How to teach Zhiming to fall in love?

In order to have more contact time with you and talk, I learned to smoke. One day you gave up smoking, and I couldn't.

"Love with a Pure Son" met with smoking, and the two hit it off immediately, and they hit it off very well.

When Yu Chunjiao and her boyfriend Jia Hao had nothing to worry about except quarreling and suspicion, the relationship almost came to an end.

Then Zhang Zhiming was inspired by the cigarette case and sent an inverted I miss you to Yu Chunjiao. The result was found by Chunjiao's boyfriend.

Yu Chunjiao took half a day off and moved out from her boyfriend.

When Yu Chunjiao and Zhang Zhiming were in the Man Chun Hotel, Yu Chunjiao had an asthma attack. Zhang Zhiming hugged Yu Chunjiao and said, "Some things can be done in one night, and we are not in a hurry." At that moment, Yu Chunjiao was very moved and began to really like Zhang Zhiming.

In the second half of the movie, Yu Chunjiao asked Zhang Zhiming where to go, and Zhang Zhiming said, "Go anywhere, I will listen to you?"

"You always use questions to answer questions. Can you have some opinions? "

I respect you!

"But I don't need your respect today."

In fact, for many things, what girls want is not the so-called respect, but the initiative of boys. What every girl wants in her heart is someone who can give her enough security to take care of them like her father, not a child who needs to decide everything for him.

In the monologues of Meiji and Chunjiao, Zhang Zhiming said: "Some people will not know whether they are friends or ordinary friends until you know them, or they will surpass the feelings of ordinary friends. When you like someone, you will want to confess to her, and you will consider it. But when you think about it, it turns out that she doesn't like you anymore. When you don't like her, she comes back to you. "

People's hearts are hard to grasp, and sometimes they are not good at grasping themselves. Isn't it harder for the other party to grasp it? We all hope to meet someone who can understand us. But a person who knows himself doesn't mean that he knows your every look, every movement and everything. This is not only the so-called heart-to-heart, but also the tacit understanding cultivated by being together for a long time.

Everyone wants to wait for the other person to take the initiative, but many times they miss it because they are not sure about their psychology. There are some things to say and some things to do. If you don't say or do it, others may never understand.

I don't deny that silent love is great, but sometimes it is stupid. I can't give you the life you want, I want you to live better, and so on. Those so-called excuses are not necessarily noble.

If you really love someone, shouldn't I worry that someone else will take care of you besides me? ! If you really love each other, you will make changes for each other, just as Yu Chunjiao is willing to wait for Zhang Zhiming to grow up for eight years, and Zhang Zhiming is willing to change for Chunjiao.

If you like someone who doesn't like you, it's really great that many people pay silently for her. But you have to understand that love is a matter of two people, not one person, and no matter how hard one tries, it will be of no help.

It's up to you to keep your obsession, or to find another way, live a new life and discover another scenery.

I admire both kinds of people. Some people think that persistence is his meaning, while others think that starting a new life is beautiful and pleasant.

People's psychology is complicated. Some people are willing to stick to it, while others are willing to get rid of it. Who can tell which is better or worse? It all depends on their own understanding.

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I tried to get rid of Zhang Zhiming, but I became another Zhang Zhiming.

When Yu Chunjiao and Zhang Zhiming made an appointment to meet Chunjiao's family, Zhiming didn't go because of watching the ball game.

When Zhiming went home to apologize to Chunjiao, Chunjiao said to Zhiming, "If you want to remember, you must remember. If you don't want to remember, you won't remember. "

When watching horror movies at home, Chunjiao covered her head with fear, but Zhiming was very happy, smiling at Chunjiao and eating snacks with relish.

Zhang Zhiming promised to come out to accompany Chunjiao, so he accompanied the customer and gave him Chunjiao's roasted chicken wings.

Chun Jiao knows that Zhiming doesn't like dogs, and she likes dogs so much, but she doesn't have them with her. When Zhiming went to Beijing, he also specifically told him: "The weather in Beijing is dry, drink plenty of water and put a wet towel before going to bed, so that the room will not be too dry." When she was in Beijing, Chunjiao specially took her colleague and brought him noodles he liked from Hong Kong.

It seems that he will always be a child.

When Shang Youyou had an accident and Zhang Zhiming was leaving, Yu Chunjiao said to Zhang Zhiming, "I often ask myself what you have done for me, but I can't think of anything. Yes, I really like you. I'm afraid of everything I like. You often say that some things don't need to be done overnight, but if you don't do it overnight, you may never get another chance in your life. I like you. What's the use? Some things cannot be forced at all. "

Later, Shang Youyou asked Zhang Zhiming, "If you can't forget him, why are you still with me?"

Zhang Zhiming said, "I thought I could forget her, but when I saw her that day, all my memories came back. Sorry, sorry. "

"I don't want to be sorry. I don't want you to feel sorry for me. Tell me what you did wrong and I'll change it. "

"But some things are really a little evil. I like it if I like it. I like it because it is good. I think everything is fine. "

When Chunjiao's father came back to see Chunjiao's mother and daughter, the first sentence was also sorry, sorry. But what's the use of being sorry?

I'm sorry, this sentence is actually the most hurtful, especially when I talk about it to people around me or people around me. I hope we can leave the apology to others and strangers, not to relatives and people around us. For the people around them, what they need is not your sorry, but thank you.

When two people were in Beijing, they kept secrets from each other's boyfriend and girlfriend. When they left the Great Wall Commune together, Zhang Zhiming asked Yu Chunjiao, "Why do you have a crush on uncle?"

Yu Chunjiao said: "I wanted to find a man who is completely different from you. Who knows that I have become exactly like you? I feel terrible. " I was influenced by you. I didn't even know I was influenced by you. I tried very hard to get rid of Zhang Zhiming, and finally I found that I became another Zhang Zhiming. "

When Yu Chunjiao told Zhang Zhiming this seriously, Zhang Zhiming was still absent-minded.

When Chunjiao was going to Shanghai, Zhang Zhiming woke up and sent a video to Chunjiao who was crying. Fortunately, when Zhang Zhiming is willing to make changes for her, Yu Chunjiao is willing to wait for her.

Sometimes I wonder, is a person's appearance order really important?

If Yu Chunjiao had met Sam, I don't think she would have met Zhang Zhiming again. Even if she did, she wouldn't like him. But Yu Chunjiao met Zhang Zhiming first, and then Sam. Although Sam can protect her from behind and give her the sense of security she wants, as long as Zhang Zhiming can make changes for her, she is willing to wait for Zhang Zhiming and give him a chance to grow up, because she has become another Zhang Zhiming.

Just because this person is Yu Chunjiao, she is willing to wait, and she is willing to wait for Zhang Zhiming to grow up, so the order of appearance is very important to her. But not everyone is Yu Chunjiao. When the desired Sam appears, there is no need to wait for Zhang Zhiming to grow up again.

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I don't want a mature Zhang Zhiming.

When Zhang Zhiming's little dopted mother asked to have a baby with Zhang Zhiming's sperm, Zhang Zhiming threw the question to Yu Chunjiao instead, saying that as long as she agreed to her side, there would be no problem.

But he doesn't know that this is not only his own business, but also that he should be independent at this time and should not push things to Yu Chunjiao again.

As Chunjiao's younger brother said, "It is not easy for two people to maintain a good relationship. Don't ruin him by doing or not doing anything. " When Zhang Zhiming said this sentence, Yu Chunjiao felt that he was a special person and was particularly moved.

However, when they traveled to Taiwan Province, an earthquake happened, and Chunjiao was too scared to move. Zhang Zhiming didn't accompany Chunjiao to hide under the table. In the face of the earthquake, Zhang Zhiming's approach is rational and correct, but in Chunjiao's view, she doesn't care about danger or not. What she cares about is whether Zhang Zhiming is always by her side to protect her when she is in danger.

In times of crisis, Zhang Zhiming only cares about herself. Yu Chunjiao thinks that Zhang Zhiming is no different from her father. Every time he comes to a critical juncture, he will give up everything around him and sacrifice everything around him to satisfy himself and fulfill himself.

If something goes wrong with love, go back and solve it.

Later, Chunjiao's father sat on the bench and said to Chunjiao, "I had a conflict with your mother that year. I didn't face it. I chose to leave. " This matter has a great influence on you. I know that's why you are afraid to meet someone like your father. In fact, your father is a person who only knows how to escape when encountering problems. If there is a problem, it must be solved. Choosing Zhiming is not important. The important thing is to live happily and healthily. "In this conversation, my daughter's affection for her father's past work turned into forgiveness and relief.

She has understood people like her father since she was a child. She is afraid of meeting someone like her father again. She doesn't want to be as strong as her mother, because she is a little girl herself and needs protection.

But Zhang Zhiming is different from her father, and Zhang Zhiming is willing to change for Yu Chunjiao.

Yu Chunjiao said to Zhang Zhiming, "Zhang Zhiming, I really like you, and I am very happy with you. In fact, I am also very simple. I just want to be a little woman. No matter what happens, someone will stand up and protect me. I really need to feel safe. I don't want a boy who doesn't grow up. I'd better forget it. "

You made me grow up. If it weren't for you, I don't think I could be a man. Thank you for saving me. I used to think that men always have a lot to prove themselves in this life, but in the end, I found that what men need is not skateboarding, not Dali, but a woman I like and I want to take good care of and live with.

Yu Chunjiao left again and again, which taught Zhang Zhiming to grow again and again, and taught him how to love and cherish a person. Zhang Zhiming can see Yu Chunjiao behind him every time he looks back. This is fate and luck, and it is also the result of the joint efforts of two people who love him deeply.

I remember what a friend asked me a long time ago: "Do you think it is almost the same for two people? Still complementary? "

Now I probably know how to answer. Two people appreciate each other and like each other from the beginning of similarity. Two similar people can only be together when they talk. And two people who really love each other and live a happy life are complementary. When two people encounter something they don't like and have to do, one person will change and make concessions for the other, but concessions need to be balanced.

Similarity is the premise of being together, and complementarity is the foundation of being together for a long time. Two truly happy people, they are both similar and complementary.

In retrospect, Zhang Zhiming was really lucky. He met a business friend, a business friend who liked him very much and was willing to let him go. What is even more rare is that he met Yu Chunjiao who can wait for him to grow up.

Each of us is not Zhang Zhiming, and we are not necessarily so lucky, and there will not be a person waiting for you in the same place every time we turn around. We are not children anymore, and we can't be children anymore. It's time to grow up