In the face of evil people, do you tolerate it?

01

Have you ever had such a feeling? Will you suddenly be insulted or angered by an unknown person? The other party is still fierce and looks like he is going to fight?

In order to calm things down, you took a deep breath, silently turned around and left.

But when you are alone, your thoughts are like replaying a movie, replaying the "shame and humiliation" in your mind over and over again. Suddenly I hate myself, why am I so worthless? Why are you so angry with me?

The most important thing is that you haven't let go of this emotion for several days.

My suggestion is that if the other person is a consistently evil person and appears frequently in your life, then there is no need to tolerate it anymore and just fight back! But if the other person is not familiar with you, or may even be meeting you for the first time, and is a passer-by who only meets you once in a lifetime, when you are not sure what type of person the other person is, what if he is a psychopath or a lunatic? Then there is no need for you to risk your own life to test the other person's bottom line. I seriously advise you to be patient at this time!

How can we, as resourceful people as we are, release our energy so easily to people we don’t understand?

Even if it is negative energy, I don’t know you, why should I let you see it?

At this time you can still comfort yourself, how failed is this person? Can you be so hoarse and vicious to strangers? The people around him and even his family must be in dire straits, thinking about how to deal with him every day? How to escape him? With such a bad temper, his lifespan must be very short!

Thinking about it this way, do you feel much better?

Yes, this is how I wrote this article. I hope you will get the effect when you read it!

02

When I was in elementary school, there was a chubby little scumbag in our class. He knew how to pick a time to bully girls, usually on his way home from school.

During this time outside school, many girls usually wipe away their tears and feel sad for a while after being bullied.

It doesn’t matter if you are mentally strong enough or if you forget about it when you go home.

Girls who are close enough to their parents will choose to go home and tell their parents, who will then give feedback to Little Fatty’s parents. This solution has a good effect, but the feedback is a little slow, and it cannot prevent the little fat guy from bullying girls again.

"Where there is oppression, there is resistance." This sentence is so inspiring. From the first time I heard this sentence, it has become a light in my life and has always been in my mind. Heart flashes.

That day, on the way out of school, he grabbed two more handfuls of sand and prepared to pour it into our necks.

The other girls were so frightened that they ran away. I don’t know where I got the courage. I rushed directly in front of him, grabbed two handfuls of sand, and yelled at him: "You dare to come, try it." Try?"

When his sand flew over, I yelled and sprinkled the sand in my hand accurately on his face. I only heard him say "Wow" and squat down while touching his face. The ground started crying.

From then on, he never dared to bully me again. Later, he often smiled at me in a flattering way, and I smiled back in kind. Slowly he grew up and no longer bullied girls, but the look he looked at me was extraordinarily gentle. I pretended not to see the two words "like" in capital letters in his shiny pupils.

At that time, I understood without any teacher, "If you are good, you will not be deceived by God; if you are evil, you will not be afraid of God."

In the face of evil people, it is never good to endure it again and again. The only way to deal with such people is to be more powerful and evil than them.

But sometimes the power is really unbalanced, and when you can only swallow your anger, there is no way to retaliate against evil.

Then you'd better endure it. I hope you are as resourceful as me, selectively becoming a firecracker that ignites at a moment's notice, and learn to help yourself.

03

When I grow up, I am a person with kindness in my brows. I can definitely be considered a very friendly type in life, but this does not mean that I am a person without a temper.

Whenever I encounter problems, I always tactfully use a combination of soft and hard methods to solve them. Over the years, he has won many battles and has become a general in defense of human rights without knowing it.

My principle of doing things is that I will be doubly kind to people who are kind to me, and people who are evil to me will be suppressed by my momentum as soon as they open their mouths, and I will kill them as soon as possible. "Tinderbox".

A few years ago, my father accompanied me on an errand, and at the only copy shop near the Public Security Bureau, we had a dispute with the shop owner for some reason.

Probably the other party’s price is much higher than the usual price, twice as expensive as others. But he was the only one operating the nearby certificate processing center, but the other party was absent-minded, copied the wrong information, and wanted his father to pay for it too.

My dad is a teacher and he is a person with no temper. But when encountering such a villain, his anger was naturally ignited.

When he was arguing with this shady shopkeeper, the shopkeeper’s wife also joined the dispute at some point. The arrogance of the two people became more and more intense, and the father’s grievance was spreading.

When I went to the copy shop to look for my dad, I happened to encounter this scene. Facing the sinister shop owner and his family, the two yelled loudly, saying that they couldn't leave the shop unless their father gave them money.

After listening quietly for a minute, I suddenly shouted back louder than the two of them: "Not to mention that you made the wrong copy, you should not have received this money in the first place. How much is it? ? I'll give it to you right away. But let me tell you, my dad has a bad heart. If he gets sick today, you will be responsible for the medical expenses. If anything happens to him, don't even think about opening your store again. I will never let him go. Pass you."

The whole place was silent, and the world suddenly became quiet. The family of the black-hearted shop owner certainly didn’t expect that this gentle-looking girl would drop such a bombshell on them.

If you want more money, you will naturally not give it to them. But I still took out what was supposed to be given to them and put it on their copy machine.

When we came out with my father on my arm, the two of us were like a pair of triumphant heroes. At that moment, I suddenly remembered the scenes of my father protecting me when I was a child. Finally one day, I can also be my father’s support.

04

This spirit of not compromising or shrinking in the face of evil has always inspired me.

Later, not only at home, but also abroad, I never lowered my head when facing evil foreigners. Although my foreign language is still a bit lacking, otherwise my speech speed and expression would be smoother during a quarrel, so learning a foreign language well can also give me extra points when quarreling. This has always inspired me to learn a foreign language well.

I remember that I was in a five-star hotel in Thailand, and the lock on the suitcase of someone traveling with me was broken, and the safe in the room could not be opened, although nothing was lost. But the service must have improved, but the hotel manager is still working hard to maintain it.

The people traveling with me were negotiating, so I rushed over and started talking in mixed Chinese and English. Finally, I told him that if he didn’t solve the problem and didn’t apologize to us, I would definitely defend my rights to the end.

In the end he understood our expression, repaired the box and apologized to us.

The last time I took a plane to Italy, a foreigner was very domineering and seemed to treat the economy class as first class. So there was no space left for the beautiful mother who was traveling with us. The beautiful mother was holding her sleeping child and was so pressed by the back of the chair in front of her that she could hardly move.

After the beautiful mothers responded to the foreign stewardess, the stewardess talked gently for a long time, but the foreigner just didn't move, he was so big, and had no intention of adjusting the back of the chair.

Another beautiful mother who was traveling with me came to me and expressed her anger. After I walked over, I looked directly into the foreigner's eyes, told him in simple English to adjust the back of his chair, and then patted the back of his chair.

That foreigner must have never seen such a powerful Chinese woman. I was a little uneasy but immediately adjusted the back of the chair.

In any case, solving the problem is the way to go. How can we lose our momentum in the face of evil people?

In this world, there is no need to quietly tolerate all evil people.

Face a strange evil person, quickly analyze his weaknesses, and then use evil to cure evil.

05

Just like the black-hearted copy shop owner above, doesn’t he just want to make more money? Are medical expenses more expensive? Everyone knows that this is not cost-effective, and attacking him with what he cares about most is the best option.

In a five-star hotel, you can only protect your rights with them by filing a complaint.

Why did the stewardess try to persuade foreigners on the plane to no avail for a long time? It shows that this person is not of high quality. There is no need to be polite to him. What is there to be afraid of? If it were a cross-border quarrel, he might not win.

However, if we analyze the specific problems in detail, if it is an unfamiliar environment, an uncertain occasion, and facing people we do not understand, after all, a good man will not suffer the immediate consequences, so we should endure it.

But there are always inexplicable people in this world who want to be evil to us.

Just do it when it's safe to do so, especially with people who may want to repeatedly torment you in your life. If you choose to endure it forever and keep thinking that evil people will be punished by evil people, but you can't let it go and you still struggle with this matter in your heart, then you must take action.

Then I must tell you, if you don’t fight evil with evil when you should be evil, I will never allow you to suffer grievances and torture yourself like this. Do you understand?

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Author Nini:

She has been a reporter for many years and has won the highest award in the industry.

A handsome 11-year-old girl with a sweet heart, a profound chatterbox, and a sincere and humorous non-famous reading promoter.

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