At the hotel and the coach.

Your promise to go out with him shows that you still have a good impression on him. Although the relationship has been confirmed, there is not much actual contact and we don't know each other very well. He takes you to a hotel, and you refuse to have sex with him, which shows that you know how to respect yourself and are not a casual girl. This is also to protect yourself from harm. That boyfriend must have more dating experience than you. Show him your attitude. If he really likes you, I believe he will respect you.