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How to make yourself generous

Question 1: How can I be tolerant? On the road of life, we will always encounter twists and turns. There are also dark corners in the bright sunshine; In a clear sky, there will be dark clouds floating over; When a huge ship sails at sea, it often meets the challenge of strong winds and waves; Vehicles driving on the earth are often blocked by mountains and rivers; In the process of getting along with others, you will also meet all kinds of people, either considerate or knowledgeable; Or narrow-minded and unreasonable; Or cynical and emotional; Still tolerant, calm and calm. ...

? Xunzi once said: "A group of wise men can tolerate ink, knowledge can tolerate fools, knowledge can tolerate shallowness, and essence can tolerate miscellaneous." The western proverb says: "The biggest thing in the world is the ocean, the sky is bigger than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." What is said here is the truth of tolerance. Tolerance is a broad mind and a lofty virtue. Don't be self-centered in life, understand and respect different opinions and behaviors. Even if you are reasonable, you can't be aggressive. You have to be reasonable, impose your opinions and actions on others, and respect others' free choice. Respecting others means respecting yourself and tolerating others, which will bring you a vast sky.

? Tolerance is not easy, you need to have a broad mind. What should you do when your sincerity is regarded as childish, your courage as reckless, your flexibility as smooth, your concession as weak, your caution as conservative and your praise as irony? Hiding and crying badly? Crying can't change other people's views, but it's yourself who is sad; Talking about defending yourself? That can only be people's jokes after dinner; Shy to change yourself according to other people's opinions? That will make you lose confidence and lose yourself. Where there is no understanding, it will stimulate the power of self-esteem. Don't beg for understanding. If you don't understand, you won't have the trouble of not being understood; Without understanding, you will have a more open mind and the courage to turn back. Only by learning to be tolerant, be able to tolerate different opinions and let the wind and rain interweave together can we see the beautiful rainbow; Only by interweaving love and hate can we understand the value of true feelings; Only by keeping praise and criticism in mind can we shape ourselves completely and maintain a good character.

? Tolerance is the best way to solve problems. When your courage overcame difficulties, your caution avoided mistakes again and again, your true feelings melted the ice in others' hearts, your flexibility turned us around, your concessions brought a vast world to both sides, your praise was unanimously recognized by the public, and people would understand you more and trust you more.

? People need tolerance and understanding. Tolerance is a catalyst, which can eliminate barriers, reduce misunderstandings and resolve contradictions; Tolerance is a lubricant, which can adjust the relationship, reduce friction and avoid collision; Tolerance is a refreshing agent, which will make people feel comfortable, warm, confident and beautiful in this world.

? To tolerate others, we must first learn to tolerate ourselves. When encountering setbacks, we should keep a good attitude and have the confidence and courage to overcome difficulties. If you accidentally fall, don't lie on the ground and regret it. You should stand up, polish your glasses and move on. The road is wrong, don't turn around in the same place, face the sun, the moon and the stars, and firmly identify the direction. It is not terrible that people don't understand. The terrible thing is that we have lost confidence in ourselves. Dashan doesn't know the flowing spring water, and many roadblocks are set up, but the spring water never stops, bypasses rocks, jumps off cliffs, becomes waterfalls, becomes rivers, and rushes to the vast sea. When a ship doesn't understand the shore, it always leaves, but the shore always waits and always opens its wide arms. The sun doesn't understand the moon and doesn't like her pale light. The moon always follows the sun. When the sun went down, she lit up the whole night with a faint soft light.

? People need tolerance, and so does the progress of a country. In the history of China, tolerance is obvious to all. In the history of the Party, in order to unite all forces that can be United and defeat powerful enemies, China and China * * * successively joined hands with their opponents to launch a massive Northern Expedition and War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, which eventually overthrew the feudal society, drove out imperialism and established a new China. In the process of socialist construction, China and eight other political parties treat each other with sincerity, share weal and woe, and create a better future together. In today's * * * when the cause of capitalism has suffered setbacks, Socialism with Chinese characteristics is still in full swing and thriving, precisely because it has persisted in reform and opening up and absorbed all civilized achievements of human society, including capitalist society. China's success in recovering Hong Kong and Macao and maintaining its prosperity and stability is due to the implementation of "one country, two systems" >:>

Question 2: How can I be generous? We can treat some small things lightly, and do not lose our sense of proportion to big things, so as to be generous.

Question 3: How to make yourself generous? Everyone is selfish. You have to understand that you don't control her? Can't infringe on her freedom of action and thought. You can only accept it or not. Don't hurt each other with words or actions. Know the rights.

Question 4: How can people become generous and tolerant of others? First, learn to be tolerant of yourself. When encountering setbacks, we should keep a good attitude and have the confidence and courage to overcome difficulties. If you accidentally fall, don't lie on the ground and regret it. You should stand up, polish your glasses and move on. The road is wrong, don't turn around in the same place, face the sun, the moon and the stars, and firmly identify the direction. It is not terrible that people don't understand. The terrible thing is that we have lost confidence in ourselves. Dashan doesn't know the flowing spring water, and many roadblocks are set up, but the spring water never stops, bypasses rocks, jumps off cliffs, becomes waterfalls, becomes rivers, and rushes to the vast sea. When a ship doesn't understand the shore, it always leaves, but the shore always waits and always opens its wide arms. The sun doesn't understand the moon and doesn't like her pale light. The moon always follows the sun. When the sun went down, she lit up the whole night with a faint soft light.

Misunderstandings and even conflicts are common. The key is how to solve the contradiction. Tolerance of others will take the initiative to forgive others' mistakes and laugh it off; Some people can turn enemies into friends and conquer others with tolerance. These practices are conducive to solving problems and harmonizing friends. However, some people have different attitudes towards contradictions. If someone inadvertently says something against him, he will fly into a rage and swear; When others have made progress and achievements, he will make sarcastic remarks sourly, so he is unhappy. There is a nameless anger in my heart. So in a state of hatred, he lost the reason of life and the standard of being a man. Therefore, I hold on to other people's mistakes and say, "Three points cannot be argued." I want to compete, and those who are light will blush and show their teeth. In the worst case, they hit each other with their fists, which made them black and blue, even hurting their muscles and bones. It was a trivial matter, but it caused serious consequences. The reason is the lack of broad mind.

Tolerance is a good medicine to solve a knot in one's heart, broadmindedness is the basis of making friends, and tolerance can win you friendship. Generosity, wisdom and low-key are sometimes more helpful to solve problems than arrogance. Being generous to others' mistakes is actually a low-key attitude, which will make people unforgettable and full of gratitude for life. Don't be sharp-edged when dealing with people, be more harmonious and considerate every day.

Tolerance is a positive attitude towards life. In the face of fierce market competition and sudden changes in the world, one must have a broad mind in order to maintain a good competitive state. Paranoia and jealousy can only narrow their own path, and finally there is no way out. The rise of Bill Gates is the success of compatible thinking. Facing the diversified value world and the compatible characteristics of the times, we should seriously reflect on the bad habit of intolerance in our humanity and forge a new humanity-tolerance.

Tolerance is the best way to solve problems. When your courage overcame difficulties, your caution avoided mistakes again and again, your true feelings melted the ice in others' hearts, your flexibility turned us around, your concessions brought a vast world to both sides, your praise was unanimously recognized by the public, and people would understand you more and trust you more.

Although there are differences in the forms of expression between people, there are only three kinds in classification: one is useful, the other is dispensable, and the other is people who are not as good as themselves. We must truly be a low-key person, do things with high profile, learn to be grateful, and choose the right goal. Be upright, be upright.

Be honest and do things in a standardized way. People tend to be detached when they are alone, and often expose many problems at any time when they are in contact with people. In fact, this is caused by distrust of their personality. Everyone has his own way of doing things and principles, but it is almost impossible for everyone to fully realize his wishes and complete one thing, even after completion, he needs to pay a lot. A person lives in this world without seeking fame, but seeking merit.

Be kind to others. Be kind to others, and the world will be broad.

People need tolerance and understanding. Tolerance is a catalyst, which can eliminate barriers, reduce misunderstandings and resolve contradictions; Tolerance is a lubricant, which can adjust the relationship, reduce friction and avoid collision; Tolerance is a refreshing agent, which will make people feel comfortable, warm, confident and beautiful in this world.

Tolerance is a noble personality cultivation, a "prime minister's generosity" and a general demeanor. To be open-minded and tolerant of others, we must achieve mutual understanding and mutual accommodation, mutual respect and mutual love. Mutual understanding means mutual understanding, regardless of personal grievances. Everyone has feelings and dignity, needs the understanding of others, and has the obligation to understand others. With mutual understanding, we can maintain a calm mind and a tolerant personality. ......& gt& gt

Question 5: How can I be generous? To tell the truth, if it is not very tolerant, my personality is hard to change. This will be a very long-term bluff. In order to shorten this process, it must be promoted by external forces.

Either you meet someone or something that has a great influence on you; Either choose a religious belief and change your outlook on life through faith, such as Buddhism or Christianity, which will teach you to increase tolerance for the world.

The first situation needs opportunities, and the second situation can be pursued actively.

Question 6: How can I make myself more generous? Everyone's mood will change with time, place and different people. Keeping a good mood and living an optimistic life should be what each of us should aspire to. ....

Question 7: How can I become generous and tolerant? There is no room for a grain of sand in love, probably many people do! Unless you just don't care, be generous.

Question 8: How to be generous and look at everything, no matter what you pay.

For example, if someone has done something wrong to you and made you angry, you can learn to take a deep breath and smile at him/her, because he/she has taught you tolerance; People never pay attention to you and always treat you as a thorn in the side. You can take the initiative to talk to him/her, no matter how big his/her shelf is, you will be grateful to him/her in the future, because she/he has taught you how to make yourself optimistic and positive from adversity. You treated someone to an expensive meal today. Don't worry about it. Next time he/she asks you for help, you will still pay the bill when having dinner together, which shows your generosity.

Of course, these are just some very humble things. The specific thing depends on the landlord to experiment himself.