My wife seduced the handsome security guard, and I was cuckolded.

My wife seduced the handsome security guard, and I was cuckolded.

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Li Muzi:

When I was in college, I had an unforgettable relationship. Because my first girlfriend is beautiful, I made great efforts to chase her and try my best to please her. I thought we would get married after graduation, but after I tried to get into the civil service, she said, "Let's break up" and asked why. She just said "we are not suitable" and sent me away.

While I was still immersed in the grief of lovelorn, the news came that she was going to marry a divorced rich man ten years older than her. From that moment on, my love was completely dead.

It also stems from the fact that I have already passed the marriageable age. Under the pressure of my parents, I chose the best woman among many women who have a good impression on me and got married soon.

After marriage, my wife is very kind to me, especially after the birth of the child. I also completely recovered from the pain left by my first girlfriend. I thought I could love the woman who gave birth to my child, but I was wrong again.

One afternoon the other day, my wife called and said that she would work overtime at night, so that my children and I didn't have to wait for her to eat. So, when the children finished their dinner and went into the study to do their homework, I sat alone in the living room watching TV. After about half an hour, my son vomited and diarrhea, and I felt a little uncomfortable. For this reason, I called my wife at the first time, and her phone was turned off.

To this end, I called my mother and immediately took my child to the emergency room of the hospital. When the children were settled, I called my wife again and the phone was turned off. Maybe it's because I'm anxious, maybe I'm not an expert in taking care of children, so I left my mother in the hospital temporarily, and I drove straight to my wife's office.

The moment I opened my wife's office door, I was blindsided, because my wife really kissed the small security guard in their unit naked. The scenery hurts my eyes too much. I thought I would go up and give the little security guard a heavy blow, but I didn't know what happened at that time. I just said, "You are so oily, go on" and slammed the door and ran to the hospital.

On my way to the hospital, my wife called. I don't want to hear any explanation from her. I scolded, "You bitch, your son is in the fucking hospital, and you are still having an affair with that little security guard." Then I hung up.

After arriving at the hospital, my heart was bleeding. Although I am a little feminine personally, there are many young girls who like me on weekdays, but what I can't hide most is the betrayal of my lover. So, I forced my mother to go home first. After my wife arrived at the hospital, I slapped her in front of the doctors and nurses, and everyone present was scared silly by me. Only I know that my wife hurt her face, but my heart is bleeding.

Later, according to his wife, she took the initiative to seduce the little security guard for only one reason, that is, the little security guard was handsome. Originally, it was just to attract attention and talk nonsense, but after getting along for a long time, I felt that the little security guard was kind and simple, and then I cheated.

After the incident, my wife sincerely apologized to me for her behavior. I don't want to give up my children and divorce, but it makes me sick to see my wife hanging around in front of me every day.

What should I do?

Reply to the blogger:

First, I had an unforgettable love, but I didn't get the result you wanted. For this reason, you punished love.

If your wife is your first lover at this moment, I believe you will forgive each other easily because you love that woman deeply enough. Now, you don't want to forgive, on the one hand, because you were injured in the love stage, on the other hand, you are unwilling. Why do you think a woman who once showed her love to you and treated you well would betray you?

Third, I can see that you are a handsome man and have a decent job. Over the years, you have been moved by your wife's efforts for the family. In order to live up to this touch, you are also fully defending your marriage loyalty. However, you need to ask yourself, how much care, consideration and romance have you created for your wife while defending family loyalty?

Your wife is a competent anthomaniac. Otherwise, she wouldn't have been obsessed with you from the beginning. I believe that if you care more about your wife after marriage, she will be moved in a big mess, but you didn't do that. Therefore, after meeting a younger and more handsome man than you, her heart will naturally be chaotic.

5. Under the current situation, it is related to gain and loss. For this reason, after weighing, your wife still thinks it is more reliable to stay with you. To this end, she once again humbly apologizes to you for her cheating behavior. There is a good saying, forgive people. Since I don't want a divorce, I try to forgive. Through this, I hope you can understand that you can do whatever you want as long as you don't abuse her and love you so much. Once you let her feel your love, she will look for love elsewhere.