If you want to succeed and get out of trouble, you have to survive the darkest night

Life is like a drama, drama is like life

But life is often more twists and turns than drama

Some people are facing difficulties

Some People are facing unexpected diseases

Those who can survive are lucky

The following are the messages from netizens

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@CAT WITHOUT Tail

At the end of 2012, my two-year-old daughter was diagnosed with leukemia and began long-term treatment. My son often hovered on the edge of serious or critical illness...

It relapsed again in May 2014. Many relatives and friends around me advised me to give up because the success rate of chemotherapy again was almost 0% and the success rate of bone marrow transplantation was less than 50%. Under tremendous financial and psychological pressure, he insisted on being a donor and performed a haploidentical hematopoietic stem cell transplant for his son.

When various emergencies such as infection and rejection occur during the transplant operation, it is really a narrow escape... I don’t think too much. Every day that passes is a victory. Just persevere day by day. We succeeded. Today, the child Already 11 years old, lively and cute, grateful for everything.

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@小晓雨

In a damp basement of 0.5 square meters, I squatted and couldn’t lie down because I couldn’t straighten my body and felt sad. I thought about my family when I was there, so I got through it.

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@ a touch of sadness

April 2013 was the only spring without sunshine in my life. He went to multiple hospitals and was finally diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia. His whole body seemed to have fallen into darkness and was unable to struggle...

That spring was really cold and cold. Even though the old trees outside the window were sprouting new buds, birds were flying every time. They are singing acapella on the branches every day, but the voice-overs are all playing very sad background music...

A dose of Chinese medicine every day, a blood test every week, and a bone marrow puncture every three months or six months. , all the indicators slowly tended to normal, for more than five years...

I finally got through it, thank you very much, what I want to say is that as long as the faith is there, as long as you persist, everything will work. All possible. It’s hard work, but it’s worth it!

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@小糖

When I was a sophomore, I insisted on working part-time while studying, and no matter how hard it was, I never asked my family to get money. When I got busy, I hurried down from the sixth floor to buy two packs of instant noodles.

Later I learned how to order takeout. In order to save time, I got a long rope. When the takeout arrived, I threw the rope from the seventh floor and asked the boy to tie the other end and lift it up myself. For this reason, I have never dared to order takeout with soup, for fear of spilling...

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@宇飞

That year, grandma 84, I am 35. She lives a semi-autonomous life. The most difficult thing is that she has habitual constipation and cannot pass stool.

I get up early every day to make meals for my children, and then go to the senior citizen apartment to help my grandma defecate. First, I helped my grandma to the toilet chair, put on two open plugs, then started to rub her belly, and then put the thinnest convenience bag on her right hand to draw out the stool. After it was over, I went back to work...and I continued like this for four years. Although it is difficult, I have no regrets.

My grandma passed away at the age of 91. Before she died, she said to me: "Don't cry, you are worthy of me!" It has been almost 6 years since my grandma left me, and I will miss her forever.

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@star

Due to fallopian tube problems, I had to embark on the road of in vitro fertilization after eight years of marriage.

At the first examination, I was told that ovulation was not good and only two eggs were fertilized. Then I underwent hysteroscopy and transplantation. You know in your heart that there are two little lives in your belly, but you are not sure whether they will stay. After fourteen days of torture, you still failed. I stayed at home and cried for two whole days. I even suspected that there was something else wrong with my body.

I watched the streets of my hometown in the early morning at four o'clock every year, and took the crowded train at five o'clock every year, shuttling back and forth between my hometown and Shenyang in spring, summer, autumn and winter.

Finally, in August last year, my babies came into my belly. The day I found out I was pregnant, I cried with excitement. God has left the best for me, and now I am five months pregnant and every check-up is healthy. I hope I can give birth to a healthy baby smoothly.

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@夏明的故事

I remember that in junior high school, my mother’s mental illness relapsed, and she tried to end her life. Fortunately, Was rescued. Later, when I took her to the hospital for medical treatment, she fell off the car and was sick for a while, vomiting and vomiting.

When I was in school, I was often teased and bullied. During those times, I would cry almost every night. At home, it is better to cook well and wash the clothes one by one. Take good care of your mother, so far everything is fine. Although she can be fierce sometimes, but when she wants to talk, just listen carefully and it will be fine.

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@ Jungle

That year, my father had terminal gastric cancer and my mother was also seriously ill. I was on the verge of collapse. I went to this hospital every morning and to that hospital in the afternoon for a year. Dad still left.

It’s really sad to feel that your son doesn’t care for you when you want to support him. Cherish the people around you. Now I am lying on the hospital bed, accompanying my mother to see a doctor. I think that after all the suffering, what does it matter now?

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@百合

I am the eldest daughter in my family. My family background was not very good when I was a child. I gave up studying and went out before I was eighteen. I worked part-time, but never gave up. I applied for the adult college entrance examination and worked hard to support my education. Only 200 yuan was left for myself for living expenses a month, and the rest was sent home. After two years, I got my adult college diploma.

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@ Listen to Happiness

In 2013, I was diagnosed with cervical cancer by the hospital. It was like a bolt from the blue, leaving us with a peaceful and harmonious life. The family is deeply involved.

My husband and I are both remarried and have no children. We originally wanted to have one, but now we have no hope at all. I thought about getting divorced and having a baby without surgery. It was worth it. My husband said at that time that children were not important, nothing else was important, I just wanted you to be here and I would be fine with you. That was the first time I cried after being diagnosed. As a woman, having such a man to protect me is more important than anything else I have.

You may have passed the hardest days, or you may be enduring them.

Even if something bad happens, we become more courageous and courageous to face it, turning frustration and sadness into hope, and pessimism into optimism.

Because every outstanding person must pass through a dark forest before reaching success.

In this dark space, they have to endure all kinds of grievances: for example, their efforts are denied, their hard work is not recognized, their tolerance is not understood, their sincerity is not accepted, and their efforts are fruitless.

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Yue Yunpeng dropped out of school at the age of 14. He had no academic qualifications and no background. He came to Beijing to work alone and finally found a job as a security guard. He was kicked out not long after he worked.

Later, he had no choice but to look for a job. After he was hit by a drunk customer while cleaning the toilet, he got scolded and was fired by the manager;

He later even went to work I hired a welder, but ended up being disliked for not being flexible enough! He went to a restaurant to work as a waiter, but because he overcounted the price of two bottles of wine when a customer paid the bill: 6 yuan, he was insulted by the customer for another 3 hours. The manager told him to get out in front of everyone, without even giving him a salary or bonus. hair.

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When he was 19 years old, Yue Yunpeng started working as a sidekick at Deyun Club. He squeezed time to secretly learn cross talk, but he was really stupid. The brothers and sisters have already performed on the stage, and he is still doing odd jobs.

Later, he finally got a chance. He went on stage to perform a 15-minute piece of "Miscellaneous Learning Singing", but the performance failed and no one laughed from the beginning to the end.

After stepping down, he burst into tears: He felt that he was useless, had no talent, and no background. He was always disliked in various ways. Later, some people suggested many times that he should be fired.

At that time, he felt that his life was gloomy, and he could only go home and farm...

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Jia Ling, who was born in the third year of Yue Yunpeng's early years, was not as lucky as He's good.

She was born in an ordinary working-class family. She once applied for Nortel, but was rejected because of her appearance.

Later she applied for the Central Academy of Drama, and actually entered the cross talk major. For a girl to learn cross talk, it meant making fun of herself, or even pretending to be crazy. How could this make a girl feel so embarrassed?

After graduation, other classmates found jobs, but she was still living in a basement in Beijing, looking around at a loss, worrying about her livelihood.

At that time, she still had to rely on several hundred yuan of relief from her sister every month. In winter, when there was no heating, she relied on covering newspapers. In order to earn 40 yuan of living expenses, she had to work even though she had a high fever. .

Later she was kicked out because she couldn't pay the rent, so she ate pickles and noodles for a week with the 20 yuan she got from selling her Walkman.

She tried to play a role on the set, but was pointed at and scolded by the director like a pig.

In order to please the audience, she also performed torturing things such as chewing chili peppers, eating watermelon in three seconds, drinking beer in one breath, etc. Once I even drank a lot of wine and ate a lot of watermelon in exchange for 7 yuan.

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But even so, after nine years of drifting in Beijing, she still did nothing.

My sister asked her how long she will continue to support you, or go home.

This is the most difficult moment in her life. She really doesn’t know how to leave...

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This is the dark forest of life!

Before a person succeeds, he must go through a "very painful" stage.

That is when no one cares about his hard work, and he needs to endure all kinds of grievances and loneliness, and at the same time he has to The days when you pretend to be nothing are also the days when you talk about it in the future.

Endurance is the process of life’s sublimation. It is not a matter of resignation, but a compromise with fate. Silently accumulating energy.

The bamboo only grew 3 centimeters in 4 years. But starting from the fifth year, it grew at a rate of 30 centimeters per day, reaching 15 meters in six weeks. >

The lotus blooms for 29 days and can only cover half of the pond, but on the 30th day, it will fill the pond overnight

Time can often make a person successful. . As long as you can endure what others cannot, you will be able to achieve what others cannot.

So, how much grievance you can endure will lead to success in the future. Only those who pass through this dark swamp can see through human nature, see through the warmth and coldness of the world, and see through many truths in the world.

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All success and fame are. All the extraordinary things are made by force; all the easy life is made through hard work. After all, the cauldron and the boat were broken, and the hundred and two Qin Passes finally belonged to Chu. If you work hard, God will not let you down, and you will be brave enough to eat.

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Life is a balance. One tray is called "wealth in front of others", and the other tray is "suffering in the back of others". The two are always balanced: if you want to be famous in front of others, you must suffer in the back.

A person can only endure the suffering of others. Only those who can't get what others can't get!

Suffering is the best catalyst for growth. Whatever can't kill you will make you stronger. Real strength belongs to those nights in bed. People who cry but act as if nothing happened during the day;

Maturity occurs in adversity, and awakening occurs in desperate situations

A true hero must go through two stages in his life, the first is adversity, and the second is adversity. The second is a desperate situation.

In the process of our struggle, God will always arrange some unexpected things to happen, which will catch us by surprise. This is called adversity when we are about to achieve it. When we succeed, there will often be a big difficulty in front of us, which makes us feel like we are facing a formidable enemy and we must try our best to overcome it in order to succeed. This is called a desperate situation.

Anyone who can overcome these two difficulties can lead a truly powerful life!

Those who have crossed these two hurdles are the real heroes in the world.

From now on, everything and everything, birth, illness and death, will come and go freely in your heart.

Perhaps you have already experienced the dark period of life, so congratulations. If you are going through it, or you plan to go through it, the most important thing I want to say to you is: this period of life is the best test for us, and we must transform the grievances into a rebound potential!