Jining jiaxiang engagement custom

When engaged, the man should buy the woman three gold coins, at least 10 1 (one in a million) or 17000 (one wife in ten thousand). If he changes his mind, he should also give her money, and the parents of southern women should give it. The woman had better buy a watch and clothes for the man. The clothes are talented. . Relatives of both sides eat together. In fact, if the two families don't have so many things, these can be omitted and we can just have dinner together.