I have a lot of sex life, but why don't I have an orgasm?

It may be your own mentality, or it may be that the man makes you nervous and depressed when he makes love to you, so that you can't relax and enjoy it. After all, you have to love and feel more to find the real problem-(as long as your partner's erection exceeds 10cm, you can use skills to make you climax), so don't take that vulgar answer downstairs seriously.