The two families are at odds over getting married and booking a hotel. What should we do?

You are right about these two things, and so are his parents.

1, are you sure you won't live in a small house? You have to change houses. Generally speaking, you have to live in a small house for several years before others can live. Why can't you live in a house where others can live? No, it's better to give older people a big house. They are all in pain. As young people, we should accept this kind of suffering. After two or three years of marriage, if you find it really uncomfortable, your husband will also think of changing rooms. Wouldn't it be nice to think about changing rooms at that time? Now, just to get married, it is really not cost-effective to pay tens of thousands of taxes and other moving and decoration expenses in the middle of buying and selling a house. Their parents are willing to move to a small house, which is a great concession. They take care of the younger generation.

Don't be too stressed in everything. Although he is a little disrespectful to your family here, if it is more cost-effective, cheaper and more cost-effective, you can consider telling your boyfriend the advantages and believe that their family will not have a hard time with money. It would be great if the hotel they chose was not bad except for a little deviation. Think about how big a step people take, and you have to give in. It is not said that the man and the woman must have an advantage in love, and everyone is married by their children.

If you are willing to move back to a small house, all grievances will be touched. If your family still insists on their own ideas, it is estimated that it is very likely to break up. Even if you don't break up, your husband and wife will not look good when they meet their parents.