk after dinner, may be a grievance to Yaya, and may be a few words of blame to Chen Sicheng. We can casually say that it has nothing to do with ourselves: cheating is the bottom line, and Ya Ya quickly told Chen Sicheng to fuck off.

For ya ya, it's far from that simple. What she experienced and felt was extraordinary pain and helplessness.

Just like flogging a person, we will say it hurts, but you don't know how much it hurts except that you are beaten yourself.

However, people are often particularly willing to make excuses for each other, especially men. Even the advertising words of "Where is Dad?" created by LeTV. Yes: Good TV choice! Dad went home early!

What does this mean? To what extent is this social atmosphere recognized by everyone?

When the incident was exposed, the party's favorite excuse was that he made a mistake that "every man" would make. The so-called "everyone" is just finding a fig leaf for his disgusting behavior.

Cheating is really unforgivable, especially during pregnancy, which is a double injury. However, it seems to be a blessing that how many of you have cheated on each other without knowing it and thought you were happy all your life.

We are all artists, and we don't lose professional actors in our lives. You saw me, but I want you to see me.

Maybe I played honesty and responsibility for you. Maybe I also showed you housekeeping and virtue. Love can be interpreted.

Some people have profound deductive ability, until one day you can't believe that this is what the other person can do.

However, this is the truth of life.

You don't know that the woman in front of you who has just worked overtime for an hour has actually just experienced a car shock, because half an hour is enough.

You don't know the man in front of you who went out to play billiards with his buddies. When he was on the phone, he listened to the sound of the billiard hall, hung up the phone and went to open an hourly room the next second, or rented a single apartment by his family. He doesn't need to register an ID card.

Leave no evidence.

This is one of countless infidelities that you don't realize.

However, we are called people because we have the consciousness and self-control to restrain our nature and inner desires, and we should have a sense of responsibility worthy of the title of "people".

If not, let your nature develop and not control it, which is different from animals wanting to mate when they are in love.

People must have desires, but please remember that your desires cannot be greater than your morality.