Luqiao people's wife, be happy.

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When I typed this title, I obviously felt my hands tremble slightly and my heart ached.

all kinds of pictures in my mind. In Yizi's article, you can't live without the bad construction site, Luqiao people and his wife, and the house called "Widow's Building".

actually, I'm afraid to claim that I totally feel the same way. Because, many things, I have not personally experienced, and I will never be able to understand the feelings of the parties.

What we hear, see and know is often superficial. Who knows how difficult and difficult they are behind? Therefore, it is irresponsible to understand them.

It is not easy to be a woman, and it is even more difficult to be a wife of a road and bridge person.

Yizi is also the wife of Luqiao people, but what she showed me was a different wife of Luqiao people.

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I admire Yizi's courage.

I can't imagine how a weak female college student who just graduated has sufficient reasons and beliefs to choose to live on the construction site. For love, away from home, following her husband, rushing to various project sites, and accepting the wife status of Luqiao people frankly.

Luqiao people's wife, you may leave home to follow your beloved like her.

I also live with my lover in that shabby prefabricated house. Maybe I still live separately. In order to make a living, you get up early and get greedy for the dark every day, running around dusty and windy and rainy construction sites. You should have no time and energy to take care of your youthful and beautiful face, right? Do men have dinner after work and play cards all night, which also makes you spend the long night alone on the construction site? However, you just can't leave the construction site.

Woman, sometimes it's so stubborn for love. The confirmed person just wants to stay with him all his life, and no scribble or bad environment can stop his determination to be with his lover.

since you choose the love in the construction site and the marriage of Luqiao people, then find a way to manage it well! Don't be destroyed by the cruel reality, always try to make yourself happy. Even if there is no castle in fairy tales, try to have a happy and beautiful love story like a prince and princess.

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I admire the wisdom of Yizi.

As the wife of an ordinary road and bridge person, the noisy and chaotic environment in the construction site does not affect her to become a positive person. She tidied up a clean space of her own in the dormitory and created a pure land of her own mind by writing. After working on the construction site, she persisted in writing, studied and operated WeChat official account, and played with the media. Let the boring construction site become an opportunity for growth and a springboard for leap.

Luqiao people's wife, you may live in a boring construction site like her.

are you living a life of "365 days a year, like only one day, repeated 364 times"? Are you also bound by the kind of "smoky poker field and drunken dinner", and you want to escape but have nowhere to escape? Do you also think about the day when you save enough money to complete the important events in your life and choose to escape?

if so, then take action.

never forget to study and explore, find your hobbies, put yourself into it and keep improving.

Make yourself different every day, stay away from the poker field and dinner you hate from the heart, no longer attach to anyone, attach to any lifestyle, and live yourself confidently.

you may think that the bad construction site environment is an obstacle to your progress or change, but please believe that when you have a clear learning direction and a firm determination to learn, no external factors can affect you.

as long as you want to change, nothing is a problem, and all the answers will be in your heart. Stick to it, and one day you will be grateful for the life you have suffered and suffered. They will be your driving force, not a stumbling block.

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I appreciate Yizi's attitude.

Her attitude towards life makes everyone who is mediocre feel ashamed. She doesn't pursue fame or gain, keep up with the joneses or show off. When it's time to follow love, choose the construction site life without hesitation, and when it's time to take care of the whole family, retire and choose the rural life without complaint. She interpreted the much-disliked profession of "full-time housewife" perfectly.

who said that a "full-time housewife" must be born around three meals a day, washing and cooking, and attaching to her husband? She can also have her own exquisite and leisurely lifestyle.

She has her own hobbies, her own free career and her own circle of friends. She can keep the family in good order and ensure that she has enough income. You said she was not great? Why is she rejected?

Luqiao people's wife, you may be alone with the children in your hometown like her.

You are experiencing a "widowed" marriage and living a military wife's life, but you are not treated like a military wife. However, don't be restricted by these objective conditions.

Life is your own. You have no choice but to separate and live alone. You also want what live high wants and what others envy.

You have a family to take care of. You don't have to work from nine to five, but you must have your own way of life, know your own advantages and maximize it. Also remember, don't spend all your time and energy on children, and don't put all your hopes on children.

Only you are your own hope, and when you come to live high, you will also be your children's hope.

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The wives of Luqiao people, whether they are laborers themselves, women behind laborers or stay-at-home mothers with children, should be affirmed and respected.

You don't have fancy clothes or heavy makeup, but you are the most cherished women for men.

It's not easy to be a Luqiao person, and it's not easy to be called a Luqiao person's wife.

do you know how many ordinary, great, poor and rich people are walking on the roads and bridges built by your husband, all with a grateful and awe-inspiring heart?

do you know how many family reunions and happiness your husband's "abandoning his family and children" and "separation of flesh and blood" have brought? How many families have enjoyed the benefits of convenient roads and bridges? How many people are full of expectations for the roads and bridges that will be produced in the future?

Do you know that your husband on the construction site built a road of hope and a bridge of happiness? He is the cutest person! You should be proud of him! We are proud of him!

When you first chose to be the wife of Luqiao people, you must have sufficient reasons and firm determination. Since you have chosen this direction and embarked on this road, always remember your initial heart!

You are lucky to have Yizi as a guide and a role model who cares about you, encourages you and guides you.

Luqiao people's wife, no matter what kind of life you are living now, remember to make yourself happy.

guard your marriage happily, change yourself happily, and live yourself happily!