My husband goes on vacation with his ex-wife every weekend

Introduction: Lao Li said he wanted to be with me. I originally thought I would be very happy, but my mentality has changed and I can't go back to the past. Before, I trusted him a lot. He goes to Wuhan every Friday night after work to pick up his son from school and play with his son.

I never call Mr. Li on Saturdays and Sundays. But the night before yesterday, I was restless. I went to get the cup and walked to the kitchen but forgot what I wanted. It was like I had lost my mind. I thought about it and dialed Lao Li's number.

The phone was connected, and his voice was very low, like a thief. I asked him what he was doing and he said he was watching a movie. I asked him: Is it with your son? He said: Yes.

After hanging up the phone, I knew he had lied to me, and it must have been his ex-wife Yuan Xiaowei. I felt very sad, but Lao Li finally went to watch a movie with her. Yuan Xiaowei knew about our marriage because of a movie.

Lao Li and I are married for the second time, and we got married on National Day this year. Two days after the wedding, Lao Li went to Yuan Xiaowei's place to see his son. Yuan Xiaowei asked him to watch a movie with her, but Lao Li refused to go, so she insisted. Lao Li said: I could watch movies with you in the past, but not this time. I'm married. When Yuan Xiaowei heard this, she couldn't stand it.

I quickly received a call from her. One moment she said she wanted to come to our home, and the next moment she said she wanted to come to my store. No matter where the commotion occurs, it doesn't look good. Since we must meet, let’s meet in a coffee shop.

On the seventh day of our wedding, Lao Li’s ex-wife and I met face to face in the cafe. As soon as she saw me, she started scolding me without even using a single curse word. She said: Are you too empty and lonely, and miss men so much? She also asked if you are very good in bed. She also said that she and Lao Li were together yesterday, and I am embarrassed to say what she said. Those words.

I didn’t go to school, I graduated from a technical secondary school. She is a college student and works as a manager in a large direct selling company. How could she say such nasty things?

I am relatively introverted. I am always nervous when meeting strangers. Besides, I have never experienced such a scene before, so I am speechless. Besides, I didn't want to quarrel with her on such an occasion. So, she was basically talking.

Unexpectedly, she finally called Lao Li and insisted that he come over. After Lao Li arrived, she still said those ugly words. She also asked us to give her 200,000 yuan, and Lao Li said: Impossible.

I couldn’t sit down anymore, so I came out first. They talked for a while, and Lao Li said he would take her back to Hankou. I asked Lao Li when he would be back. Lao Li asked me to wait for him and come back as soon as he went. He came back very late that day.

The man who gave me warmth

I never thought that his ex-wife would come out. Because she thought Lao Li loved playing cards and insisted on getting a divorce. Lao Li didn't want to leave and kept saying good things to her. She disagreed, and later she filed a lawsuit in court, and finally the court ruled against her.

That was two or three years ago. I was also divorced at that time, but I was just an acquaintance with Lao Li. At the beginning of this year, we started dating through someone else's help. Lao Li is a very nice person. I rush to open the shop in the morning and sometimes I can’t take care of breakfast, so Lao Li will deliver it to the shop for me. Sometimes he would also prepare lunch and bring it to my mother and me.

The most important thing is that he is also very good to my son. In the past few years since my divorce, some people have introduced me to him, but no one else could tolerate my son. But Lao Li liked the little guy very much. In the middle of the night, his son had a fever. Lao Li carried his son on his back and took him to the hospital in the city. It’s my son’s birthday and I buy him clothes and shoes. Even my ex-husband didn't care about him that much. My son is very naughty, but he listens to him very well.

Lao Li has a very gentle temper. He won't tell you directly if you don't do well or is wrong, but he can let you know. I'm different, I have a very straight temper and a very irritable temper. I sometimes accuse my mother of not being able to do housework and throwing things away, but Lao Li always stops me and tells me not to say anything. When he was free, he moved a stool to talk to my mother.

I don’t know how to cook, so Lao Li doesn’t say anything, he always does it.

After dating for more than half a year, I know that Lao Li is a man who can give me warmth, not to mention that it was his ex-wife who insisted on divorce in the first place, so there must be nothing to worry about, and he has restrained himself a lot and doesn’t play cards much anymore. . So I married him.

Unexpectedly, his ex-wife jumped out. His ex-wife told me that the reason for the divorce was to scare Lao Li and make him learn to cherish her. She advised me to divorce and let them remarry.

Both ends of the scale

After the three of us met that time, his ex-wife seemed to be too tough, so she started to be soft. I call and send text messages to Lao Li every day, caring about him and trying to win him over. Sometimes I say that my son misses his daddy, I need a husband, and sometimes I recall the good times when they held hands and watched a movie for the first time. Lao Li showed me all these text messages.

At the same time, she kept telling me how bad Lao Li was, saying that he was irresponsible, liked to play cards, asked her for a lot of money, and lost a lot of money. I asked her: Then why do you want to remarry? She said: There is no way, who calls him my son’s biological father.

I gradually discovered that Lao Li’s attitude had changed and he was no longer so tough on his ex-wife. His reaction to the text messages became more and more intense. In the end, he didn’t want to go to work or eat. Very painful.

Seeing him in pain makes me feel bad. I asked Lao Li what he thought, and he said he missed his son and wanted to return to Wuhan for his son's sake.

We live in Yuancheng District, and his ex-wife lives in Wuhan City. When he said he was going back to Wuhan, he meant going back to his ex-wife. He is a civil servant here, which means he doesn't even want a job anymore and wants to go back.

As soon as he finished saying this, he started crying, crying hard. Say you can't help me. We haven't even been married for half a month, are we going to get divorced again? It's too soon.

I was stunned, my heart hurt, and I couldn’t breathe. The next day I got on the train to Guangzhou alone. I wanted to calm down, think about these things, and see if I could accept the divorce just after getting married. He was very worried and called me many times but I didn't answer. Later his father called me and I answered. His father firmly disagreed with their remarriage, saying that no matter how much he begged her, she wanted a divorce, which was too hurtful, and how could they live together again now. He also comforted me and said that since we are married, we should live a good life.

After I came back, Lao Li looked at me formally and told me that he had thought it through and just wanted to be with me.

Actually, I have always been very good to Lao Li. He often said that his ex-wife had never treated him that way. He also always said that I am a good woman, kind and always considerate of others. I think he must have called his ex-wife and me in his heart.

Lao Li said he wanted to be with me. I originally thought I would be very happy, but my mentality has changed and I can't go back to the past. Before, I trusted him a lot. He goes to Wuhan every Friday night after work to pick up his son from school and play with his son. When he went to his friend's place to play cards in the evening, he was afraid that I would be worried, so when he arrived at his friend's place, he called me first. While playing cards, give me another call. After the cards are played, you still need to give me a call. He slept at a friend's place at night. He sends his son to cram school on Saturdays and Sundays. Come back to us on Sunday night. He has been like this since he met and got married.

I have never doubted him, never checked his mobile phone or logged into his QQ. But I never thought that he still wanted to remarry.

Since then, I started to pay attention to some little things about him. For example, before, I never asked him about his relationship with his ex-wife, and he never avoided me. He always talked about his son in front of me. But I found that he is hiding something from me now.

Some time ago, he told me that he bought an insurance policy worth 3,000 yuan for his son. He was not very good at using computers. One day, he asked me to deposit the insurance demonstration book into his mailbox. As soon as he opened his mouth, I knew he wanted to send it to his ex-wife, but why didn't he tell me the truth.

One night, Lao Li drew three people on the grapefruit peel. He pointed it out to me and said the little man in the middle was his son, and pointed to the one on the left and said it was himself. I pointed to the one on the right and asked him: What about this one? It was obvious that it was a woman. He paused and said: It's you.

My heart ached. I know that what he painted is not me.

I am really in pain. I think it is because of me that Lao Li cannot remarry his ex-wife and live with his son. If it weren't for me, they might have reunited long ago. His ex-wife kept telling me: You and Lao Li have nothing but a marriage certificate, and he and I have a son. She also called Lao Li's brother and sister and asked them to persuade him to remarry.

I have been thinking about whether I should help them. If I can't help them, Lao Li has two ends in mind, which makes me uncomfortable. He has already started watching movies with her. But, if I help them, can I bear the consequences? I can't figure it out.

Now Lao Li still goes to Wuhan every Friday night and comes back on Sunday night. It seems like he has two homes.

The characters in this article are all pseudonyms

Columnist Lian Yue once said that even if a machine gun fired at the Bund for three days, it would not accidentally injure a good man.

This statement is not in line with the construction of spiritual civilization. At least in the river beaches of Wuhan, good men will be accidentally injured, such as Lao Li above. When you meet such a good man, you have to hold on to him like you meet a debtor you haven't seen for many years. The narrator is still thinking about whether to let go, which is a waste of such a slim chance and an even slimmer chance of a good man.

As for the ex-wife issue, be more relaxed. Look at Jennifer Aniston, she is an ex-wife that attracts worldwide attention. Regardless of newspapers and magazines, as long as there is news about Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, there will always be a photo of Aniston next to it. The TV was even better. It filmed Pitt and Jolie, and the camera immediately panned to Aniston without any switching. There is also Fei Fei. After the divorce, he asked Zheng Shaoqiu on a TV show if he had loved her back then. At her funeral, Zheng was even criticized. In fact, Zheng Shaoqiu was also wronged. They had been divorced for so many years.

Though celebrities are like this, ordinary people are not the same. So, learn from Julie and Guan Jinghua, how to dress yourself beautifully and tame your husband well when your ex-wife is always with you and gossip lovers complain about them every day.

Narrator: Lin Xinxin

Gender: Female

Age: 30 years old

Occupation: Salesperson

Written in this issue: Reporter Liu Xiaoning