Gubei Water Town: One person must be happy, and a group of people must also be happy

1.? The happiness of a group of people

"Sister Wang must be an undercover agent", "No, Xiaoyu is..."

Along with the game " Who is the undercover?" There was laughter and the food on the table was gradually cooling. The night just deepens and deepens quietly. It wasn't until everyone yawned and had to let go of the fatigue of the day that they stood up and turned to the night together.

A group of us were walking in the small alleys of the scenic spot. At this time, the scenic spot had long lost its bustle during the day, and only a few shops were still doing their last business of the day. The landscape lights on the eaves one after another render the night colorful, as if you have accidentally traveled to a fairy tale kingdom, dreamy and beautiful.

I put my hands into the pockets of my clothes and looked up at the starry sky, which is rare in the city, as I walked. The sky was like daytime, dotted with stars, and it was even more profound. blue. Such a night is so nice, clean in the cold and warm in the silence.

"Sister Xiaobai, let's go together. Please don't be alone all the time, okay? You are so lonely, aren't you?" Before the words could even be finished, the always clever and baby-like voice said, He put his hand on my arm.

"Haven't you heard that heroes have been lonely since ancient times? I am a hero and I must remain lonely at all times." I responded with a smile.

"Oh, little sister, you are a little distracted today." Xinhui on the side agreed, and then everyone said something to me, and I started to talk endlessly.

Xinhui’s words are not unfounded. Today seems to be the day I talk to them the most since I joined the company, and it is also the day I have the most fun. I am used to being alone during working hours. Perhaps they already had some suspicion in their minds that they would not be able to integrate.

2. If things can't change, it's better to accept it

This weekend was supposed to be a day to go to Wuhan University to enjoy the cherry blossoms with some friends, visit the Yellow Crane Tower or go to Xi'an where the Terracotta Warriors and Horses are located. Unfortunately, the more suitable tickets for Wuhan had been sold out a few weeks ago. Xi'an, who had already booked the tickets, was blocked by the company's team building that temporarily changed the date and could not ask for leave.

When I refunded the ticket, I began to feel resentful. Until the last moment before setting off from home, I was still thinking that I only planned to go out once in a while, but there would be sudden changes.

The crowding between seats on the travel bus made the mood even more unpleasant. After entering the scenic spot, because the administrative staff did not coordinate well, the lunch and hotel check-in times were actually several hours apart. Amidst the complaints from colleagues from time to time, the already unhappy mood seemed to be added with a thick layer of pain. Layer of dust mist.

My partner at work, Sister Wang, asked me to go out with her to bask in the sun. It suited me well. The cold hotel lobby was filled with complaints from my colleagues. Whether it was traveling or team building in the company, it was always... Not very comfortable.

We picked up our backpacks and walked around the entrance of the scenic spot while waiting for the hotel check-in time. It was a bit cold when the wind blew, but fortunately the sunshine was beautiful and abundant.

After finally checking in and bringing the necessary water, we set off towards the scenic spot in an itinerary that was half free activities and half tasks.

Although the task requires checking in at each attraction, whether it is completed or not is no longer that important. Now that people have come out, military orders have long been ignored.

Walking with everyone, looking at the small bridges and flowing water that imitate the Jiangnan style, it seems that the wrinkled heart is gently relaxing with the slow pace. The coldness in the air is conveyed by the wind from time to time, But it couldn't stop the joy brought by the sight before me.

People should always be like this. When negative emotions come over, there always needs to be an outlet. Sometimes you can talk to a friend, and sometimes you can use the scenery to calm your mood.

Whether the scenery is beautiful or not seems to be only a matter of thought. I am reminded of the conversation between Wang Yangming, a master of psychology in the Ming Dynasty, and his friends when they were playing:

Before I came here, I was not touched by the occasional "check-in" from some people in my circle of friends. I just felt that the scenery was ordinary. What's more, what's so good about man-made scenery? I have never been to Jiangnan, nor did I think that there would be any "flowers" here, waiting for my arrival, but I suddenly understood the colors. But when I came here, I felt that this was a very leisurely place.

3. The stop-and-go ancient city

Walking through the "Yongshun Dyeing House", my colleagues who love taking photos couldn't wait to raise their cameras. Colleagues who were not interested just watched outside the door. I have always been full of curiosity about these unusual things. Although I didn't see how to bleach and dye the cloth into that color, I only looked at those things. The finished cloth on the drying ground already feels like a magical thing. The long curtains move in the wind, which reminds people of the dyeing workshop in the TV series, and also reminds people of Jiangnan.

I heard from some tourists that "Yongshun Dyeing House" was established in 1900, and its founder was a local man named Zhang Jukui from Gubeikou. When he was young, he learned dyeing skills in his hometown and had his own unique insights into dyes. Later, when he returned from his studies, he opened the "Yongshun Dyeing House". Because of its excellent production technology, it once became famous in the capital.

I don’t know whether what the tourists said is true. But looking at the curtains in front of me, I began to regret not doing some homework in advance so that I could learn more about the humanities here.

Walking along the alley to the next attraction, you will see some paintings on the corners or manhole covers. Some are cute little rabbits, and some are little foxes. In this antique scenery, such colorful paintings suddenly appeared, and I always felt that it was a little different from the scenery. But then I thought, now even medicine is developing "integration of traditional Chinese and Western medicine", so why can't scenic spots be mixed with antique flavor? How about a little bit of playfulness?

I happened to see someone drawing with a pen by the manhole cover not far away, so I walked closer and took a closer look. Looking at the familiar tools and unfinished works, I asked the painter: "Your paintings are really beautiful. You must have learned it before.", "Well, yes, I have learned it for a while before."

Of course I know they have learned this before. I just thought it was a bit strange to ask this nonsense after staring at someone for a long time and then turning around and leaving without saying a word.

After walking through the long alley, we saw a small church halfway up the mountain. A few people walked lazily to the next scenic spot. These famous scenic spots are not very far apart. , but for those of us who don’t exercise often, there are still some minor difficulties.

Before coming to the "Zhenyuan Escort Bureau", the Lianjing applet introduced on the mobile phone said:

Every time I walk through a place with a rich history, I always feel very... magic. It's like traveling back a hundred years, looking at those old-fashioned objects, and always imagining the people who once lived here, or cheerfully "eating big chunks of meat and drinking from big bowls." Or "furrowing their brows, running for a living."

But after all, things have changed and people have changed. Thinking of this, I felt some emotion in my heart. What is the goal of a person's life? Should it remain unknown or should it become famous? Or is it nothing, just living for the sake of living?

On the way back, the hot springs were crowded with tourists soaking their feet. If I could, I would really want to take off my shoes and sit around the springs. But unfortunately, when there are many people traveling together, you have to consider the feelings of others. I only had to wait for a moment to wait in line for the roasted pears, and I already felt embarrassed.

When it comes to roasted pears, maybe it’s because I am ignorant and I really have never heard of it. It was only when I saw several colleagues from the human resources department sitting on the steps below the accounting room of "Zhenyuan Escort Bureau", each holding a white teapot, that I paid attention and asked where the address turned out to be where the hot spring was.

Someone in the queue joked: "It's so close to the hot spring, maybe you can soak your feet there and boil pears here..." This sounds very unpleasant.

After queuing up, I held a hot teapot and admired it.

“You’re not buying pears, you’re just buying teapots.” My colleagues began to laugh.

"That sounds like, yes, I bought the coffin and returned the beads, but no, I didn't return the beads either."

4. A person is not lonely

After returning to the hotel for a short break, he ran another two kilometers in the dark and went to a restaurant with everyone to eat. Along the way, he looked here and there. My colleague, Sister Wang, kept looking around. He turned around and said: "Hey, why can't I find you again... Look at the road, stop playing around... You really love taking pictures..."

Hanhan also started to finish the job: "Why are you so If you like to play by yourself, you have to follow us closely, otherwise it will be easy to lose it.

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In the company, I usually walk alone on my way to and from get off work, and I often say to my colleagues with a smile: " "I don't want to move, just eat nearby, you go", although sometimes their words are as straightforward as: "Miss, you are so unsocial...do you feel you can't fit in with us?"

When it comes to the topic of integration, in fact, it is a question of whether to integrate or not. I just feel that in a limited time, I hope to be free and comfortable with a group of people. There are many things that need to be considered. If you think about it, it depends on this person's eating habits and that person's way of speaking. If you think about it like this, you may not be as simple as yourself. It may seem lonely to others, but there are People can only purify their thoughts when they are alone.

I remember when I was in elementary school, when I saw everyone in the class holding chewing gum or eating popsicles, I always felt ashamed because my mouth was empty. , I feel like an outlier.

As I grow up, my thoughts gradually mature, and I no longer care about who partners with whom, and who acts alone every day, as long as I am happy, it does not matter whether I am alone or in a group of people. , there is essentially no difference. A group of people are here to have fun, and one person can also have fun.

Sometimes I think that the best way to get along with the world is that even one person can be happy. , you can have fun with a group of people

5. The regret in the mission

The restaurant is right next to the musical fountain, and it is already projected on the building before you get close. I was shocked by the performance. Unfortunately, although the performance was good, everyone was eager to fill their stomachs and lost interest in these scenes. But as I said, the more people there are, the more worried they become. I have no choice but to do so. Following the crowd reluctantly towards the restaurant

After taking a seat, the colleagues in the human resources department began to talk about today's tasks and asked the photos of the tourist attractions to be uploaded to the group. The next group of people were dumbfounded. I counted the five must-see attractions, but surprisingly I only went to three. Looking at the photos of "Sima Xiaoshaojiu House" uploaded by other groups, I really want to go there again tomorrow.

Listening to the voices of self-singers in the restaurant and the long-awaited meals, someone among the bored group of people suggested: "This meal is too strenuous to eat. Even those who are hungry are no longer hungry. Let's move." Just focus on playing 'Who is the undercover'? ”

The food finally came to the table slowly, and we slowly ended the dinner amidst the laughter of “Who is the undercover?” The human resources department at the next table was having a great time playing “Werewolf”, It seemed that the fate of going back to the hotel together was gone. While we were laughing, we blinked and looked at the time. It was getting closer to midnight, and then yawns spread across everyone's faces like a contagion.

It was past eleven o'clock in the evening when we arrived at the hotel. Due to the long day of walking, not only were my legs unable to lift, but my head also started to hurt. This is what I am used to, and I feel a little tired every time. , this little head will always protest dissatisfied first.

I can ignore the protest of my head, but when I think about the Great Wall I have to climb tomorrow, I unconsciously feel that my strength has been completely lost.

But that’s tomorrow. What about today? It’s late at night and it’s time to go to bed.