Good friends should have a sense of ceremony. Do you value the sense of ceremony?

I only pay attention to the sense of ceremony on important festivals, but I don't pay attention to it at ordinary times. I usually have a rough life, so I don't care much about many details in my life. I broke up with many of my former good friends without any sense of ceremony. I just pay more attention to the sense of ceremony on birthdays or anniversaries.

First, important festivals should pay attention to the sense of ceremony. I will remember the birthdays of my parents and each of my friends. Every time it's their birthday, I will set the alarm clock in advance and send them birthday wishes at 12 am. If we live in the same city on their birthdays, I will arrange a party for them. I will gather all our friends together, and then everyone will be very excited to celebrate my friend's birthday. If we are not in the same city, I will sell them a favorite birthday cake. My best friend and I have a very grand anniversary every year. On this day, I will buy him a gift that he will never forget. Even if I am not in a city, I will fly to see him. Therefore, my requirements for every important day are still relatively high, and I will have a sense of ceremony on this day.

Second, I usually don't pay attention to ceremonies. I am not a person who attaches importance to the sense of ceremony in daily life, because I am very busy at work and have no time to think about romantic things. I'm busy with my work most of the time, and I don't even have time to go out with my friends, so I don't care about this sense of ceremony. It takes a long time to prepare these things every time, so life is rough at ordinary times.

I value the inner sense of ritual, but I don't value it in my life, because I don't have so much time to satisfy my inner desires. I think some sense of ceremony is unnecessary and a waste of time, but I still value it on special festivals.