Two girls, one is virtuous but not pretty, the other is pretty but not virtuous, which one would you choose?

One of the two girls is gentle and virtuous, but not beautiful, and the other is beautiful but neither gentle nor virtuous, and has a bad temper. If it is to choose a wife, most men will choose a woman who is gentle, virtuous, but not beautiful, because no matter how beautiful she is, she will get older. After being together for a long time, he still prefers a woman who is gentle, virtuous, but not beautiful, because she is kinder. Understanding people, understanding life, being able to arrange some trivial matters in life, and taking care of the family well. Some people say that a woman’s beauty is not explained by her appearance. Appearance is certainly beautiful, but what really makes people unforgettable is her gentleness and virtuousness. In fact, gentleness and virtuousness, if people think about what gentleness and virtuousness looks like, it is also very difficult. It’s hard for anyone to explain clearly, but I feel that being gentle and virtuous means that I can go to the living room and the kitchen, and keep the house very orderly. I don’t need my husband to worry about anything. I get up early in the morning to make meals and prepare them. Prepare clothes and supplies, wake up your husband and children to eat, and send the children to school after eating. You should be a well-managed householder, know how to live well, and not spend money recklessly. Then let me say that a virtuous woman should care for her husband, raise her children, and know how to run a household. However, Baidu Encyclopedia says that virtuous means being virtuous, having a gentle attitude, being gentle, kind and reasonable, and being clever and handy. Just like the Weaver Girl, she is the representative of beauty and virtuousness. I want to say which eye do you have? When you see Weaver Girl, she is beautiful and virtuous? It also represents who else can she represent. It describes a kind of quality, which has nothing to do with appearance. Then if you still say that the Weaver Girl is a representative of beauty and virtuousness, then you also say that it is related to appearance, but most of them have long hair. Isn’t that too feudal? Who said this? In ancient times, most people had long hair, but that doesn't mean that modern people with short hair can't be gentle and virtuous. This sentence feels a bit like beating a bunch of people to death with one stick. It is said that virtuous generally refers to women who manage the household well after getting married, are kind-hearted, reasonable, know how to care for their husbands and raise their children, and can be filial to their parents. Who said that you cannot be virtuous without getting married, and men will marry them. Being proud of a virtuous woman, will they feel that they are very face-saving in front of their relatives and friends? Could it be that you choose it to have face in front of your relatives and friends? Then what do you think of women as tools for men to give birth to children, as mothers who cook and clean housework, as a face to show off to others? Are you thinking too feudal? I also want to be a man in the hall and in the kitchen, be gentle and virtuous, and be able to give birth and take care of children. Gentle and virtuous is not a term reserved for women. Being virtuous can also be idle at home and do nothing. Even if I am neither beautiful nor virtuous, That doesn't mean anything. He stretched out his face and asked me to hit him. I think a virtuous person should be like Fang Yishao, who can work in the hall and in the kitchen, who is frank and cute, who will not obey everything and has his own ideas. If a man does something wrong, he should be beaten. Who said that in a happy marriage, the man should take charge of the wife? In the Lord, the woman is virtuous at home and does her best to take care of the children and take care of the house. She provides firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, and becomes a yellow-faced woman. But the man spends a lot of time outside, looks down on the good wife and mother at home, and thinks that the wife at home is not good at all. , all kinds of disgust, but favored the young, beautiful and not virtuous women outside, so there was the temptation to go home. There are probably a lot of plots in such bloody TV series in real life. What does it mean to be the woman behind a successful man? After a man becomes successful, how many men will be really nice to a good wife and mother who is not young and beautiful at home? Isn’t it better to abandon the poor wife at home after becoming successful? If you marry a young and beautiful woman, even if you don’t marry and the relationship breaks down, what’s the difference? Why can men demand so much from women? Why should women be virtuous? Why aren't you men virtuous? As the saying goes, it is no longer a saying. It is said that a man always has a woman in his heart, sleeps with a woman next to him, and chats with a bunch of women on his mobile phone. It is enough to show that a man likes the new and hates the old, and will never be satisfied with only one woman by his side. , what qualifications do you have to demand that women should be virtuous and gentle.