Why do boys learn manners?

Question 1: What etiquette do boys learn? Boys are either fierce or good. Men are young people in New China! Advocate "atheism".

Some myths can be explained by science now, but those that can't be explained are because we still need to develop science, but we don't believe in God here!

Let's talk about "Ghost Festival":

The origin of ghost festival

Ghost Festival originated from the story of Manglietia's rescue of mother: "People with Manglietia monks have great strength. His mother fell into the hungry ghost road, and the food mouth turned into flames. Hunger was too bitter. Unable to save her mother, Manglietia asked the Buddha for advice. In order to talk about the Lanpen Sutra, he taught July 15 to be a Lanpen to save his mother. " It is said that at that time, after experiencing all kinds of hardships in the underworld, Manglietia met her dead mother Liu and found that she was tortured by a hungry ghost. Manglietia tried to give her a bowl of vegetable rice, but the vegetable rice was taken away by the hungry ghost. Manglietia had to ask the Buddha for help. The Buddha was moved by Manglietia's filial piety and gave him the Lanjing. According to the instructions, Manglietia dedicated a rare fruit vegetarian meal to her mother on the fifteenth day of the seventh lunar month. The hungry mother finally got the food. In order to commemorate Manglietia's filial piety, the Buddha holds a grand "bonsai" every year, which is what we now call "Ghost Festival".

According to the book, on this day in ancient times, people would set up a magician's seat and a stone drum platform in front of Jiekou Village in advance. In front of the mage's seat, there is a cross &; Uot hell &; Uot ghost's Tibetan king bodhisattva has a dish of peaches and rice under it. Shigu stood on the stage, holding three spiritual cards and evocative complex items in his hand. After noon, families put whole pigs, whole sheep, chickens, ducks and geese and various cakes, fruits and melons on the stone drum stage. The person in charge put a blue, red and green triangular paper flag on each sacrifice and wrote & uot Magnolia Conference &; Uot, and. Uot open which door &; Uot and so on. The ceremony began with solemn temple music. Then, the mage rang the bell and led the monks in the seat to recite various spells and mantras. Then feed, sprinkle a plate of peaches and rice in all directions and repeat three times. This ceremony is called &; Uot flame outlet &; uot。 Wang Kaitai, a scholar in the Qing Dynasty, once wrote a poem: "The Dojo is full of ghosts, and the original ancient meaning of Magnolia still exists. However, it is strange that the red plaque is attached to the door, and the meat mountain wine sea celebrates the Central Plains. " It describes the Halloween customs along the southeast coast of China.

It can be seen that "Ghost Festival" is due to the filial piety of traditional virtues. Nowadays, people in northern China still burn paper money on this day to pay homage to their ancestors who died young and express their thoughts for their loved ones. Although the sacrificial way is simple, it basically retains the simple meaning of Ghost Festival. Because of the call of blood, the extension of feelings and the reminder of one's future, Ghost Festival is endowed with rich humanistic connotation. Even if the years are different and the burned gifts are different, the living will never finish reading endless grief and deep nostalgia for their distant relatives. However, "people of different ages have different feelings about this special festival, because the future festival is coming to them mercilessly, from obscurity to clarity, from missing to fear, from fear to calmness. When they miss the people of the past, they are actually thinking about their experiences, contents, ways and pursuits in today's life."

In Chinese, there are countless words composed of "ghost" such as "ghost hero, ghost, ghost genius", and folk legends about ghosts are even more inexhaustible. China's ghost culture has a long history, reaching an almost perfect level.

Ghost festival culture

It is difficult to see the description of the world after death in ancient mythology, and the word "ghost" didn't mean it at first. In Oracle Bone Inscriptions, the word "ghost" is a word of understanding, and here is the word "person" with a terrible head on it, which means a monster like a person. Later it gradually evolved into something that changed after death. Book of rites? "Sacrifice to Righteousness" has made it very clear: "All beings have to die, and when they die, they return to scholars. This is called a ghost. " Book of rites? The Sacrifice Law further points out: "Ordinary people in Shu Ren have no temples, and when they die, they are ghosts." That is, after the death of dignitaries, there are temples to worship and sacrifices all year round, and they become gods. Ordinary people die, there is no temple to enjoy sacrifices, and wandering around, that is a ghost. The "ghost" explained in China's first dictionary Shuowen means now. There are many words related to ghosts in pre-Qin classics. Confucius famously said "Stay away from ghosts and gods", which shows that Confucianism believes in ghosts and gods, but it is only "respect". Later, although there was Wang Chong's theory of no ghosts in the Eastern Han Dynasty, it could not shake the superstition of Chinese people about ghosts and gods. By the end of Qing Dynasty, although there were fierce ghosts in Pu Songling's works, most of them were young and beautiful female ghosts who attached importance to feelings and righteousness and understood etiquette. After watching Liaozhai, they felt cute, not scary ghosts.

The perfection and enrichment of Chinese ghost culture benefit from Buddhism and Taoism. Taoism is ours, and Buddhism was handed down from the west during the Han and Wei Dynasties, and it was integrated with Confucian culture and secular culture ... >>

Question 2: What is the standard of male etiquette and how to cultivate it? There are two ways for a man to stand: one is to put his hands behind his back, his right hand holding his left hand, his left hand making a fist, his hands sticking to his waist belt, his feet shoulder-width apart, and his toes pointing forward; The other is that the hands are in front, the right hand holds the left back, the arms naturally droop, and the gait posture remains unchanged; The first is a standard sitting posture, with hands on the thighs close to the knees, palms open naturally, legs shoulder-width apart, and toes pointing forward. Put one leg on the other, cross your hands, put one hand on the back of the other hand, put your hands on your knees, and the other foot is comfortable, but it should be generous and decent, but it should not be tilted, and the soles of your feet must be down.

Question 3: What necessary manners should men learn? Respect for others is the best etiquette.

Question 4: The etiquette that a man should pay attention to in his life is 50 points 1. Polite language.

2. dress neatly. It should be noted that if it is more formal, it must be: watches, ties and leather shoes. These are the criteria for a man to be a gentleman.

3. Be polite. Sit left and right and stand when fighting. When speaking, whenever you are in the abdomen, your hand should droop or your right hand should be above your left hand. Remember to be fully prepared when standing.

Be careful not to look at the lady's eyes too erratic.

5. Ask all questions: age, income, marital beliefs, health problems.

Between the elders and the younger generation, only after the elders reach out, the younger generation can reach out and shake hands.

7. When men and women meet, women reach out and men can shake hands. Men shouldn't reach out first.

Watch on left hand and ring on thumb.

Question 5: Can boys do etiquette work? Of course you can achieve 20 points, but you may not be tall enough. I used to do it in a hotel. Generally need 175CM.

I usually work as a receptionist. Help any guest at the door. You may be tipped for carrying luggage and delivering things, but if you are a travel agency, there must be. Generally, a pack or a box can get five faster.

It's best to communicate some English in language, so you may have an advantage. But in the lobby, we usually help the customer service, and the lobby manager will handle some things together.

If you do this, you will learn slowly. Someone taught you, too.

Question 6: Have you always wanted to know if there are boys in the school etiquette team? Hide near the door and wait for the girls to come in before sneaking out.

Question 7: How to cultivate the etiquette of college boys? Attend more than 40 minutes of etiquette class and conduct simulation training.

Question 8: In your mind, what kind of boys are good boys? (whether it is etiquette, living habits, learning situation, etc.). There are too many good standards for 30 points, honesty and kindness, but in fact, good is often one thing, and appropriateness is the best.

Question 9: Ask for a detailed explanation of the male etiquette process! The types of etiquette are generally divided into business etiquette and social etiquette. What you said subdivides the welcome etiquette and belongs to a kind of foreign affairs etiquette. Welcome means that in interpersonal communication, under the condition of prior appointment, the host sends a special person to the place known by the visitor to wait for the arrival of the other party. In general, the welcoming ceremony includes the following contents: First, the host and guests meet warmly.

The second is to present flowers to the guests. The sender of flowers should usually be a young woman or a young pioneer. If there is more than one guest, flowers can be presented to each guest one by one, or only to the host or guest couple. When presenting flowers to guests and couples, you can present flowers to female guests first, or to male and female guests at the same time.

Third, the host meets the other staff of the guest. According to the convention, the host should accompany the guest of honor to the host's main welcoming staff and introduce them to the guest of honor one by one according to their duties. Then, the guest of honor will accompany the host to the queue of the main guests and introduce them to the host from high to low according to their position.

Fourth, the host accompanied the guests to meet the welcoming team.

In the welcome work, we should make necessary preparations in advance, so as to be prepared.

1 Grasp the basic situation: Be sure to fully grasp the basic situation of the welcome object. Personal information of guests, especially the guest of honor. Such as name, gender, age, native place, nationality, unit, position, professional title, education, degree, specialty, specialty, preference, writing style, popularity and so on. If necessary, we also need to know their marriage, health status, political orientation and religious beliefs. When you know the specific number of guests, you should not only be accurate, but also focus on who is in charge of the other party, how many couples there are among the guests and so on. Did the guest have any official visit records before? If the guests, especially the main guests, have visited before, they should pay attention to consistency in the reception specifications. When there is no special reason, it is generally not appropriate to rise and fall at will when welcoming guests. Guests can report their plans, such as the purpose of the visit, the itinerary of the visit, the requirements of the visit and so on. Under the premise of what you can, we should take into account the special requirements of the guests and try to take care of each other.

Make a specific plan: Make a detailed welcome plan, which will help to avoid omissions and reduce twists and turns in the reception work and make it go smoothly step by step. According to the usual practice, it should at least include the welcome mode, transportation, accommodation, work schedule, entertainment activities, sightseeing, talks, meetings, gift preparation, expenses, reception, accompanying personnel and other basic contents.

As far as welcoming guests is concerned, the reception should be prepared first, and the most important thing is five points. That is, the first is the welcome mode, the second is the welcome staff, the third is the welcome time, the fourth is the welcome place, and the fifth is the means of transportation.

Welcome mode: Do you want to hold welcome activities and how to arrange them? How to carry out welcome activities? Be sure to carefully select the welcoming staff, limit the number of people, have similar identities, and clarify the responsibilities. In the welcome work, whether the on-site operation is appropriate is the key link.

Question 10: It depends on the situation how to stand on the posture etiquette of boys. If it's just a platform, look up, nod, smile, spread your shoulders back slightly, your feet are shoulder width apart, and your hands are naturally placed on your lower abdomen.