Miriam Yeung's husband Ding Zigao married a 5-year-old star wife, and postpartum depression made her lose her hair.

An editor/love letter

"All in all, I just want to tell you that I can do better, because you make me better, and I love you!"

In 2020, Miriam Yeung took her husband Ding Zigao to participate in the variety "The Romantic Journey of the Wife". It was in this program that we learned the love story of the love song queen Miriam Yeung for the first time.

Although the story is simple, their feelings are not simple. It all comes from the past before they met.

When Miriam Yeung is mentioned in the entertainment circle, I believe most people will think of Eason Chan.

The feelings of the two have always been greater than friendship in the eyes of fans, and they will always be lovers in the eyes of the public.

Of course, some people will think of Zheng Zhongji. Zheng Zhongji is called "Prince Ji" by Hong Kong circle because of his strong family background, and his talent is also great. A Rogue is still an unsurpassed classic.

But even such people failed to keep Miriam Yeung's heart, and they finally broke up.

Both Eason Chan and Zheng Zhongji can be called high-quality people.

But why did Miriam Yeung finally choose Ding Zigao, then a public relations manager and known as "loverboy"?

Since he was with Miriam Yeung, Ding Zigao has been eating soft rice, and the rumor that his wife is expensive has never stopped.

So is he staying with Miriam Yeung for a soft meal or is it really because of true love?

In 2007, Ding Zigao and Miriam Yeung first met in a karaoke box.

The party was hosted by Friends of the Dawn, and all the singers and actors present were hot in the entertainment circle, including Ding Zigao, a public relations expert.

Like Miriam Yeung, Ding Zigao was a singer a long time ago. He made a single and joined a band.

But in the end, with the dissolution of the band and the upgrade of the entertainment circle, Ding Zigao quickly fell into a state of "no such person" in the entertainment circle, and finally had to quit and develop in public relations.

Later, Ding Zigao may find that he is actually more suitable for public relations than a singer.

In just a few years after he retired from the entertainment circle, he became the project director of IPS public relations company in Hong Kong with his good connections and working ability.

But Ding Zigao remembered the singer's dream more or less in his heart, and he always had a strange affection for people who could sing, such as Miriam Yeung.

Before meeting Miriam Yeung, Ding Zigao often listened to Miriam Yeung's songs and was immersed in Miriam Yeung's feelings expressed by music, so he was a loyal fan of Miriam Yeung to some extent.

So when Ding Zigao really saw Miriam Yeung at that moment, although the karaoke bars were noisy and dimly lit, Ding Zigao saw Miriam Yeung at a glance and looked at her involuntarily.

Love at first sight is probably like this.

Later, in order to attract Miriam Yeung's attention, Ding Zigao sang many songs in one breath, and even deliberately showed off his high-pitched skills. However, at that time, Miriam Yeung was only interested in chatting with his friends and didn't pay much attention to him.

At the end of the party, Ding Zigao finally got up the courage to go forward and introduce himself to Miriam Yeung, and directly asked the telephone number.

Miriam Yeung has always been an easy-going person, but he agreed without much thought.

I just gave my work number, not my personal number.

It is worth mentioning that Ding Zigao asked for the phone number directly, instead of using his old method of picking up girls to get the number. Maybe Ding Zigao was different from Miriam Yeung from the beginning.

Ding Zigao is not well-known in the entertainment circle, but he is very handsome and engaged in public relations, so there are many beautiful women around him.

In the past, most of the contact information he asked for girls was small means, such as borrowing a girl's mobile phone and pretending to call herself to get her phone number.

But for Miriam Yeung, Ding Zigao doesn't want this.

He wants to seriously pursue the girl he likes before the formal meeting, but it's really unpleasant to meet for the first time.

Soon after Ding Zigao got Miriam Yeung's phone number, he invited Miriam Yeung out for dinner.

Miriam Yeung saw that he was so persistent and sincere that he knew more or less that Ding Zigao wanted to pursue her, so he kept dating out of the idea of trying to get along.

But when we first met, Ding Zigao didn't praise Miriam Yeung like other suitors, but spoke of the shortcomings and deficiencies that many people dared not say.

"The first time he saw me, he said that I had poor taste in clothes, my face was swollen and I didn't like sports. He also suggested that I should not always sing high notes. "

Miriam Yeung later recalled their first date and felt very angry, but she also remembered that Ding Zigao also said that she sang with great feelings, and many people around her were her fans, including himself.

Although the first meeting made Miriam Yeung feel very unhappy, she thought it over carefully when she returned, and found Ding Zigao very reasonable and sincere.

The most rare thing in working and living in the entertainment circle is this sincerity and frankness.

So after the first date, Miriam Yeung's inner affection for Ding Zigao soared, feeling that he was very different from other men.

After Ding Zigao ended his first date with Miriam Yeung, he felt that Miriam Yeung was really easy-going and simple.

On the whole, it was like this. Although there were many bad things in Miriam Yeung's eyes that day, he still liked it.

Two people who have a good impression on each other confirmed their relationship in the subsequent date.

But two people in love don't know what kind of public pressure and twists and turns they are about to face.

Before pursuing Miriam Yeung, Ding Zigao never thought that the career gap between them would be an obstacle for them to be together.

He thinks that being together is a matter for two people. If you like it, stay together; if you don't like it, leave.

Miriam Yeung, in particular, was a hot new singer in Hong Kong at that time, so their relationship was bound to be difficult.

In the year she met, she won the Top Ten Golden Melody Awards in 2007 for her "Hua", and the TV series "Wu" starring her also won the Best Actress Award in Jinnan Film and Television Awards.

Prior to this, classic songs such as "Big Cities and Small Things" and "Brave Women" have made her frequently climb the podium of various awards.

Even female singers like Karen Mok and CoCo Lee, who are called divas at home and abroad, should avoid three points when they are sharp-edged.

One is a thriving female artist, and the other is just an ordinary public relations manager. When these two people are together, everyone will feel that the gap is too big and they will not be happy.

Ding Zigao's past has been criticized by the Hong Kong media many times, and even a magazine wrote an article about Ding Zigao's past love history, in which Ding Zigao was directly called a "love liar".

At the same time, Miriam Yeung fans disapprove of Miriam Yeung's choice of Ding Zigao, and the article defining Ding Zigao as "loverboy" has also had a great negative impact on Miriam Yeung's career.

When Ding Zigao saw this article, he was both angry and helpless. He often deals with public relations, and he knows that even if he comes out to explain at this time, he will eventually be misinterpreted by the Hong Kong media as something else. The best way is to keep silent first.

But seeing that Miriam Yeung has also been influenced by himself, Ding Zigao feels a little sorry.

In fact, I told Miriam Yeung about my past emotional experience as early as when I was together, but I didn't expect Miriam Yeung to be hurt by my past.

Therefore, Ding Zigao also began to wonder whether to stay with Miriam Yeung.

In his idea, good feelings should make each other better, not because they make each other feel wronged.

While Ding Zigao was hesitating, the article also spread to Shanghai. When Ding Zigao's father saw this article, he was very angry. He called Ding Zigao directly to ask what he was doing in Hong Kong and told him to return to Shanghai immediately.

Father's life is hard, and Ding Zigao also thinks that both for Miriam Yeung's career and the affection between them should be separated for a period of time at the right time and calmly think about whether to separate or continue.

In this way, Ding Zigao chose to leave Hongkong and return to Shanghai.

At this time, the public opinion is still fermenting, so in the end, Ding Zigao can't resist the external pressure to break up with Miriam Yeung, or will he resolutely choose to stay together?

How did Miriam Yeung choose at this time?

After Ding Zigao returned to Shanghai, he patiently explained the false information in the article to his parents and told them that his girlfriend was Miriam Yeung. As for the challenges they face, they remain silent.

After a period of calm in Shanghai, Ding Zigao finally made up his mind to tell his father that he still wanted to go back to work and live in Hong Kong and could not give up everything there.

In fact, he can't let go of Miriam Yeung.

After calm thinking, he was more afraid of losing Miriam Yeung than public opinion and gossip, so Ding Zigao decided to go back to Hongkong and Miriam Yeung to face the gossip.

As for Miriam Yeung, in her previous life, she met many people and gave her heart.

Especially the relationship with Zheng Zhongji, she made a lot of efforts, but in the end she was still hurt all over.

When I first met Ding Zigao, Miriam Yeung just thought he was very nice and worth being with.

But after a long time, Miriam Yeung felt more and more that he would never meet anyone better than himself. For this relationship, Miriam Yeung gradually began to get serious.

So when Ding Zigao and Miriam Yeung proposed later, Miriam Yeung agreed easily.

In 2009, Ding Zigao and Miriam Yeung were secretly registered in Las Vegas. The following year, Ding Zigao held a grand wedding for Miriam Yeung, and invited all relatives and friends to witness their feelings.

Except for their relatives and friends, the outside world is hardly optimistic about their marriage, thinking that the marriage with a big gap will not last long, but Ding Zigao has made their marriage flourish.

After marriage, Ding Zigao became Miriam Yeung's personal housekeeper.

He has always been a controlling person. He likes taking care of this and that, just as Miriam Yeung likes being taken care of. This is their way of getting along.

Because of overwork, Miriam Yeung's health became very poor, so when they first met, Ding Zigao said that she was short of qi and blood.

After getting married, the first thing Ding Zigao did was to take her to see Chinese medicine and recuperate.

Miriam Yeung was 35 when they got married. Because both of them are considering having a child, Ding Zigao has been trying to make all kinds of preparations for Miriam Yeung's physical and psychological consideration.

In the second year of marriage, 37-year-old Miriam Yeung became pregnant and gave birth to her son Torres.

Later, she suffered from postpartum depression, so Ding Zigao gave up all her jobs and stayed with Miriam Yeung for a whole month.

Seeing that Miriam Yeung often shed tears for no reason, Ding Zigao was distressed and worried, and his sad hair fell out.

During that time, Ding Zigao thought about how to treat Miriam Yeung well and how to make her happy every day.

Seeing the photo album given to her by Miriam Yeung's good friend, Miriam Yeung read it with relish, and Ding Zigao suddenly had an idea that maybe he could make a documentary for her.

With this in mind, Ding Zigao took Miriam Yeung's documentary from a teenage girl to a good wife and mother as a project, regardless of the cost, asking for nothing in return, but asking for Miriam Yeung to be happier.

Accompanied and cared for by Ding Zigao, Miriam Yeung gradually emerged from postpartum depression and happily shared it with you on the day of documentary shooting:

"This is Ding Zigao's idea. He really put a lot of thought into it. "

Eyes cannot hide happiness and happiness.

Therefore, women are not afraid to get married and have children. What they are afraid of is that their husbands don't care about their sufferings. If everyone can love his wife like Ding Zigao, I believe there will be many people who are afraid of having children because they are afraid of getting married.

In fact, Miriam Yeung loves Ding Zigao very much, and Ding Zigao carefully prepares Miriam Yeung's birthday every year.

Unlike Ding Zigao, Miriam Yeung is a relatively lazy person and doesn't like to toss.

But one year on Ding Zigao's birthday, Miriam Yeung put a lot of thought into it.

Ding Zigao's birthday is July 3rd1,so Miriam Yeung bought a plane ticket to work in Ding Zigao one day in advance. Ding Zigao thinks that Miriam Yeung is just buying a cake to help him celebrate.

Who knows that when I opened the door of the hotel room, it was full of flowers and balloons arranged by Miriam Yeung, and many good friends from Ding Zigao surprised him inside.

Ding Zigao was pleasantly surprised at that time, but also moved by what Miriam Yeung had done for himself.

About this time, Miriam Yeung found that Ding Zigao actually liked surprises, so he often took pains to prepare for Ding Zigao.

For example, when participating in the variety show "Men Doing Housework", Miriam Yeung insisted on making all preparations to surprise Ding Zigao, even if the balloon was blown dizzy.

Seeing Ding Zigao's happy surprise, Miriam Yeung also felt it was worth it.

In a blink of an eye, the two people who were not optimistic at first have been married for nearly 13 years, not 13 days, not 13 months, but 13 spring, summer, autumn and winter. What better way to test feelings than time?

13 years of marriage is enough to prove their sincere love for each other.

Now that their children are 10 years old, Miriam Yeung is already thinking about opening a coffee shop in the future, because then when his son brings his girlfriend for coffee, he can peek at his future daughter-in-law.

Ding Zigao is teasing her. Why do you think your son will come to your coffee shop for coffee? They sat at the coffee table laughing and laughing.

When the lights come down, the picture of two people smiling at each other shows what happiness is.

In the recent 13 years of marriage, they have all become better and more mature because of each other.

After Miriam Yeung married Ding Zigao, her career did not stagnate.

The film Love of a Pure Son won the Best Actress Award at the 32nd Hong Kong Film Awards.

The song "Fighting for Zero" also won the Top Ten Golden Melody Awards in 20 10.

Recently, I also participated in the music program "The Sound is Endless" to celebrate the 25th anniversary of Hong Kong's return. Continue to sing your favorite songs and pursue your favorite stage, and your career can be described as by going up one flight of stairs.

Miriam Yeung not only developed her career better, but also lived a more comfortable life. When she was in love before, she was very insecure and always worried about things.

But since she married Ding Zigao, she felt enough preference and lived a more comfortable and happy life.

Ding Zigao, too, became braver and more confident because of his wife and son. Although it is often said that husbands and wives are expensive together, they used to be very exclusive, but later they accepted it:

"I admit this statement. After all, Miriam Yeung and I are better because of each other. "

This feeling is very good. Husband and wife make progress and support each other.

In fact, it's not easy to look back on Ding Zigao and Miriam Yeung. Facing a wife who is more successful than her career, she has to face more pressure and more gossip.

But did Ding Zigao pay less in his marriage with Miriam Yeung?

He has always played the role of caring for Miriam Yeung, because Ding Zigao and Miriam Yeung changed from women to girls, and Ding Zigao changed from boys to men because of Miriam Yeung.

Although he has hesitated and considered separation, it is human nature for any man to be timid and inferior in the face of such a situation at that time.

What matters is not the process, but Ding Zigao's later bravery. It is important that Ding Zigao cherished Miriam Yeung for more than ten years, which may be the reason why Miriam Yeung chose him.

Men's family background and economic base are very important in marriage, but Miriam Yeung's marriage shows that these are very important, but not the most important. The most important thing is whether this man is reliable and cherishes you.

As long as Miriam Yeung continues to stand on the stage and sing with a microphone, the gossip about Ding Zigao and the discussion about their family will not stop.

However, after experiencing 13 ups and downs together, they won't let gossip stop their steps, but let their hands get tighter and tighter.

In this great era, gossip never stops, as long as you are loyal to each other and love life.