What should I say when my girlfriend drinks?

If your girlfriend is drinking, the first and most important thing is to ensure her safety. If she is drunk, try to arrange reliable transportation for her to go home.

During the conversation, you can express your concern for her and ask her how she feels. Here are some suggestions that may be helpful:

1. Express concern: Tell her that you are worried about her health and safety. Ask her if she needs help and let her know that you are there to support her.

2. Respect her choice: Even if you don't agree with her drinking, respect her choice. Everyone has their own way of life and values. You can express your opinion, but don't try to force her to change.

3. Remind her of the restrictions: If she is drunk, remind her not to do anything that may hurt her or others. Remind her to stay awake and avoid driving or doing any dangerous activities.

4. Give advice: If she wants to reduce or stop drinking, you can give advice and support. For example, you can suggest that she try to give up drinking or seek professional help.

5. Listen to her thoughts: let her know that you respect her decision and are willing to support her. Let her know that you are there to listen to her thoughts and feelings and are willing to help her solve any problems.

In short, the conversation with your girlfriend should be based on respect and care to ensure her health and safety.