Why not just get engaged? What do parents need to talk about

Before we get married in our country, we usually get engaged first. It's a ritual. Of course, when we are engaged, the woman's family will invite relatives and friends to be guests and there will be a banquet at home. Then why not just get married when you are engaged? What do parents need to talk about Next, please come and have a look with me!

First, why not get engaged and get married directly?

1, this is a sense of ceremony at home. Both parties will have a certain sense of security when they get engaged first, and they will get strong support from their parents when they get engaged first and then get married.

2. The custom of engagement has existed in China since ancient times, and it is very popular in all parts of the country, because the engagement ceremony is also more important, which means that both men and women have a heart and soul, and the other is the right person.

3. It will be more meaningful for newcomers. Some couples may not meet the requirements of marriage at present, so they can get engaged first to stabilize each other.

However, the state has no special requirements on why people get engaged and don't get married directly. In other words, in fact, both men and women can get married directly without engagement, and in real life, there are also newcomers who directly hold weddings.

2. What do the parents of the engaged parties need to talk about?

1, when they are engaged, their parents will meet, and then they will discuss things related to marriage. Of course, when engaged, the man and parents will visit the woman's house and bring a bride price, which will be more polite.

2. Parents mainly talk about matters related to marriage, such as determining when to get married and hold a wedding banquet, what items to prepare at home before marriage, which hotel to choose for the wedding banquet, how many relatives and friends to invite, how many wine tables to prepare, and how many banquets to prepare for each table.

3. Also talk about where to buy the wedding ring, whether it is gold or diamond ring, and find out how big the ring is, because there are many ring brands on the market and there are many kinds of production materials, so the price difference is quite big.

On the day of engagement, the man's family should prepare a bride price for the woman's family, but the woman's family should also prepare gifts for the man's family. If there is a lucky draw at the man's house, remember to bring some back to the man. When boys come to the woman's house, the woman's house must remember to pack red envelopes. The amount of red envelopes is not fixed. It depends on whether there are any special regulations in the local area.

Let me sum up: that's what I introduced to you, why you want to get engaged instead of getting married directly, and what parents of both parties need to talk about, hoping to help the couple.