Why is Apple Girl a heartthrob in the office?

Apple is fresh, fragrant, tangible, faithful to its natural attributes, quiet and shiny. Apple girl seems to have an apple temperament, just like apple, fresh, healthy and natural, always appearing in every place that can not be ignored. They are always full of energy, bright and relaxed, smiling and radiating every colleague with confidence, and everything is under control. This bright magnetic field always brings her to the place where her eyes gather. These apple girls are easily reused and pushed to the stage, which is an indispensable A-corner. In sharp contrast with Apple Girl, there is another group of people-cookie girl. They are always associated with overtime and self-abuse office lifestyle. They work hard, but they are untidy. Although the boss can't give up on them, they can only be the B corner of the rescue silently. Day after day, cookie girl is squeezed more nervous and cautious. Maybe she once boasted that she was a butter biscuit, but in the end she would only become a compressed biscuit.

A Corner of Apple Girl's Misunderstanding: Apple Girl or Cookie Girl? A woman with a little brain will choose the former. But prejudice must be corrected. Apple girl is not the fox people think. However, a perfect apple woman must practice from the outside, unkempt and plain, and only a biscuit woman can beat it. What Apple Girl is best at and has the most capital is to handle everything lightly and quietly use the most popular things for her own use. They are mature, independent and a little provocative, and regard healthy, elegant or unrestrained sexual behavior as enjoyment rather than consumer goods.

If you think Apple Girl only depends on her face, you are wrong again. The charm of Apple Girl lies in her temperament. They know best that before decorating their appearance, they should first decorate their intelligence. My heart will not beat too fast, I will only laugh lightly, and I will not cry loudly. Apple girls are a group of positive women, they know what is acceptance and what is release, and what they deserve will not be vague.

They are well aware of the rules of the game in the workplace and will not embarrass their opponents, let alone themselves. They even change their gender, play like men, but win like women. But they are not feminists, and they are not aggressive. If they are good, they can be kind and virtuous, tolerant and forbearing; They can also be "bad" and "bad" to be unrestrained and go their own way.

The best A-corner apple, but there is only one reason why a person will admire another person: she can do what you want to do but can't. Lisa, the senior director of the consulting company, is such an apple woman. Probably no one in the world will see Lisa haggard. She always appears in front of everyone sweetly, wears a delicate pink or purple suit, never wears makeup, never messes up her hair, and even lipstick hardly overflows her lip line. As a matter of fact, she spends no more than forty minutes every day in shaping a dignified and beautiful image. Lisa stays energetic because she keeps exercising and pays attention to health. She gets up before 7 o'clock every day, drinks a large glass of freshly squeezed juice and walks on the treadmill. After 40 minutes of exercise, she had no fat all over her body and a flat abdomen. It is really difficult for a woman with such perseverance to succeed in her career. Lisa is regarded as good-natured, popular and kind to friends and employees. More than 90% of the people who have been with her will say that she is good. And deeply admire her emotional intelligence value.

Lisa has her own set of secrets about the Apple Woman. When she got a new friend's business card, Lisa wrote down the time and place of meeting this person, his characteristics and the topic of conversation on the business card, and then gave it to the secretary to sort it out according to the occupation category. Before going to the appointment again, she will open the business card book and the secret file will come in handy immediately. Although LiSa is always too busy to socialize with friends and have afternoon tea, she always remembers to offer a little warmth at the most critical moment, so that although there are not many social parties, her popularity is just as good. This kind of "emotional investment method" is most worthy of OL learning to become an apple girl.

Being an Apple woman in an intrigue business environment doesn't mean just saying yes, not sayingno. Lisa has also touched those employees who are "opinionated and don't nod". When meeting this kind of person, she will pay attention to two principles: first, she will never quarrel face to face. If she is not satisfied with the way employees do things, she will never say him in front of others and will definitely invite him into the office to communicate with him; Second, anyone should have a second chance, and she will definitely give people a chance to make up for it, no matter what mistakes this person has made. However, if you know and don't change, don't blame her for being rude. So, don't think persimmon is a soft persimmon just because it looks glamorous.