Take medicine in the hotel

In China, there is an old saying that we should forgive others. Many times, we don't need to drive others to emotional collapse or even commit suicide.

Many times, stronger communication and more tolerant understanding are the better ways to get along. Many people tend to have some extreme ideas about some things. Many times, the parties do not feel that the other party's mood has changed, but sometimes it will lead to irreparable consequences.

In fact, the differences between people are very simple. Just make things clear, find out the cause and effect, and find a solution.

Sometimes, before things are investigated clearly, we arbitrarily put some labels on others, which will damage their innocence. This is also a way that can easily lead others to misunderstand.

The story we are going to tell now is an old man who committed suicide by taking medicine because he only had half a roll of toilet paper. In fact, what should not have happened was originally a very small thing, but in the end it led to an irreparable mistake.

1. The cause of the incident is actually a very small matter. In a hotel, a 63-year-old dishwasher committed suicide by taking medicine for half a roll of toilet paper.

According to the introduction of Hope Gong's family, on the day of the incident, after the old man went to the toilet, he thought that the toilet paper equipped in the dormitory had been used up by them, so he put the remaining half of the toilet paper in his bag and prepared to take it back to the dormitory for use.

The old man worked as a dishwasher in this hotel for nearly a year, but in the end, the hotel staff didn't trust her, but thought she had stolen something from the hotel. After the incident, the old man committed suicide by taking poison in the hotel.

The old man's daughter said that her mother recalled the hotel, when someone angrily found her mother and asked her if she had stolen something from the hotel. Mother felt very wronged and said that she didn't take anything from the hotel, but the people in the hotel didn't believe her and wanted to search her coat.

At this time, my mother remembered that he still had half a roll of toilet paper in his bag, so she took it out and said she had it. Moreover, she sincerely apologized to the general manager of the hotel and explained why she took the toilet paper.

However, just after this incident, her mother's immediate superior found her and insulted her, saying that she not only stole from the hotel in disgrace, but also reported it to the higher authorities. Because of this, her mother's immediate superior even fired her.

After returning to the dormitory, my mother felt very wronged. She felt that she was innocent all her life. At this age, she is willing to do some work by herself. But I didn't expect to be wronged by others and called me an unclean thief.

And if I did steal something, I admitted it myself, but it was only half a roll of toilet paper. Not only will you be slandered, but you will also be fired. The more she thought about it, the angrier she became, so she decided to learn about her life by committing suicide.

2. The hotel is cold. Now the old man has been treated in the hospital, but the hotel ignored the matter. The old man's son-in-law said in an interview that the old man is still receiving treatment in the hospital, and his consciousness is still not clear, and he has been sleeping.

As children, they feel very uncomfortable. Their mother is old and goes out to do something just to enrich her life. But I didn't expect such a mistake.

Moreover, the old man sent a message to his daughter before taking medicine to commit suicide, saying that he was in a bad mood. His family immediately felt that this was not particularly right, and the old man's mood was not normal.

So they immediately rushed to the hotel, but before they arrived at the hotel, they were told by the hotel that the old man had been taken to the hospital.

According to an interview with his son-in-law, the old man told his wife that he had stolen half a roll of toilet paper before committing suicide, but he didn't explain much to the supervisor at that time. The director of the hotel later said that it was theft, and he was not only fined, but also fired.

As a family member, everyone was comforting her at that time, saying that it was no big deal to be fined if nothing happened. I didn't expect it to be hard for my mother to accept.

In fact, for anyone, a fine is really a trivial matter, and insulting a person's innocence is a big deal. After all, an old man like her has lived a clean life for most of her life, without stealing or robbing. She still works outside at such a big age, earning that little hard money.

But even so, after working hard in the hotel for a year, people will still be identified as thieves, no matter who they are, they will feel sorry.

3. Should the hotel bear the responsibility? Today, the elderly are still receiving treatment in the hospital. However, the hotel has not come forward to make any apology or compensation. And the hotel also said that they have done their best in this matter. If the family has any dissatisfaction, they can take legal procedures to solve it.

In fact, what we want to say here is that if it is purely legal, the hotel may not have done anything wrong, but if it is humanitarian or our moral concept, the hotel is absolutely wrong.

If the old man really stole something valuable, then it is no problem for the hotel to give such punishment and criticism. But there is only half a roll of toilet paper, and because there is no toilet paper in the dormitory, it is really inhuman to take half a roll back to the dormitory for use.

If a businessman is said to be impersonal, his industry can't expand. I believe that if this business continues, this hotel will close down soon.