I talked to my boyfriend for almost five months. The second time we went to the hotel, we made out. He is hard, but he always sleeps with me and doesn't want to have sex with me. What should I do?

He is keeping a commandment: don't get married and don't touch the bottom line. In fact, this bottom line should be for girls. Never hand in the first time without a marriage certificate.

Boys don't care. What if there is a problem between a girl and her current boyfriend? How do you tell people when you enter someone's house? Why should a new boyfriend accept someone who has had sex with others as his wife? He's thinking about you. You should be grateful to him. I think this is a good man.

Not every man wants to possess a girl's body in advance. He did it.

Don't think he is "bad". He's controlling himself.

Think about whether he is not financially ready. Have you booked the wedding room? Whether his old man objects, and so on. If he is troubled by these factors, how can he have the mind to "spend a spring together?"

After a good analysis, you will find the reason. Anyway, I think you should thank him for keeping you a virgin.