"Men shake poor, women shake cheap", men shake their legs, is it really unreliable?

If I don't listen to the old man, I will suffer, but I just don't listen to my father and find a liar.

Dad never liked my husband, but I insisted and married him under their opposition.

After all, my family loves my daughter. After marriage, my father gradually accepted him, but they couldn't talk together, and my husband didn't want to accommodate his father. Well, sometimes I think about it, it's hard to get caught between them.

Later, I asked my father why he didn't like this son-in-law. Dad said, "Look who is with others, always shaking his legs, which makes people upset.". I feel that he is unreliable. There used to be an old saying that "men are poor and women are cheap". I'm afraid you will suffer with him.

I really didn't pay attention to what dad said. When I got home, I sat with him and watched TV. His legs kept shaking. I asked him why, but he said he didn't know, so he got used to it.

I asked him if he was nervous or if he didn't do something well. He shook his head, sometimes it was normal, but after a while he began to shake, dazzling me.

I'm really a thick-skinned person. I have never paid attention to his movements before, but I feel that he doesn't like to talk and is a very deep person. His home is around our county, and his family conditions are not very good. I am an only child, the baby of my parents. My father is a small leader of the unit, my mother works in a hospital, and my family conditions are OK.

Maybe when we were in love, he had an inferiority complex, but I never abandoned him. He has been trying to make progress, and I just appreciate him, but my father said that he is not even reliable, and shaking his legs all the time makes people feel insecure and dishonest.

I laughed at my father's wisdom. We have been married for two years without any problems. Father just shook his head and said, who knows what will happen in the future? Watch yourself.

Dad's words really made me listen. It's not that I doubt him, but that watching his movements really makes me feel a little uncomfortable. But he still does it. He likes to shake his legs after sitting for a while. I couldn't help reminding him that he was still angry and said, "Are you looking down on me and annoying me?" Alas!

Suddenly one day, my friend called me and asked me where my husband was. I said he was on a business trip. He went there yesterday. A friend sent me a photo. My husband walked forward with a beautiful woman in his arms. I bought him clothes. Although it was his back, I knew it was him at a glance.

My friend told me to keep quiet and make a plan quickly. Your husband cheated on me. Don't show him his cards yet. Please recall his unusual behavior recently.

Looking back, he likes traveling in recent months. I never doubted him. He always leaves on Friday afternoon and comes back on Sunday or Monday. Since my father told me that he was unreliable, our salaries have been separated. I paid for all the money at home, and he invited his friends to get married outside. I haven't calculated it carefully. His salary is higher than mine. Does he use it to raise a mistress?

I hung up on my friend, and then I called my husband immediately. He said that he was talking with the client about the contract, and he would tell me later. But I waited for 30 minutes and didn't see him call back. I see, he is busy with other people's love, and he has long forgotten my words, and he doesn't care about me in his heart.

I only have photos sent by my friends. What should I do? Thinking of this, I quickly called my friend and asked her to help me follow my husband. Fortunately, they don't know each other, but they went to the scene when they got married. She said they were going in the same direction. She recorded a video of them kissing their faces, but they were all in the back.

I said that's good. I mainly want to check their room records. When I was worried, my friend whispered, we are actually staying in a hotel. You can check it then. After that, I sent a photo of my husband and that woman entering the hotel intimately.

A day later, he came home, and I looked at him quietly. He was no different from usual. I really don't understand that a man can talk and laugh with his wife as if nothing had happened. I really admire him.

I watched TV and watched him sit on one side. Soon my legs began to tremble, and even the sofa we were sitting on began to move. The more I watch it, the more annoying it gets. I rubbed his heart slowly. When he trembled, I felt that he was having a fierce ideological struggle. I talked to him several times, but he was absent-minded. I really understand that people who shake their legs are really unreliable, their hearts and feelings are unstable, and those who are not focused really need to think about it.

He kept shaking his legs, and he never noticed. I'm beginning to hate his behavior. Once I found this move, I thought he was planning something sorry for me, which made me feel bad. What my father said also reminded me that he was really unreliable.

But I don't want to be cheated by him. He can muddle along like this, but I can't. If I didn't know at the beginning, I might still rely on him and trust him. Now that I know, I feel that I can't stay for a day. I am a straightforward person, and I won't beat around the bush. I couldn't stand this blatant betrayal, so I sent him a photo of him hugging a woman. He tried to explain to me that this was just a customer, and he just took part in an accidental amusement because of his work.

I sneer, this is just a customer, as if there are many such customers, he spread out his hand and shook his head and said, it's not what you think, I'm not sorry for you. Listening to his sophistry, I am really speechless. Is it true that men betray their wives and don't divorce? what do you think?

Because there is still love? I don't believe that if you love this family and your wife, you can't let your spirit and soul run away. I have my own bottom line. It is not impossible to get along with the opposite sex, but I should pay attention to my discretion. Holding hands and kissing like this is beyond my boundaries. I insist on divorce. Even if you didn't cheat, I can't accept such a thing.

I'm sure you all know what happened later. We divorced and he moved out of our house. My parents bought this house, and he decorated it at that time. He left without saying anything. I'm really sorry.

No wonder dad said he was unreliable. I was really blind and didn't see the other side of him. Fortunately, we have only been married for two years and have no children. Otherwise, life will definitely be more difficult in the future.

What do you think of people who shake their legs? Really unreliable? Welcome to discuss the message!