Matters needing attention of wedding guests

A perfect wedding process must be done well in terms of guests. Is there anything that wedding guests need to pay attention to? The following are some matters needing attention of wedding guests collected by Bian Xiao, hoping to help you.

First, wedding guests notice: drinks and gifts

1, you don't need to buy too much sugar and wine. Basically, many people don't drink too much beer at noon, and a bottle of white wine is usually enough. Coke and sprite can be more, because you can drink them at home. I bought six cases of beer at the 13 table, but I pulled back five and a half cases (it seems that no one drinks beer when they get married now, most of them are a bottle of white wine, a bottle of red wine and two large bottles of drinks).

2. Generally, you should go to see the venue with people from the wedding company in advance, and then communicate your thoughts with them. But because they are more experienced, they will also give you some good advice. Usually they will go to the hotel to decorate the venue the night before. If you are at ease, you can ask a friend to watch it for you, because it may be late, but the couple should have a good rest the day before. I just went with lg myself and didn't finish until after 1 1 in the afternoon. It was 12 o'clock when I got home. I packed my things and didn't go to bed until about 1 o'clock.

Generally, sugar, tobacco and alcohol should be brought to the hotel one day in advance, because they will set the table the night before, and a box of cigarettes is enough for each table. If you open it with a small dish, so does sugar. I will take a small plate at home and count them one by one. It won't be too wasteful. Remember to prepare wedding candy and cigarettes for the hotel staff, and a small bag of candy and a box of cigarettes for the float master Xiao. (This is out of date, too. Two boxes of cigarettes were packed in boxes and handed to the float master. Remember to bring an extra pair of stockings and sewing kit that day.

Drink less water the night before the wedding to avoid swollen eyes the next day. Go to bed early and have a good rest. This makeup artist will remind you.

6. I just forgot to arrange someone to take photos on my side that day, so I don't have any photos in my hand now, so I have to wait for the wedding company. I guess they're going to give me more money.

7. Calculate the travel time of the float on the same day, so as to avoid the groom wasting time by staying in the new house for too long. You'd better take the route ahead of time. And ask if there are any other weddings in the hotel that day, and be sure to get there before them. This is called winning the lottery.

8. I use double happiness for cigarettes. The wine belongs to Jinliufu Samsung. It's best to leave the fake wine for the couple at the wedding until the day before, because the water in it should go bad if it is kept for a long time. Just pour out all the wine and go straight to the water. You don't need to exchange some wine for some water. Water tastes worse and more disgusting. (Double Happiness ... Jinliufu ... is really low-grade. I can use Zhonghua, Maotai and Wuliangye. )

9. prepare a Zippo if you have one, haha, to avoid them always blowing out matches when lighting a cigarette at a wedding. (But in the end, it is inevitable. )

10, if you need flowers for your hairstyle, you must buy them in advance (but not too early), lest, like me, I think it's almost midnight, the flower shop is closed, or my maid of honor takes a taxi to Laitai to buy flowers, so I'm very nervous. I bought it the day before, wrapped it in newspaper (be sure to use newspaper) (flowers are wrapped) and put it in the refrigerator. If there is zero degree preservation, put it there, and if there is, put it in the cold room (it is not frozen anyway)

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Second, wedding guests note: human feelings

1, the hotel lobby manager had better give him a red envelope separately, which will be handy.

Ask the hotel waiter to make tea for both parents in advance, otherwise it will burn people. 3. It is suggested to set up a wedding banquet director in the hotel, who will coordinate when the groom receives the bride and handle all the details in the hotel, including the placement of cigarettes, wine and sugar at each table, the time when the bride and groom arrive at the hotel and so on. The groom will be very busy that day, so someone else must take care of these things.

4. Wedding candy per package 12 to 18. If the candy bag is too big, put a jelly (children like it very much, others will think the bride is very careful). One more thing, if your ceremony starts at 1 1 and the floats arrive at the hotel at 10: 30, make sure that everyone (not necessarily everyone) arrives at the hotel before 10: 30, so that it won't be too cold when the newcomers get off. How embarrassing it is to think that no one will pick you up at the door. We just ignored this point that day, so we stopped for 10 minutes, but fortunately, there were quite a lot of people in front of the hotel. Otherwise, it would be boring. Generally, the wedding company will help you make floats, but the charge will be more expensive than outside. You can also find your own flower shop outside. My friend helped me find a flower shop, and I didn't care at all. The first car must be tied with flowers. He should fix you in the car and arrange flowers in it. If you find your own flower shop, remember to tell the team in advance where the floats are tied. Bring some pins, sewing kits and the like. Besides, at the sign-in desk. Some friends may forget, hehe, I have no experience. It is said that the groom should prepare more 5 10 and 20 yuan's small red envelopes, which are for those who have to give them. Colleagues met a wedding car at the intersection when they got married. These small red envelopes reduce a lot of unnecessary losses. The bridesmaid had better pack a bag of ham sausage or fish sausage in her bag, so that the bride and groom can eat it when the bride changes her dress in the hotel, which can supplement her physical strength without damaging her makeup. Generally speaking, on the day when the bride and groom don't have a chance to eat at the wedding reception, we must remind the hotel waiter that the food should be served slowly, as I was inexperienced that day, at table 32. As a result, the waiter served the food quickly, so I made a toast to several tables. The guests have already started eating soup and snacks. It's so boring. A few cold dishes should be placed on the table during the ceremony, and then served after the ceremony. Don't forget to prepare those things like "leaving the mother meat". )

Third, wedding guests notice: wedding management

The first part: the division of labor and responsibilities of service personnel (1) witnesses and hosts; Hotel manager and fleet manager; Master of ceremonies, cameramen, photographers. First, witnesses, marriage witnesses, as the name implies, are legal witnesses of marriage. Focusing on the man's family, from the perspective of etiquette, the wedding ceremony is generally in front of the wedding ceremony. It used to be run by matchmakers. The main contents of the witness's speech are: "Marriage is legal, congratulations on the wedding" and so on. Usually, the witness is hired by the woman, mostly led by the bride's unit. Of course, witnesses can also be hired by the man. According to traditional etiquette, the wedding is held by the groom's parents. From the etiquette point of view, the wedding ceremony occupies the main position, and the etiquette order is generally after the witness. Now most parents don't get married in person, but entrust others to get married for themselves. Therefore, the job of the marriage master is to marry for parents. The main point of his speech is: "Thank the guests, tell the couple some requirements after marriage", which is also commonly known as "marriage motto". The host must be hired by the man. Witnesses and emcees wear identity red flowers at the wedding, and the wedding speech should not be lengthy. You must arrive at the hotel on time, 10: 30 in the morning.

Second, the hotel manager. The hotel manager is responsible for the overall preparation of the hotel, led by him and supported by 5-6 welcoming staff. The main work is:

1. Bring holiday supplies to the hotel, including three categories: A, cigarettes, wine, sugar, melon seeds and drinks. B, happy characters, double-sided tape, wedding corsage, marriage certificate, agenda, wedding props (such as flower gallery, wreath, wedding vows declaration, etc.). (These wedding companies can prepare) C, color buckets, balloons, concierge guns, petals and other wedding supplies; Among them, color buckets, balloons, concierge guns and petals should be given to the hotel on the basis of the total purchase amount. The balloon color bucket brought to the hotel is mainly used for weddings. Don't step on the brides when they get off the bus. Salute is usually used outdoors at the time required by MC. (These are also matters for the wedding company. )

2. Paste the word' hi', happy couplets, wedding agenda, arrange wedding scene background props, hang banners, test the sound, check the microphone, wedding March, etc. (Can be arranged by a professional wedding company).

3. Prepare wedding guides, signs and table signatures; Focus on arranging the bride's table and arranging special people to welcome guests. When welcoming guests, be polite and pay attention to prevent irrelevant people outside from participating (in other words, beware of thieves and fish in troubled waters).

4. Set the table, prepare a glass of wine and contact the hotel to arrange the waiter to set the table, melon seeds, wine, cigarettes, drinks and candy; When toasting, choose a goblet, pour Coca-Cola or red wine, put it on a tray, and sprinkle red rose petals with white cloth. When arranging the stage, we can consider whether to put drinks after the wedding according to the actual situation, so as to avoid spraying new people after individual guests shake their drinks.

5. Give gifts to the motorcade and flowers to the float. When the motorcade arrived at the hotel, no matter whether the guests got off the bus or not, they gave the limousine a wedding ceremony as agreed. Arrange special personnel to quickly dismantle the flowers on the float, take the flowers off the hood as they are, and send them to the ceremony stage for decoration.

6. Hold a wedding in a star-rated hotel and dock with the hotel security. Don't let other cars park near the steps of the hotel gate. Because floats generally don't enter the hotel from the normal lane, they usually choose the square under the hotel steps to stop in front of the hotel, which is conducive to creating a grand scene effect. If there is a fountain in front of the hotel, please prompt the hotel to open it.

7. Agree on behalf of host families and hotels. One: Do not serve cold dishes before the wedding. Because spraying flowers at the beginning of the wedding is easy to pollute the dishes; Good cold dishes are also not conducive to the guests to concentrate on the ceremony. Second, the hotel must obtain the consent of the hotel manager or host family for any non-agreed consumption to avoid excessive abnormal expenditure. Third, confirm the total number of wedding banquets with the hotel and determine the total number of seats for the first time; Try to arrange a table for ten people as much as possible to avoid waste. Fourth, pay attention to the wedding banquet, leaving space in the middle to let the couple enter the aisle and the wedding scene. Fifth, agree on the location and supply procedures of drinks. , and someone is in charge.

8. After the wedding banquet, remind the owner to close the stall. Arrange meals for service personnel, check whether any guests have lost items, clean up the remaining tobacco and alcohol, and pack leftovers.

Third, the team manager

1. According to the requirements of folk customs, help the couple to draw up the driving route and wedding time, determine the number of escorts from both sides, and arrange enough vehicles for the wedding. After the driving route is set, it is best to run ahead of time so as to know the time, traffic control, prohibition, etc. Then draw a regular road map that can be seen at a glance and indicate the starting point, family, hotel, the section where the motorcade is organized, and the contact information of the motorcade manager, hotel manager, groom and other relevant personnel. The best time to get married is to return to the hotel at 10: 30 in the morning. According to this standard, consider the distance, traffic conditions, when to start, when to get to your parents' home and so on. It takes at least 40 minutes for the bride's house to leave from the door. The overall time design should also have a reservation of at least 15 minutes to deal with unexpected situations such as traffic jams.

2. The team leader should pay enough attention to the float, when to tie it and when to tie it. At the same time, a large number of brooches, bouquets and petals should be brought back on time. It is best to return to the starting point half an hour before departure, because the groom needs to use identity flowers and hold flowers before departure.

3. On the morning of the wedding, arrange the motorcade according to the agreed time. The camera car is at the front, at least 60 meters away from the float; Then the float begins, and the rest are required to walk in a straight line according to the level of the gift car in turn according to the requirements of folk customs; Give each car a road map, and tie a red cloth strip and a red flower with the word "hi" on the mirror of the limousine.

4. After the motorcade arrives at the bride's family, consider the entrance, placement and U-turn of the motorcade according to the terrain of the bride's family. When the motorcade leaves the family, it should take into account the neighbors' blocking happiness, and generally prepare candy and cigarettes to deal with it.

5. After the motorcade arrives at the hotel, the floats will stop at the agreed position (floats generally don't take the normal lane), and the team manager should remind and cooperate with the hotel manager to seal the wedding ceremony for the motorcade, and start the floats after the newcomers get off the bus. 2) Marry female guests, pushers, lighting engineers, sound engineers, salute bearers, wedding candy, flowers, hotel guests and ceremony attendants.