Zhao officially announced his divorce, and Chen Xiao Weibo fell. Netizen: What did you make Michelle Chen feel?

On April 23, after Zhao Studio announced the divorce with a statement picture, the hot search exploded.

Not long after, Zhao He said with his personal account, "It's been a long time, the past is good, I hope the future will be better", and after only three years, the marriage relationship ended peacefully.

As expected, Zhao's comments on Weibo exploded, and netizens supported and wished her well. At the same time, another person's comment on Weibo also fell behind. He is Chen Xiao. The man who was so sweet with Zhao that he finally married him lost the star in his eyes after marriage.

Fans are asking him: "Zhao is divorced, when will you act?" "You can be together, what are you waiting for?" Even people who eat melons are inexplicably excited.

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There is a feeling that no amount of love can last.

The love affair between Zhao and Chen Xiao began with two plays. The first one is the masterpiece "Palace Lock Bead Curtain". Two fledgling actors staged a bloody emotional scene as soon as they came up, but surprisingly, their popularity almost exceeded that of the hero and heroine.

So what followed was the second cooperation, which was also the Legend of Luzhen, which made them really enter the hearts of the audience. In this play, they became the favorite national cp of netizens, and they really got closer and closer because of this play.

In the tidbits filmed by the crew, they are like lovers in love; In Weibo's propaganda, the two bluntly forgot their cold hands because of emotional excitement; In the interview, Chen Xiao can also accurately tell the tastes and preferences of China and Zhao; When Zhao was besieged by black powder, Chen Xiao stood up and spoke out, but also directly expressed his affection for Zhao, more than a little.

Ye Zhao is so. She can relax in front of Chen Xiao and be herself. She can give everything for him. Even when filming "China", Chen Xiao's assistant went to the crew to take care of her for more than half a month, and was fed crayfish by Chen Xiao at Happy Camp, which also convinced all fans of their sincere love.

However, the last sweetness of cp still stayed on the day when Chen Xiao visited Zhao during the filming of The Condor Heroes. At that time, they sat together, holding hands and whispering, but after that, their interaction disappeared.

Therefore, it is hard for everyone not to believe Zheng Zengfa's words. Maybe they really love each other warmly, but in the stage of career development, Chen Xiao can't catch up with Zhao, and men often feel inferior in front of the people they love very much, so he chose to give up. ...

But more than one statement is "separate".

Some people say that Zhao is an insecure girl. She had been expecting Chen Xiao to admit their relationship generously, but Chen Xiao's hesitation made her feel cold again and again. Others said that during their cold war, Michelle Chen, who was filming The Legend of the Condor Heroes with Chen Xiao, took advantage ... This is also the reason why they became very stiff later, which led one to say that they were speculating on cp, and the other directly took the other side as a witness.

In short, it was foreseeable that Chen Xiao and Zhao did not go on. After all, they have different steps and pursue different things, so it is difficult for two people with different frequencies to love for a long time.

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Some people end their relationship in three years.

Some people insist on their marriage for five years.

Since 20 15, when Chen Xiao and Michelle Chen were photographed staying in a hotel together, their relationship was exposed and developed at an amazing speed. Only 16 months into the marriage hall hand in hand.

The wedding day is Chen Xiao's birthday, which means "My birthday is our wedding anniversary". The wedding place is the romantic Yanqi Lake in Beijing, with the homonym "Yanxifu".

Unfortunately, the good times did not last long. Their sweetness is as fleeting as that of Chen Xiao and Zhao. When Chen Xiao appeared in front of the camera again, there was not only no light in his eyes, but also no Michelle Chen. ...

At the award ceremony of bloom that year, the organizer wanted to surprise Chen Xiao with Michelle Chen's video. Unexpectedly, after watching the video, Chen Xiao only said a few kind words to thank his family for their understanding and support, which made him feel embarrassed.

Therefore, in Zheng Zheng's article "Boys are drunk, admit that they have always loved girls", it is hard not to think of Chen Xiao who was drunk and red-eyed at the airport.

On the other hand, Zhao He, like Chen Xiaohe, started their love and marriage in a hurry. Some netizens really speculated: "Did Chen Xiao and Zhao break up because of misunderstanding, but because they were too angry, they found someone to get married and have children?"

Back to Zhao He's marriage, the two formally became attached to each other because of their journey to the daughter country to the West, and they cooperated in the emotional drama for the second time. But in fact, before this, Zhao He had been rumored frequently, and the news that they had dinner together and returned to the hotel was exposed in the media from time to time, but the two never admitted it.

Until half a year later, on Zhao 3 1' s birthday, they exposed the marriage certificate and announced their marriage, which shocked the whole network. So, at the peak, Zhao stopped working, got pregnant and had children, and completed the major events in his life step by step.

But everyone, like Chen Xiao and others, has never sent a blessing to Zhao's marriage, and even wondered if Zhao and the "prodigal son in love" would be unhappy together. In addition, Zhao Zhen never showed her love on social media, which led to frequent marriage changes.

It was William Feng who repeatedly mentioned the importance of his wife in several reality shows, convincing everyone that their marriage was still there.

But in just three years, they really ended like rumors. Divorce, like marriage, is almost without warning, but it is understandable and acceptable.

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Emotional things

What I've been through, I know the pros and cons.

In fact, both Chen Xiao and Zhao have traces of their marriages from sweet to bad, from sudden start to hasty end.

Although Chen Xiao and Michelle Chen didn't get married in an instant, they were together for 16 months. It can't be said that they don't know each other at all, but some problems will be exposed after marriage. As psychology has pointed out, after entering marriage, with the increasingly close life, the "differences" between partners may erupt in concentration.

After the marriage, many scandals followed. Michelle Chen was suspected to have something to do with Ni Andong's marriage and had intimate photos with the article on the set. In a word, Michelle Chen and Chen Xiao are completely different in their behavior habits. Combined with Chen Xiao's past emotional experience, Zhao Hezheng, whom he admires, is just the opposite, so it is hard not to let him have a psychological gap.

At this time, Zhao He is also the same. Their personalities and values are obviously different. Zhao is generous, opinionated and clear-headed, but indecisive and hesitant, not knowing what he really wants. Therefore, even William Feng once revealed that his wife gave him a mountain of support, and their roles in marriage were in an exchange position.

In the people we identify, we find something different from our own imagination, and even find problems that we can't stand. At this time, we will subconsciously amplify these effects on ourselves and our relationship, thus feeling pain and unhappiness. This may be the main reason why Chen Xiao and Zhao lost their luster after marriage.

However, we all saw their results. After Michelle Chen's participation in "Riding the Wind and Breaking the Waves 2" was eliminated, she bluntly went to visit her husband Chen Xiao, and their marriage remained and continued;

Zhao and Dafang officially divorced, and the economic exchanges have long since ended. It can be said that everything has been separated.

Their decisions are also like their personalities, one is bold and the other is calm. But in any case, we still have to believe that both Chen Xiao and Zhao have gained something from this marriage and have grown more. If a person finds his true self and reaches a certain degree of self-consistency through constant exploration and trial, that is the best, isn't it?

Don't care about the eyes of outsiders. After all, marriage is your own.

There are reasons to stick to marriage, and there are reasons to give up marriage, as long as you feel that your decision is happy. After all, I know a lot after drinking water.

Write at the end:

Every experience has its meaning, and it is also the best memory in our life. May they and we all live better and have more courage to love.

I'm Pan Xingzhi, your personal emotional counselor. If you need professional help, trust me personally, and I will be happy to help you through the emotional crisis.