What should I do if I want to get married from home on the wedding day, but I don't want to go directly to the man's house and wait for him to get married at the hotel?

It depends on whether the man's home is close to yours. If it's not far away, you can discuss it with the man and go to your house to celebrate the wedding. If it's too far away, I suggest you stay in the hotel to pick up the bride, otherwise the road will be too hasty, and the wedding requires you to arrive before noon 12. You can measure this according to the situation. It doesn't matter where you are, what matters is the happiness you have after marriage.