What would you do if a colleague of the opposite sex gets drunk?

In fact, it is common for friends of the opposite sex to get drunk. I would not pretend to drink alone with someone of the opposite sex, let alone get drunk. If it is true that a friend of the opposite sex is drunk, I will call his family or other colleagues to send him home together.

Faced with such a sensitive question, I am still as subjective as ever, and I can answer whatever I think.

Regardless of men and women, if a colleague of the opposite sex is drunk, it is not intentional, and they may get along with each other. Of course, it is only a "possibility". If you do it intentionally, whether it is for work or personal reasons, etc., it can only be said to be targeted and whatever you want to do.

Under normal circumstances, what the drunk colleague does is:

1. Notify his relatives, friends, etc. to come and take him home.

2. Take a taxi or something and take him or her home directly.

3. People with certain knowledge can also find ways to relieve their hangover, and then send them home, or go home separately.

4. You can also go to the hotel, book a room for him and let him rest for a night.

All of these approaches are fine, but highlighting the opposite sex in the question is just to avoid embarrassment, so let me share my thoughts.

First of all, regardless of whether I am drunk or not, first tell my partner that I have been drinking and ask her to pick me up. By the way, tell her that a colleague of the opposite sex is drunk and ask her to come over and take care of me. If you don't have a partner, you can find someone in your family or friends of the opposite sex. Anyway, by letting the opposite sex take care of you, you can avoid a lot of unnecessary trouble.

Secondly, contact your colleagues’ same-sex friends or family members to come and help. As for those who are still boyfriends but not husbands, don't worry. Who knows if their relationship is good or not, I don't want to guess. Moreover, if a colleague’s family or friends arrive first, a friend of the same sex or her family can easily take care of her.

Finally, no matter who takes away my colleagues, be careful, try to be responsible to the end, follow them, and send them to where they want to go. Of course, it is best to wait until everyone is together and go together, otherwise no one will be embarrassed to be left on the road. People on your side can also explain that relatives and friends of colleagues have to wait.

This is my answer as a male. Of course, you still have to be careful when drinking. Drinking too much is not only harmful to the body, but also can cause you to lose consciousness, which is very dangerous. The above is my answer, thank you.

This issue is a bit tricky. Although it may cause misunderstanding, it is hard to bear. My approach is: Make an appointment with a colleague of the same gender as the drunkard. It would be better to be familiar with the drunkard, so that we can properly handle the drunkard's problem together.

1: Handling methods

Drunk people have different manifestations: some talk a lot and can talk about a small thing for a long time; some love to scold Yes, when he is drunk, he will think of things that were not drunk, and he will curse in the street after drinking, and scold the people who have offended him in the past; there is a crybaby, with snot and tears, telling stories that only he can understand; there is love. There are those who are careless and arrogant, using wine to hide their faces, scolding others, and being arrogant and unreasonable; there are those who are excited, wandering around after being drunk, even staying up for the rest of the night, acting willfully; I think: Drunken people are the most virtuous type of drunkards : Even if he fell asleep and refused to wake up, he probably didn't even know he was carrying it and throwing it into the river at this time. A colleague of mine is like this. He goes to bed after drinking. He doesn't say anything, doesn't lose his composure, doesn't make noises, and is quiet. He just waits for him to wake up after drinking, and he won't know anything when asked tomorrow.

Therefore, the easiest way to deal with the drunk person based on his condition is to send him home and have his family look after him. But it can also be troublesome if your family hates drinking.

One time I sent a colleague home after he drank too much. When his wife saw him, she got so angry that she cursed her and hid out because she disliked the smell of alcohol.

I just had to bite the bullet and help him to the sofa. Unexpectedly, before I could sit down, I vomited. The vomiting was a mess. The smell was quite pungent. I could only clean it up and find a washbasin towel. Wipe him with clean water and pour water to persuade him to drink. Drinkers cannot lack water. Seeing him sleeping peacefully, I got up and left. Then I found his wife and persuaded her to go home and take care of her, and then I felt relieved to go home.

The second thing is to accompany him (her) until he or she sobers up. If there are only two people of the opposite sex, it will be very inconvenient. Having someone of the same sex as the drunk can avoid suspicion and at least have someone to take care of you.

It makes sense for men and women not to be intimate with each other at critical moments.

Many times, some things cannot be explained clearly. Even if you have ten mouths, you cannot explain them clearly.

If the person of the opposite sex drinks with you and gets drunk after drinking too much, you must be responsible for properly arranging for him or her after drinking. It is better to have friends at the same table to help deal with it.

If you just encounter a drunk colleague by chance, it is best to directly notify his family to deal with it. Now that communications are so developed, it is not difficult to find his family members. Wait until other family members come to help deal with it, so as not to make the explanation unclear.

The current social reality is that almost all women hate men drinking, and too many men like to drink a little wine to relieve their worries due to stress. Regarding the contradiction of drinking, it is estimated that men and women have been integrated for generations. No one can solve something that cannot be solved.

Drunk people of the opposite sex must be handled with caution. After all, drunk people’s consciousness will not be too clear and their memory will be hazy. If your family members blame you or reprimand you, you will be speechless and unable to defend yourself.

Alcohol is very harmful to the body. I advise those who are good drinkers to eat alcohol in moderation and enjoy themselves to the fullest. Do not drink too much. Drinking too much, being ugly, and being bored by your family are all signs of a lack of drinking ethics. You can drink revolutionary wine every day, but you must not be greedy or drunk.

Depending on the distance of the relationship between colleagues, either send it to the drunken person’s home together with another suitable person, or notify the drunken person’s relatives to come. pick him up, or mobilize people close to him to send him back.

For those who are eating and drinking at the same table as you, if they are drunk, everyone present has the obligation to escort the drunken person home safely. This is for the less drunk person. If the drunk person is unconscious, he must call 120 for emergency treatment or be sent to the hospital in time and call his family members. Because there have been too many reports of drunken accidents over the years, which is really terrible. Therefore, at the wine table, be sure not to persuade or persuade others to drink. Drink as much as you can, and do not persuade others to drink without trying to avoid unnecessary trouble. If the person of the opposite sex you are drinking with is drunk, and there is no one else around, you should first see how drunk she is and ask her what's wrong with her? If she's just plain drunk, let her sober up. Drink more hot water, or lie down on the table and take a proper rest. If she is seriously drunk, she should be sent to the hospital immediately for emergency treatment and call her first to ask a good friend to take her to the hospital and take good care of her. After she feels better, she will escort her home with her friends. This is also the only way to avoid suspicion. Therefore, when you find someone at the wine table who is aware of drinking too much, you must stop them from drinking again. Just in case something unexpected happens.

First, let’s directly answer the last question you described.

If you are really drunk and lying on the street, then you must help. It doesn’t matter what colleagues, members of the opposite sex, or beautiful women, it’s just humanitarianism. After all, saving someone’s life is a good deed, at least for me. I strongly agree.

There are many ways to deal with an encounter. The safest way is to call the police, which can avoid a lot of gossip. (My comrades once got drunk at a party, and my boss called the police. The police did come and sent me to a hotel.

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You also have a question: What should I do if this female colleague gets drunk and gets into an accident?

The wine table and the booth, in other words, everyone sitting at the same table will participate in the compensation.

Finally, when you are worried about your husband encountering this kind of thing, you might as well open your mind. After all, everyone likes their significant other to be full of positive energy.

I once encountered a colleague of the opposite sex who was drunk. It really put me in a dilemma and made me extremely embarrassed.

Drinking is unavoidable in the workplace when encountering work or social events. When meeting female colleagues at the wine table, most of them drink some drinks. The few female colleagues who drink are just symbolic. I mean, there was a time when a female colleague was drunk. Now that I think about it, I still don’t know whether what I did was right or wrong.

One time, there was a dinner party held by the company at an event. There were about a dozen people, including several female colleagues. During the meal, the male colleagues drank and the female colleagues drank water or drinks. However, one female colleague also insisted on drinking some. Wine, so he drank and chatted with us. I don’t know how long it took, but I took a closer look and found that except for a few of us who were a little drunk, the rest of the people at the wine table had gone home early, including the female colleague who was drinking. She obviously drank a bit too much. , lying on the table with a red face. The male colleagues were also drunk, staggering around and pulling each other back home one after another. In the end, I found that only I and the female colleague who was sleeping on the table were left. This scene It made me extremely embarrassed all of a sudden. I couldn’t just walk away and leave my female colleague alone!

I was in a dilemma. It was definitely inappropriate to send her home. I was afraid of causing misunderstandings at this late hour, so I called the female colleagues who had left earlier, hoping that they would come and send her back. home, but they all said they were already asleep and it would be fine if I took them home. It really didn’t hurt my back to stand and talk. In the end, she had no choice but to call her husband. After briefly explaining the situation, she asked him to come and pick her up. Her husband was obviously a little unhappy.

Not long after the phone call, her husband came. Without even looking at me, he picked up his wife who was lying on the table and supported her while complaining and walked out the door without even saying hello. , leaving me alone and extremely embarrassed.

Since then, I have concluded that if you have a banquet with female colleagues, you must leave early and leave. This kind of embarrassing thing must not happen again.

At a co-worker gathering, the following should be kept in mind when dealing with drunken colleagues of the opposite sex.

1. Notify the co-worker’s spouse as soon as possible. If the distance is relatively close, wait for him to pick you up. In the meantime, you should pay attention to the condition of your colleagues and ensure that you do not endanger your life due to excessive drunkenness.

2. It is best to have two or more colleagues on site to avoid misunderstandings. If by chance you are the only one present, you can ask the waiter at the venue to come over or open the box door to show your innocence.

3. If a colleague is eager to go home. If you are there, do not drive your own car. Take a taxi to escort you back and write down the taxi license plate number. If colleagues are not in danger, they will be escorted to their homes without entering, and their families will be notified in a timely manner.

4. When a colleague is in danger, call 120 quickly or send him to the hospital. On the way, notify colleagues, family members or spouses as soon as possible. After admission, cooperate with the doctor for treatment and keep relevant receipts.

In summary, if you live alone with a drunken colleague of the opposite sex, you should ensure your innocence while taking care of your colleagues to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings!

Let me answer this question.

There are the following ways to deal with it: (not to advocate for a drinking party)

1. If she is slightly drunk, be sure to persuade her to go home as soon as possible, so as not to worry her family. If there are others on the same road, The female colleague asked her to accompany her drunk colleague home.

Second, if your colleague is very drunk and other colleagues have left early, if you have the contact information of this colleague’s family, you should contact her as soon as possible and ask her family to take her home.

(If it is a drinking party of your own initiative)

First, find at least two female colleagues attending the banquet, and send each other's drunk colleagues home together, and understand and communicate in time The result of mutual delivery ensures that female colleagues arrive home safely and in time.

Second, if there are no other female colleagues in the wine bureau, you must find a way to contact her family, or ask other female colleagues who are not attending the banquet to accompany you and send the drunk colleague home.

Third, if there are no other female colleagues and your family members cannot be contacted, then you must send the female colleague to her home in person and return to her home safely and promptly. If necessary, explain something to her family members, and Apologize.

In short, it is the common responsibility of everyone participating in the drinking party to let drunken colleagues go home safely and in time, regardless of whether they are hosting the drinking party themselves.

Once an accident occurs to a drunken female colleague, everyone involved in the drinking party is responsible. No matter how big or small the responsibility is, at least the people involved in the drinking party will regret it or even be condemned by morality and conscience.

If a drunken female colleague is accidentally injured as a result of participating in a drinking party, everyone involved in the drinking party should bear corresponding legal responsibilities.

It is the unshirkable responsibility of everyone involved in the banquet to ensure that every colleague gets home safely!

I often get my female colleagues drunk. As long as the female colleague is good-looking and doesn’t dislike me, I will have a drink and never let her go. When a female colleague is drunk, I usually choose three ways to deal with it:

For a female colleague who only needs to pierce a layer of window paper with wine, I will not hesitate to kill her after she is drunk. He brought it into a hotel or my house, and then broke the window paper. Generally speaking, my criterion for judging whether I can act decisively is the physical reaction of the female colleague after she is tipsy. As long as she is clingy after drinking, has ambiguous eyes, and is suddenly generous, then it is fine.

Some female colleagues become taciturn, drowsy, and slow-moving after drinking, but they do not completely lose their minds. When such a female colleague is drunk, I will choose to hug her neck and waist, try my best to support her, and send her home. In this process, I will take advantage. Unless the female colleague takes other actions on her own initiative, I will not take the next step.

There are thousands of different kinds of women, and there is always one that is not easy to mess with. For some strong-willed female colleagues, inviting them to drink is just to get closer and make things easier for them in the future. Therefore, when such female colleagues are drunk, I will send them home calmly and silently, so that they will mistakenly think that I am a gentleman. Then they develop a good impression of me, and when they completely relax their vigilance, I will act on my own initiative.

When a colleague of the opposite sex is drunk, it is the most important moment that tests one's wisdom.