My sister Yang "Ballet"

On October 20 14 10, I met my sister Yang Xiaomin, who was born in the same month of the same year, at Shanhai Resort.

Xiao Min is a ballet dancer. He used to be a soloist in Shanghai Ballet Theatre, and he was one of the three soloists of the protagonist "Xi 'er" in the ballet "White-haired Girl". As we all know, the famous ballerina Shi Zhongqin and Xiaoming's sister were with her at that time.

On September 30th, some of our friends went to visit Meng Fan. His friend had cancer and was in the terminal stage. Meng Fan Dee is my high school classmate and an assistant of ABC Children's English School. We have worked together for ten years and have deep feelings. Seeing that she was speechless, my heart began to ache as soon as I walked out of her house, and I couldn't walk any further. Because I was ill for several years, at that time, apart from cardiovascular problems and a depression, my feelings were very fragile. When I got home, there was no one left. The renovated house is not waterproof, resulting in several walls soaking and wallpaper falling off. Those two nights, I saw two big black moths sticking to the wall of my bedroom, which scared me. An idea flashed through my mind immediately: this omen is not good, I must run away from home! So, I immediately booked a plane ticket to Hainan to "visit" Dr. Liu, the lover of Professor Zhang of our Jiaotong University. I know her very well, and she has recommended me several mountain and sea resorts.

One night after I went there for a few days, I was playing the piano in the hall. I heard several "senior guests" at the resort say that the Yang Ballet will arrive tomorrow and fly directly from Singapore. I asked, "Is Yang Ballet a ballerina?" They said yes. "I hope to be happy!" So I just want to see what this "daughter" looks like.

Shanhai Resort was a relatively high-end resort at that time. In fact, the place is not big, and there are no facilities around. There is not even a supermarket or restaurant. I'm lonely. I want to go shopping in Yang, a small town in Guilin, by bus for more than 20 minutes. Although it is inconvenient, this resort is near the sea, and there are one or two high-end but sparsely populated communities not far away, which is a good place for walking. The food in the resort is very good, and there are many dishes to choose from in the buffet. Facilities are complete, there is a consultation room for medical infusion, and medical equipment for free physical examination is relatively complete. Moreover, the management of the resort is good, and the entertainment atmosphere is strong and fun. So although the charge is more expensive, it is basically full every winter.

The "Young Ballet" arrived the next evening. She and her lover, Teacher Kang, flew in from Singapore for the winter with their son. They are old customers of Shanhai Resort and have lived here for several years in winter. Later, I learned that Min had a serious heart disease. After several years, he could hardly get out of bed, and he relied on Mr. Kang to serve him. After a "hard battle", she was finally able to move freely. But if she moves more or the weather is bad, she will feel uncomfortable.

When I arrived in Shanhai, although there were several retired teachers from the same school, they were not familiar with each other. Plus, they are about ten years older and both have husbands, so I am "one-on-one". I don't want to share a room with someone I don't know. I'd rather spend twice as much money to live alone. After breakfast, everyone goes to the seaside. After dinner, everyone goes out for a walk. I always walk alone, listening to music or reading literature on the radio while walking. So, I don't think there is anything wrong. Someone asked me, "Aren't you lonely?" I also replied: "This is chic loneliness."

But one day, Xiao Min came up to me and said, "Let me break your chic loneliness!" "

Later, I gradually realized that Xiao Min was a very delicate, intelligent, understanding and caring person. Because of the pain she felt when she was ill, she was particularly sympathetic.

From that day on, for the next four months, she went to the seaside for a walk and exercise with me every morning, completely ignoring Mr. Kang.

Walking and chatting, knowing that he was born in the same year and the same month, added intimacy. I also know that Mr. Kang is a film producer in Shanghai Film Studio. Their son works in Singapore National Heart Hospital and is a promising young doctor. Their granddaughter is lovely and their daughter-in-law is beautiful. Xiao Min said that his daughter-in-law "has a high rate of returning her head" and her daughter-in-law is really "full of amorous feelings". I really envy her!

It's a comfortable and warm day. In the morning, we went to the seaside, doing sports and sunbathing on the beach. Then we walked barefoot from the beach to the lobby of the resort, and Xiao Min went to practice playing the piano. She has been playing the piano for several years and can play many famous tunes. I admire her patience, perseverance and diligence, and feel ashamed. Later, she told me that she was selected for the Shanghai Ballet at an early age. I have received very strict training since I was a child and suffered a lot. In my opinion, it also tempered many of her excellent qualities. In fact, as an audience, what we see under the stage is unparalleled artistic beauty, and the actors on the stage, they don't know how much effort and sweat they have spilled! Xiao Min is a soloist. She suffered more and received stricter training.

Shanhai Resort is really a literary home. There are several classes and experts who are proficient in art, and there are also many literary activists. The Spring Festival is usually in February, but in Shanghai, the rehearsal of various programs of the Spring Festival get-together begins in 1 1 and February. There are many talents here, such as conductor, singer, dancer, sketch and so on. It seems that all kinds of programs have talents. Everyone hoped that Yang Ballet could be a happy girl in White-haired Girl, but because of poor health, they had to be disappointed. Originally, I signed up to sing two English songs, but before the performance, I was invited by my friends to play in Wenchang for a few days. Once I went back to Shanhai, my heart ached and I went for infusion, so I had to cancel the program.

As time goes by, I know more and more people in Shanghai, such as our sisters Liu, kind and active teachers Hu and Wang, Christian sisters, Shanghai dermatologist Yang and his female companion Mr. Kang and so on. So far, I have close contact with my sister Phoebe, Liu's eighth sister, Hu and Miss Wang from the School of Foreign Languages of Guangzhou University. After dinner, I also went for a walk with them, but going to the seaside in the morning has always been a "patent" for Xiao Min and his sister.

Sister and Teacher Kang know many people in the literary and art circles, including many famous people, such as Min Huifen, a famous erhu player, and Qin Yi, a famous film actor. These two people are people I like and admire very much, especially Qin Yi. Teacher Qin Yi is my idol, and I am the most worthy of learning. She acted in so many excellent films, but she was never proud. She has suffered so much in her life, but she never complains. Whenever I feel that my personal life is not smooth and I have suffered a lot, I will think: What is my suffering? Qin Yi has suffered so much, how can he keep fit forever! Teacher Kang has a good relationship with Qin Yi and will visit her from time to time. He told me that Qin Yi said that she was like Ma Lu in Thunderstorm, and she had had enough. I really like Mr. Qin Yi, so I wrote her a sincere letter asking Mr. Kang to go back to Shanghai and give it to Mr. Qin Yi. But I never imagined that Xiao Min asked me for my email address shortly after Mr. Kang handed me the letter. She told me that Miss Qin Yi read my letter and went into her room to look for something. She took out an album of herself and the famous singer Zhou Xiaoyan, and wrote a few words on the cover, and asked Mr. Kang to forward it to me. I received her album and saw what the 93-year-old artist wrote to me. I'm really touched! She is too kind to others! Teacher Kang told me that this is one of the only two picture books, and the other is kept in the Qin Art Museum. Later, they told me that my letter was also taken to the museum for preservation.

In the spring of 20 15, I bid farewell to Xiao Min in the mountains and seas. In the summer, I was admitted to the hospital because of illness, and I had breast cancer surgery the next year. Xiao Min is very concerned about me, asking about my treatment and encouraging me. At that time, there was no WeChat, so she called me. I didn't live up to her expectations and finally defeated the disease. 20 17 1 1 month, I went to Japan by cruise. There, I spent my seventieth birthday. Back in Shanghai, Xiao Min's sister specially booked a banquet in a very good hotel to celebrate my birthday. She gave me many gifts, one of which was a silver zodiac pig. We are all pigs. She bought two, one for each of us. Unable to return, I left her my tourmaline necklace as a souvenir. I passed through Shanghai twice, and every time she went to a good hotel to reserve a table for me and my companions. She is a friend who values friendship and etiquette.

In the winter of 20 18, we went to Hainan again, and she went to the mountains and seas. But my small house was taken care of, so I went to live in my community in Chengmai. However, we met in downtown Haikou. That time, it was Xiao Min's sister who made me happy again. We meet every winter, we cherish each other and agree to see at least eighty years old.

However, Xiao Min's sister soon became ill.

Like me, she had breast cancer and was removed. I wasn't very worried at first, because I had the disease myself and recovered. However, the news later was not good. Xiao Min's cancer cells metastasized to lymph nodes and had to undergo multiple radiotherapy.

My heart is very heavy! Where's my sister Xiao Min? I came to Hainan in the winter of 20 19. I look forward to meeting again, but she can't come. Can't we meet in Hainan in the future

During that time, she was depressed, had bad taste and slept badly. Always positive and optimistic, she talked about the elimination of accumulation, which seems a bit like counting one day at a time.

I am not reconciled. I can't watch her sink. I know if she has a nervous breakdown, it's really hopeless. I must cheer her up, cheer her up, cheer her up. So, I left her a voice. Because I know she has no strength to speak, and speaking may not have a good effect. I'll leave a voice, and I can speak paragraph by paragraph. I can talk and think about what can impress her. I can think calmly, not emotionally.

At night, walking on the grass in the community, I told her, Ah, Ah ... about my feelings when I was sick, my thoughts at that time, how my friends came to save me, how I finally got God's salvation, how I finally got rid of the shackles psychologically, how I realized my shortcomings, and how I finally climbed out of the valley of death. ...

I also talked about her advantages. She has a husband who cares about her in every way, a son who is very sensible and a doctor, many relatives and friends who care about helping her, and good economic conditions. ......

I totally got into my voice mail. My love for her, my hope for her, and my promise to celebrate at least our eightieth birthday were all put into my voice mail.

Finally, God heard my cry. Xiao Min's sister figured it out that she no longer treated her illness in a dissolute way. She sent me the following message:

"MingQiong elder sister, after you and I had a long talk, I came out from the gray mood! Single-minded radiotherapy to fight cancer! I believe everything you say, and I will definitely overcome the disease! "

I responded to her:

"I firmly believe that you will be fine! Everything comes from the heart, and when the heart is bright, the body is bright! You have a good rest, my sister loves you! "

"Radiotherapy 30 times, it's over! The spiritual strength given by Xie Mingqiong's sister! Positive energy is very helpful for me to tide over the difficulties. "

How happy I am! How much courage, perseverance and confidence it takes to have radiotherapy for 30 times! My sister Xiao Min's survival at this stage depends largely on her perseverance. This spirit of grit your teeth and fight to the end in the face of difficulties and pains has existed since she practiced ballet, and her heart disease was basically subdued later, which is another example of her perseverance. Of course, the encouragement and help of relatives and friends is a great factor. However, any external cause must work through internal causes!

Xiao Min is a very clever man. She knows everything. Her health is advancing by leaps and bounds, so good that I can't believe it. She sends me photos from time to time to reassure me of her physical condition. I sent her what I wrote, and she liked it very much, and suggested that I publish a book. No, my two sisters simply want to be together!

My sister Xiao Min and I are related. We help each other and encourage each other. We are confident that we can at least celebrate our eightieth birthday. Not long ago, she wrote a poem:

warm

? Born on the same day of the same year,

? Go to Hainan to avoid the cold.

? As soon as we met, we became friends.

? Warm heart, warm chest, warm life.

My little sister, I love you!

Mingqiong

202065438+1October 25th.