Rene Liu's bumpy love road with milk tea: Let go of Bobby Chen, miss Huang Lei and wait for Chen Guofu for ten years. What now?

"Later, I finally learned how to love, but it's a pity that you have already gone away and disappeared into the sea of people; Later, I finally realized in tears that some people will not be there once they miss it ... "

Rene Liu, 5, gave her first online concert, and the song" Later "was put on the finale, and the song sounded, with tears in her eyes.

She once said that this song hurts her the most. Every time she sings it, she feels like she is screaming at the top of her lungs.

after a song, she choked up and said that she was not a positive energy person, but she would still say something positive to everyone, which was actually for herself.

The innate loneliness makes her feel that she has always been a person who is quite contradictory between being alone and getting along.

from her debut, she left the impression of being pure and lonely.

She has always been the girl next door with a ponytail and a white shirt, singing Lonely All My Life.

Rene Liu said, "Being alone has been my way of life since I can remember."

when she was 2 years old, her parents divorced, and she was fostered in a distant relative's house, where she was often beaten and scolded. Later, her grandparents took her home to raise her.

My grandfather is an officer, and her family education is strict, so she is not allowed to go out to play. My grandmother is an official wife and plays mahjong every day.

The adjutant in her 7s occasionally plays badminton or rubber bands with her.

more time, she is alone, a little lonely figure.

She hides herself in the closet, and plays several roles for each person.

Perhaps her superb acting skills are related to the game enlightenment as a child, and she began to cultivate her acting skills at an early age.

A weak girl, hiding in a narrow space, is what insecure children do. She is looking for a kind of comfort.

These past events come from her mouth, and the clouds are light and the wind is light. People who have never experienced them can't feel the same.

there is no innate loneliness, and it is not forced by life.

After dinner every day, going out for a walk with my grandmother became the happiest time in her childhood.

A little companionship is enough to make a lonely child happy. It is conceivable that companionship is the most lacking emotion in her life.

This kind of family life has made her form a habit of telling others that she is happy and keeping her troubles to herself.

She will answer questions and chat with herself, which makes her feel happy, and her troubles will be solved in such a happy time.

She wrote in her book "I dare to be alone in your arms": "Loneliness doesn't mean pain to me, it's just a state of getting along with myself."

The life experience of childhood has created her ability to be alone, and also endowed her with special temperament. She is different from others in the crowd.

at the age of p>16, she went to the United States from Taiwan Province, with a stopover in Hawaii for three days. She decided to take a solo trip.

I'm afraid a child with her parents around would not have such an opportunity. Being independent since childhood, she did it and arranged herself properly.

She specially permed her hair to look mature. Before going to bed in the hotel, I blocked the door with a chair, but for safety, I slept soundly.

I signed up for snorkeling and ran to Gay Bar by mistake, enjoying the adventure by myself.

Many people will find it boring to travel alone, but Rene Liu thinks it is a perfect way to travel, which she has been doing for many years.

Loneliness is just a state of life, while loneliness is a negative complex, and there are essential differences between them.

Rene Liu likes a lonely state, but she is alone. She is not lonely.

from traveling alone to living alone, she has been in this state for a long time.

Osho, a spiritual master, once said, "Only when one has the ability to be alone can one have the ability to love."

Rene Liu studied music in the United States, returned to Taipei after graduation, and was introduced to Bobby Chen by friends.

Bobby Chen thought Rene Liu's timbre was good. It happened that his assistant had just left, so she became his assistant and he became her master.

Rene Liu is also known as milk tea. This name comes from Bobby Chen.

Bobby Chen was asked why he likes to drink milk tea. He said, "Milk tea has the fragrance of milk but is not greasy, while tea is light but not astringent. It can be drunk for a lifetime without being greasy.

Rene Liu is like a cup of milk tea! Although she is not a standard beauty, she is like a cup of warm milk tea. "

This assistant has been working for three years at a time. He is also a handyman, carrying guitar, buying lunch boxes and cleaning toilets. He has to do everything. He is bitter and tired, and his salary is low.

It's really beyond the ordinary people's endurance, just as milk tea said: "I started as an assistant, so I can't be delicate. I must roll up my sleeves and be rude, so I can bear hardships."

She can persist, thanks to her ability to be alone since childhood. Schopenhauer said, "Be lonely or vulgar." The implication is that he enjoys loneliness very much and thinks that only loneliness can bring excitement and greatness.

The same is true of milk tea. Her loneliness makes her more exciting.

after her debut, she met the second most important person in her life, her elder sister, director Zhang Aijia.

Zhang Aijia's film "Little Girl Fishing" features a newcomer Rene Liu, and many people disapprove of it.

After all, this movie, at that time, was the one that the company invested the most, and everyone thought it was a bit risky to use new people.

Zhang Aijia has a unique vision. At the beginning, ChristianRandPhillips became famous because of the reuse of Zhang Aijia.

She insisted that Rene Liu play the role. This film is about women's independence, and these are all brought by Rene Liu.

Independence is accompanied by loneliness, which is innate for Rene Liu.

Milk tea won the Golden Horse Award for Best Actress for its movie "Little Girl Fishing", and has officially become an artist under Zhang Aijia.

In the life of filming, she often stays in a hotel. Once she stays in a hotel for more than three days, she will make the hotel look like home.

Only an insecure person can make the hotel look like a family, and only in a familiar environment can people feel practical.

Milk tea has been living alone since high school, but it hasn't moved for more than 2 years.

She said that she has a fixed place to receive letters, but in fact, she can take in her soul who has nowhere to put after wandering around.

Loneliness is a disease, which needs love to cure.

Rene Liu fell in love at the age of 15, and when she dated her first boyfriend, she was going to marry him.

This inevitably reminds people that Fang Xiaoping, the "marriage maniac" she plays in Pink Lady, has a passionate desire to get married, but has failed to fall in love countless times.

Fang Xiaoping, who likes to smile with her teeth in her hands, has been away from us for 17 years. This year's remake of Pink Girl will trigger another wave of memory killings.

Milk tea said: "People who believe in love will meet love sooner or later."

She is a person who believes in love. She is crazy about love, just like Bobby Chen's lyrics. It took three and a half years and 3 million yuan to create it for her. The song "Crazy for Love".

"I want to ask you if you dare to love me like you said, and if you dare to be crazy about love like me, what would you think ..."

The lyrics sing their helplessness, and the parties have made no statement about this feeling that was wildly guessed by the outside world. After all, Bobby Chen is nine years older than milk tea and has got married.

Maybe Bobby Chen has love, but the reality doesn't allow it. Maybe Bobby Chen only has master's love for her.

No matter what kind, it's just milk tea. In this relationship, a person is singing a monologue.

Rene Liu became a diva, and the master and apprentice participated in a program together. The host Hou Peicen asked Bobby Chen, "Do you like Rene Liu?"

Bobby Chen replied with a serious face: "You are crazy. I don't like her. Why do you help her with so many things? Do you think I look like an idiot?"

But now she is like a kite, and I don't know where it has gone ... "

Rene Liu's tears fell instantly:" The kite string is still in your hand, you can pull it! "

Bobby Chen replied, "You have your dreams, and I have my things to do. Don't bother me again, OK? "

Bobby Chen didn't give milk tea any hope. He wanted her to be better than anyone else.

Milk tea once blogged: "The truth is the relationship between master and apprentice, except that the apprentice loves master, there is no romantic plot that everyone expects."

whether it is mentoring or love, Bobby Chen is a noble person in her artistic career. Without Bobby Chen's appreciation and love, there would be no evergreen Rene Liu today.

milk tea seems to have been wandering on the bumpy road of love, and people who fall in love with it are those who can't.

When Milk Tea held a concert in Shanghai in 24, Zhang Aijia said, "Your boyfriend this time is much better than the one like Xu Zhimo last time."

At the scene, Rene Liu said: "A boy called me and said he was getting married, but if I didn't agree, he wouldn't get married. I said to him,' I wish you happiness!'"

The concert was held on March 6th, and Huang Lei and Sun Li got married on March 8th. I'm afraid only the parties concerned know the subtleties.

Milk tea once collaborated with Huang Lei in April Day on Earth. She played Zhang Youyi and Huang Lei played Xu Zhimo. In the play, the husband and wife had an affair outside the play.

At that time, Huang Lei had been in love with Sun Li for five years. Milk tea turned around alone for the happiness of others and continued her loneliness.

She fell in love with the director Chen Guofu. The rumor is that Chen Guofu cheated on Rene Liu when she was dating Su Huilun, and she fell in love with the wrong person again.

For this relationship, milk tea has been waiting for more than ten years, guarding a loneliness, and without the promise of coming to Chen Guofu, it will go away.

She once loved Huang Lei and waited for director Chen Guofu for more than ten years, but it didn't work out.

Just like the line in her debut film, Later Us: "If there is no if, there will be no later."

the love of milk tea is as lonely as she has always been, as if she is fighting alone and falling in love alone.

On the morning of August 8, 211, Rene Liu called Zhang Aijia: "Sister Zhang, I want to tell you something."

Zhang Aijia didn't hear her out, so she said, "We're getting married, aren't we? Go quickly! "

Milk tea married herself on that day and married Zhong Xiaojiang.

Zhong Xiaojiang is a financial person who likes photography. He is also a good friend of Wang Xiaofei, the husband of Big S.

After marriage, Rene Liu wrote a book "I Dare to Be Lonely in Your Arms". Her loneliness didn't go far because of her marriage, and it was like a shadow.

Some people say that the book Milk Tea is telling everyone that she still has her own freedom in marriage.

Some people say that it is cool that marriage does not destroy the independence of their husband and wife, and the point is that boys will appreciate this life.

in most people's eyes, we should be independent in marriage, so why get married?

Zhang Aijia once said, "Don't rely on what the other party gives you. Everyone is an independent individual. We are lonely from beginning to end when we come and leave."

loneliness is the normal state of life.

Since Milk Tea had a son, she said that she had changed, becoming the kind of "sticky" mother that she once despised most.

She often basks in her son, who grows up day by day in everyone's eyes.

she will also bake them for children, and they will be all kinds of interesting and delicious.

Her love for her children was something she longed for when she was a child, but she couldn't get it. Subconsciously, she would double it.

She gave her son life, and he cured her loneliness. It was a small umbilical cord that connected mother and child, and his son became the most important man in her life.

Today, 5-year-old Rene Liu is standing on the stage with a ponytail and a white shirt, but her eyes are softer as before.

Bobby Chen said, "Milk tea is the artist he has ever seen, and he has read the most."

Perhaps it is because of reading more books that milk tea has a different flavor from others.

half milk and half tea, half warm and half sober, gentle and without losing strength, let people see the intellectual beauty of women.

intellectuality is the highest praise for women, and Rene Liu is like this, with confidence, connotation, wisdom and intellectual beauty accumulated over the years.