Studying in Fan Deng: The fastest growth is to go to places where cattle and people gather together.

Seeing that the vigorous double eleven is coming to an end, it also means that there are only less than 50 days left in 2020. I especially want to ask you, what were your achievements at the beginning of the year?

Many people told me that at the beginning of each year, they vowed to say how much money they would make, how many pounds they would lose and how many books they would finish to achieve transformation and growth. ...

But without exception, it was not completed in the end. Busy for a year, it seems that nothing has changed, repeating myself day after day.

In fact, I want to say that if you don't think you are driving enough, you can go to a place where cattle people gather.

When you are in an environment where people around you are excellent, you will naturally be pulled by a force to grow up.

A few years ago, there was a news report that Chen Sheng, a young man from Suqian, Jiangsu Province, wanted to find a job in hotel management after graduating from college, but he was attracted by the atmosphere of China Communication University and stayed behind to become a campus security guard.

Bobby Chen became interested in broadcasting and dreamed of becoming a broadcast host.

Teachers and students in the media also offered suggestions to Bobby Chen, suggesting that he read professional books, strengthen his theoretical foundation and guide him to correct his pronunciation.

Finally, with the help of teachers and students from the surrounding media, Chen Shengzai passed the professional degree examination of broadcasting host, and took off his security suit in September of that year and became a student of Communication University of China.

It can be said that it is under the influence of excellent teachers and students in the media that Bobby Chen dares to break through his ceiling and realize his dream.

There are also major college dormitories that have been popular in recent years.

People in a dormitory go out early and return late together, busy with study and activities, preparing for exams all night before the end of the term, and signing up for large and small competitions.

It is hard to imagine that in such a dormitory environment, anyone would be willing to indulge themselves.

I also have a deep understanding of this. When I meet an awesome person in my daily work and life and feel that his way of thinking, cognitive horizon and behavior mode are far beyond me, I am particularly happy, because it means that I have another example to learn.

Good people are like mirrors. Seeing my shortcomings and deficiencies, his existence reminds me that you can improve yourself in this direction.

Moreover, excellent people have a trait, that is, they will never be satisfied with their present self and pursue higher goals.

This also prompted me to constantly remind myself that there are still many new things worth learning, and strive to make myself a little different from myself yesterday.

There is a saying: the three people closest to you determine the direction of your future life.

If we are surrounded by mediocre people, we are probably mediocre people, because people, as a social animal, are too easily influenced by others.

Only if you have strong restraint and self-discipline can you jump out of the original circle and stand side by side with outstanding people to realize your leap-forward growth.

But the ideal is full and the reality is skinny. Some people will ask: I am a small clerk who works diligently in a small place and contacts a fixed number of people every day. Where can I cut off my contacts and get close to the bosses?

I believe that many people have similar troubles, that is, limited by their own environment, they can't get in touch with outstanding people, and they are immersed in the short-term triviality of their parents for a long time, which inevitably leads to vulgarity. Looks like they'll never get in touch with Niu Ren.

But Descartes once said: reading all good books is like talking to the most outstanding people in the past.

Therefore, reading more books and reading good books is also a way to close the distance like a cow.

Many great men are very bookish.

Charlie Munger, Warren Buffett's golden partner, once said, "There is no smart person I have ever met who doesn't study every day. You may be surprised that I have read so many books. My children laugh at me. They thought I was a two-legged book. "

But reading more books is enough? Opening books may not be beneficial, but it depends on what you read.

If we hold books such as anecdotes and stories all day, our thinking and cognition will not be greatly improved; Only by constantly challenging yourself to read those classic books that have been verified by millions of people and can stand the scrutiny of time can we get unexpected growth in books.

Every good book is devoted to the endless efforts and thoughts of great men. Looking through a good book is a face-to-face conversation with a big cow, and you can enrich and grow yourself through constant communication and discussion.

Moreover, I would like to add that besides reading more books, reading good books and listening to big coffee telling good books is a way to improve yourself quickly.

Because big coffee can combine its unique life experience with the profound knowledge accumulated by years of farming and reading, and tell you the knowledge in the book. What you get in the end is the essence of books and the double dry goods of big coffee.

So, listen to the big coffee and tell a good book, and you will gain1+1> 2。 Of course, we can also chew a book by ourselves, but due to the limitation of cognition, many good books may not read on, and finally we will miss the encounter with an excellent soul in vain.