Why would anyone object to holding a wedding in a hotel?

I think the wedding is one of the most important ceremonies in a person's life, and most people think it should be taken seriously and held ceremoniously.

In China, weddings usually begin with the groom leaving in the morning to pick up the bride, then walking down the red carpet, saying vows, throwing bouquets and entertaining guests ... until late at night.

Weddings are also expensive, which is a big expense for ordinary families.

In recent years, with the change of people's concepts, concepts such as "naked marriage" and "simple marriage" have gradually become popular among young people.

These people think that the wedding is too complicated and extravagant, but it is not necessary. It is better to travel with the money from marriage and buy a home, which is more economical and cost-effective.

This concept conflicts with the traditional concept, which has caused a lot of discussion.

Recently, a netizen posted in Weibo that her boyfriend wanted to get a license and didn't want to have a wedding (not because of money, but simply because of ideas), but she couldn't accept it herself, so she wanted to ask everyone's opinion.

This submission triggered a discussion among tens of thousands of netizens, and the two most praised comments supported not having a wedding. Their reasons are as follows:

"The current wedding mode is very embarrassing, like playing with a monkey."

"It is more cost-effective to use the money for marriage."

Many netizens think that holding a wedding in a hotel is a "nightmare":

Think about it and you will understand that most weddings held in hotels are the same routine now. The host is sensational on the stage and eats and drinks under the stage. Sometimes the link set by the host is a bit too "melodramatic", which makes the bride and groom a bit embarrassed.

The sense of ceremony in marriage makes us learn to keep a poetic and romantic distance in the real life of running around for life and bending over for five buckets of rice.

When I was a child, I liked eating fish very much, and my mother was familiar with the vendors selling fish in the market. One day when I came home from school at noon, I saw my mother cooking ribs, but she clamored for braised fish. My mother had no choice but to call the vendor. As a result, the stall owner at the other end of the phone said, I'm sorry, big sister, I have to spend my birthday with my wife, so I won't make it today.

My friend Jiang Yan's parents are ordinary working-class people. Once my mother was going to a classmate's party. When she was shopping, she saw an expensive coat and didn't want to buy it. Dad secretly went back to buy it for her and gave it to his mother as a gift, which cost him half a year's savings.

He was glad to see his wife wearing that expensive coat to the party, and he felt that he should give her that sense of ceremony.

Now that I think about it, I am suddenly moved by the most ordinary people in the world. Even though life is hard, we forget to look up at the moon day and night at work, but we still don't want to ignore those special moments, those moments and lovers worthy of companionship and commemoration.

In the context of this sense of ceremony, those hardships, grievances and heaviness on weekdays can be released and appeased.