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Should the groomsmen and bridesmaids sit together when getting in the car?

This depends on the situation.

When I got married, the maid of honor was not in the same car as the groomsman.

My friends always share the same car with the groomsmen and the brothers, and the bridesmaids and sisters take the same car. If there are a large number of people and there are not enough vehicles, then the brothers and sisters will have to squeeze together. Got in the car.

Every place has different customs and habits. Therefore, there is no way to give a direct overview in one or two sentences.

But generally speaking, whether the best man and bridesmaid need to sit together depends on the host's arrangement. If the best man and bridesmaid happen to be single and you want to bring them together, you can have them sit together to increase the chance of contact. Maybe it will actually work out by then. But if you don't have this idea, it may be a bit awkward for two people to sit together.

After all, sometimes the best man and the bridesmaid don’t know each other. When two strangers are together, what topic can they have to talk about unless someone leads them. However, there are special situations where the groom and the bride are both former classmates, so it is possible that the groomsmen and bridesmaids will know each other. In that case, it's up to them to decide whether they want to sit together or not. Anyway, it's fine if they have a car to take them to the hotel for a wedding banquet.

When I got married, because my friends and my wife’s friends didn’t know each other, we didn’t communicate together or sit at the same table. After the banquet, they all went home and had no contact. Although a few brothers fell in love with a certain sister and wanted to contact her, I did provide them. However, it didn’t work out in the end, probably due to lack of personal skills.

When I went to attend a good brother’s wedding, because the number of people at the bride’s house had to be an odd number, and together with the groom, there were already 14 people, so I was excluded. I directly I went to the bride's house as a guest, and after the brother group arrived, I joined the sister group and directly fooled the brothers. After picking up the bride, it was time to return to the groom's house. The convoy was arranged in this way. The best man and his brothers added up to 12 people, and then added the bride and groom, so 14 people returned at once. As for me, I just drove the bridesmaids and sisters back to the hotel or home. We didn't go to the groom's house together.

But another brother’s wedding was different again, but this time because I had to pick up the bride at 4 o’clock, it was too late and I didn’t go there. However, looking at the small video they sent, I saw the sisters. The group went directly to the groom’s house. Although I don't know how they arrange it, everyone's wedding may be a little different. It's actually the host's wish to arrange it any way they want. As long as there are no special requirements in local customs, it's fine.