Every woman who loves life has a domineering president inside her

Are there such a group of women around you? They may not necessarily be the most beautiful, but they always have smiling faces. They may be older, but they still please both men and women. ; They love life, are confident and have aura, know how to use their own advantages, and know their own keywords. Such a woman has a domineering president living in her heart, who can control the situation of life and hold herself.

1. A woman who loves life does not compare other people’s strengths with her own shortcomings, but knows how to make her own strengths longer.

My flower arrangement class contact person, Teacher Su, is an authentic Shanghai aunt. In my past impression, Shanghai locals were somewhat mean and resistant to outsiders, but Mr. Su was not. I registered in early March and paid my tuition until last week. During the intervening 20 days, Teacher Su would occasionally contact me, but most of the talk was about things other than the course.

During college, I worked part-time at a training institution, and after graduation I also worked as a teaching assistant for online courses for about half a year. So I can understand the feeling of education and training. Training institutions have very high requirements for their employees, which does not mean that only those with high academic qualifications have a long way to go. In addition to a good service attitude, she needs all your time. Some people would say that the whole time is too exaggerated! Listen to me and speak slowly.

In 2016, we launched online courses, with hundreds of people signing up every day. For this purpose, we specially arranged teaching assistants who specialize in recruiting students into the group. Often at one or two in the morning, the teaching assistants are still recruiting students. Join the group. At this time, I remembered the sentence that is often used on the screen, "Staying up late is equal to chronic suicide." Yes, we have upgraded from "shameless" to "self-killing". Talking about consultation, maybe when you have been chatting for a long time and are secretly happy about the deal, the other party suddenly says, do you still need more money? So there is no further content. Or maybe even though the course content is clearly stated in the course link, they still ask you about the course bit by bit. Just imagine, how do you feel when hundreds of people ask you this a day?

What brings me closer to Teacher Su is also her attitude towards work. She said: I am not omnipotent like others and can do everything, but I believe that treating people sincerely will always yield corresponding rewards. I am just doing my best and being responsible for every student who signs up from me. yes! Women who love life also love their work. They are not perfect, but they are always working hard to improve themselves, are responsible for the people around them, and know how to live a life of hard work without being tired, and relaxed without slacking off.

2. A woman who loves life can not only say what others want to hear, but also feel comfortable conveying her own views.

The AE in charge of my project is about to take a month off. I am very reluctant to leave it and I am still a little worried. One is worried about whether the connection with the new AE can be smooth, and the other is the next control of the new products of the project. We have been together for 8 months, and although we have quarrels, we get along very harmoniously. But I say most of the credit should go to her.

Both are young girls born in the 90s, but they are much more mature and stable than me. Not only is she beautiful, she is very knowledgeable about projects and has a high emotional intelligence. She always conveys the client's point of view appropriately and makes you comfortable with changes. Anyone who has worked in the advertising industry knows that change, change, and change are commonplace, which often makes the designers and copywriters who have worked so hard to create cry and curse. The emergence of AE not only saves docking work time, but also prevents staff from losing emotional control.

We had many disagreements at first, but after long-term cooperation, I also developed a sense of trust in her. She will help you find information when you are busy; she will make suggestions when you are confused; and she will update customer feedback in a timely manner when you are unsure about the project. You would definitely say, this is what AE should do, right? But not every AE does a good job!

Sitting together for lunch at noon, she was scrolling wildly on her phone. When we asked her in confusion what she was doing? She explained in an orderly manner: Book flights, book hotels, and plan the route. It turned out that during this month's vacation, she arranged a trip for herself. From Taizhou to Ma'anshan, from idol concerts to weddings, from Chongqing to Lhasa, from carpooling to walking alone, he has arranged every step he will take. Listening to her gorgeous arrangements, my admiration for her increased to another level.

3. A woman who loves life will use her own abilities to make life comfortable, and she will also treat herself and others with empathy, making you comfortable around her.

My former boss, I now call her Sister Qiqi. I still remember that I wrote about her last time in the article "Post-90s". She was a hot mom. She was born in 1988. She has an 8-year-old daughter. She bought a big house in Wuhu and ran an advertising company independently.

I sent her "Post-90s" to read. I said I wrote about you, and she chatted with me and asked me how I was doing. At that time, I thought she didn't care. Later, she posted the article to Moments and added a paragraph, which roughly meant that my former employee wrote about me perfectly.

After seeing it, I was very moved. First, before this, even my dearest Pangpang had never forwarded any article I wrote. For a beginning writer, forwarding is the best support. Here, I would like to thank her for her encouragement.

Secondly, she makes me very decent. She knows her circle of friends very well, and very few people know me. So she didn't praise my writing profusely, but said that I wrote her perfectly. In the eyes of others, they will definitely be curious, what does such a slightly mysterious woman look like in the eyes of others?

Just a few hours after that, "Post-90s" was recommended on the home page.

Later, when I posted another post, she gave me likes and tips, telling me to cheer up!

I have always felt that for women, vision and experience are very important. There are two types of vision: one is tangible, that is, the scenery you have seen. One is intangible, that is, the books you have read and the knowledge you have accumulated. Knowledge cannot be seen or touched, but it can guide you invisibly and guide you in the direction of progress. Experience is the road you have traveled, the pitfalls you have jumped, the losses you have suffered, the people you have loved, the injuries you have suffered, etc. It is your wealth, affecting your choices in the future and helping you move towards a better self. Move forward.

There is no standard answer in life, you can only look and see as you go.

It is better to think more than to do more. I hope you and I are on the road.

I am Yuanbao, a child who enjoys living a simple life.

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