Why did Leslie Cheung say that material is not important, but feelings are the most important?

He said he would be lonely forever. 1-3 years old is the most important period for the cultivation of mother-child relationship, and it is also the period for children to be attached to their mothers. If you are separated from your child at this time, it is easy to cause psychological insecurity to your child.

Leslie Cheung lived apart from his parents since he was a child. He said that his father loved him unconditionally, but because he was busy with business, he was not good at expression, and his communication time was short and his emotional foundation was weak. His mother's love for him is implicit. When Leslie Cheung talked to her mother, she was impatient, so she never spoke psychologically from beginning to end. He has many brothers and sisters, but the youngest is eight years older than him, so he has no peers to play with. If someone comes from home, he hides quietly.

Until he grew up, his mother didn't have his sister's relatives, and even he had to ask his permission politely to go to the toilet, like a stranger. Only after his mother died did he understand the necessity of their existence. This is because his mother didn't have a good family meeting since she was a child, which led to the estrangement between mother and child.

Moreover, his father has three wives, and Leslie Cheung's mother is the oldest. The family is not harmonious and the relationship between parents is tense. This makes it difficult for him to feel the warmth of home. Without a happy family, a child's personality is bound to be negative and depressed. According to the survey of psychologists, 36.5% of children feel depressed in some families with estranged parents. Children whose parents often quarrel lack confidence in their future life, especially their fear of marriage.

On the other hand, Leslie Cheung is extremely sensitive and belongs to artistic individuality. This kind of person's experience of life is extremely subtle. He pursues a high-quality life, and has extremely high requirements for both dressing and living. This will inevitably make him too obsessed with details, and people who pursue perfection often have a hard time. He is considerate of his friends around him and has extremely high requirements for his work. In his own words, "at least at work, no one can poison me."

His loneliness began in his childhood. Until I met this person who loves to talk and laugh, in fact, Mao's personality can completely complement his brother. One is melancholy, the other is cheerful, but Leslie Cheung's feelings are too urgent, which makes seventeen-year-old Mao Shun feel abrupt. He didn't know how to cherish when he was young, and missing it is forever. Maybe they will break up after they get married, but at least Leslie Cheung will find someone in his life to really share. He was too devoted until he became friends with Mao Mao, because he couldn't give up his deepest feelings.

Leslie Cheung likes children very much. He is a kind and lovely person. He said: "It is a lifelong regret not to have tasted the happiness of family. If I have children in the future, it will definitely hurt, and I will definitely explore the potential and interest of children from the side. I will. " This is why he realized the lack of parental education from an early age. He said he was impatient only because of his potential sense of responsibility. Once he has a child of his own, such a person will be a responsible and good father.

However, his wish did not come true after all. He never longs for a quiet corner, but he is always a bird of paradise. When he is tired, he sleeps in the wind. Finally, after watching the world of mortals, he chose to go home. Leave a sad classic in the world and bloom different fireworks in the vast sky.