When you are in love, you should ask your mother for advice when you open a room with me. Ma Baonan, why didn't you get married after you divorced me?

There has been a saying on the Internet that if you marry a wife, don't marry a helper, and if you marry a mother, don't marry a baby boy. Ma Baonan is like every woman's nightmare. And his mantra: "My mother said". This makes most women shudder.

In fact, women don't want to marry Ma Baonan for two reasons. First, because Ma Baonan is mostly irresponsible and has no opinion. Marrying such a man will make a woman's later life very tired; Second, as long as you marry Ma Baonan, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be difficult to get along with. There will be many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because Ma Baonan is the fuse of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

These two points together, I believe that most women will not want to marry Ma Baonan at all. But in real life, there will still be cases where women marry Ma Baonan. Why?

In fact, the main reason is that Ma Bao-Nan can't be observed from his usual behavior, and this trait can only be detected after getting along with each other day and night. Many women feel that men are normal and have good feelings when they are in love. Only after I got married did I find that the man around me turned out to be Ma Baonan. At this time, it is too late to regret.

I believe everyone has heard of the destructive power of men on marriage, so women must pay attention to observation when choosing a spouse, judge whether the men around them are men or not, and then decide whether to get married.

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"When I am in love, I have to ask my mother for advice. Ma Baonan and I have never been married since our divorce. " Said this sentence, is a reader, name is Xiao Lu.

Lu Xiao is 30 years old and has just been married to her current husband for less than two years. In fact, Lu Xiao once had a failed marriage. During that marriage, the relationship between Lu Xiao and her ex-husband Zhang Nan was warm at the beginning and cold at the end. They are both responsible, but Zhang Nan is more responsible.

When Xiao Lu told me about the marriage, she obviously had some resentment. It can be seen that this marriage has done great harm to her.

Xiao Lu met her ex-husband Zhang Nan at the age of 24. At that time, Xiao Lu worked in a company, and her life was very dull, which made her feel bored. So I took annual leave to travel abroad.

She met Zhang Nan on the trip. Zhang Nan's appearance is Xiao Lu's type. The boy is very gentle and careful. Along the way, two people met and walked together. The relationship is progressing rapidly.

After the tour, the two left contact information with each other when they broke up. Because in the same city, Zhang Nan often asks Lu Xiao out to play.

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Soon, this romantic princess's feelings finally came to fruition. Confess to the south, agree, and the two are officially together.

At that time, Lu Xiao had moved out from home and shared a room with a good friend. Zhang Nan lives with her parents.

When two people are in love, you are jealous of me, and Zhang Nan's thoughtfulness makes Lu Xiao feel very happy. However, she found that every time she played outside with Zhang Nan, Zhang Nan would go home at 8 pm.

At first, Xiao Lu thought it was because he had something to do that he ignored it. But after a long time, I couldn't help asking Zhang Nan why. Unexpectedly, Zhang Nan casually replied, "Ah, my mother asked me to go home at 8 o'clock every night."

At first, Xiao Lu didn't take it to heart, thinking that the tutor might be too strict.

Later, when getting along with Zhang Nan, Zhang Nan would sometimes say, "What does my mother say?" My mother said it seemed to be his mantra. When it comes to his mother, Zhang Nan is always full of admiration and attachment. Tell Xiao Lu how good his mother is.

She simply thinks that Nan is a filial person, and she doesn't think much about anything else. In fact, now that I think about it, this is simply a sign of a baby boy.

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One thing that impressed Xiao Lu the most has been buried in her heart. It was this that surprised her a little.

It was more than a year since I fell in love with Nan. In fact, according to the convention, they can get married after a year of love. But neither seems to be in a hurry. What makes Xiao Lu feel ashamed to express most is that Zhang Nan hasn't touched her in love for more than a year.

At first, Xiao Lu thought he was honest and a gentleman, but he was sure that he hadn't touched himself for more than a year, and Xiao Lu had begun to wonder if he was not attractive enough.

As Yugoslavia did not take the initiative, Lu Xiao decided to take the initiative on its own. It was Valentine's Day, and Lu Xiao invited Zhang Nan to spend the night with her. Zhang Nan agreed.

When he came to the door of the hotel with Nan, Nan hesitated. He said to Xiao Lu, "honey, wait a minute. I'll call my mother." Ask her opinion. "

I thought I heard wrong, or Nan was joking with myself. But Zhang Nan really called her mother. After the phone call, Zhang Nancai and Xiao Lu walked into the hotel.

Shortly after that happened, Nan offered to get married and agreed. Two people got married quickly, because many things went smoothly.

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After marriage, life is still the same. The relationship between them is still very good, but Lu Xiao's mother-in-law often goes home and says that she is not worried about life in Zhang Nan.

As soon as her mother-in-law got home, she told Xiao Lu what she had done. She also asked Lv Xiao to remember what Zhang Nan likes and dislikes. Everything should be done according to his preference. Xiao Lu was very uncomfortable because her mother-in-law told her about her life. Every time I complain to Zhang Nan, Zhang Nan only says one thing: "My mother is good for me, so just listen to her!"

Gradually, Xiao Lu found that this was wrong. South's sense of independence is almost zero. He can't cook or do housework. He is a young master. Although Zhang Nan learned to do something under Lu Xiao's compulsion, every time her mother-in-law came home and saw him doing housework, she would say, "What are you going to do? Let your daughter-in-law do it. " Nan listened to her mother very much and threw them all away, talking and laughing with her mother.

In addition, Xiao Lu found that Zhang Nan was very indecisive and couldn't make up his mind on many things. When he is in trouble, his first reaction is to find his mother. This is actually a disguised evasion of responsibility. He doesn't care about some things at home and can't make up his mind. Lu Xiao is in charge alone. Life is hard.

Lu Xiao suddenly realized that the man she married was a real mambo.

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The longer I live, the more painful Lu Xiao will be. Life with Ma Baonan is simply a kind of torture, and I have to face my mother-in-law who does everything by herself. Xiao Lu's relationship with her mother-in-law was tense and she quarreled many times. Zhang Nan will only help her mother accuse Lu Xiao.

At that time, her mother-in-law began to tell Xiao Lu what to do, saying that she didn't take good care of her son. Lu Xiao broke out and had a big fight with her mother-in-law. When Zhang Nan heard two people quarreling, he was angry with Lu Xiao: "How do you talk to my mother? Apologize to my mother! "

Xiao Lu looked at the mother-in-law who didn't cry. Without a word, she shouted directly, "Do you want me to apologize? No way, I divorce you and you live with your mother! "

Even the divorce was agreed by Zhang Nancai with her mother's consent. After divorcing Zhang Nan, Lv Xiao breathed a sigh of relief, feeling that the stone in her heart had finally disappeared.

A few years later, Lu Xiao remarried and married a good man. Her life was dull and full. According to the residents nearby, Zhang Nan has never been married since she divorced Xiao Lu. The reason is that women don't want to marry a baby boy.

Xiao Lu was not surprised when she learned about it. Mambo people like Zhang Nan should live with his mother all their lives and stop hurting other women!