Similarly, online dating failed, but girls were praised well. Why do boys have to be called "love rat"?

There are naturally many answers in it. I chose two stories, one is the story of a male netizen and the other is the story of a female netizen. The focus is not on the story, but on people's attitude towards the story.

Girls' edition:

She met a boy when she was eating chicken. His voice is very magnetic, manly and not greasy. He is not like some boys chasing his little sister. He is cold, mysterious and skillful, and the girl thinks she wants this man in her heart.

Later, the two began to talk. Girls also selected the most beautiful photos and sent them to boys. Because she wanted to be reserved, she didn't ask for a picture of the boy. Later, the boy sent a photo in the circle of friends, which looks like a selfie. It's very nice. The two basically confirmed their love relationship, and the daughter-in-law called every day.

Then the boys said they wanted to see her, and the girls were also very happy and excited, and they all took the initiative to book a hotel. What appeared in front of her was a simple and honest boy with glasses, rough and weak, weighing about 180 Jin, less than 1.7 m, dragging a 20-inch suitcase and smelling like leeks.

In the end, naturally, girls disliked each other and tried to get rid of boys, and then Lahei never saw him again.

At this time, the attitude of netizens is: Hahahaha, that man is too frustrated, and that woman is doing well. You should stay away from such a man.

Boys' edition:

Boys met girls through social software, and they chatted, feeling that they were destined for each other, so they decided to have sex. Later, the boys went to see the girls, and when they met, they found that the girls in the photos were completely different.

Boys are naturally disappointed, but they have dinner together when they meet. Because the boy has good conditions, the girl has always hinted that he refused. Finally, the boy went back to say goodbye to the girl and said that he would not contact her in the future.

This is the attitude of netizens: love rat, it's just your face. If you look good, you will definitely fall asleep.

In fact, the story is the same, but the angle is different. What did the girl do in the first story? She took the initiative to book a hotel, but after meeting, she was dissatisfied and left the boy there, but people thought she did the right thing.

In the second story, the boy refused the girl, invited her to dinner, and finally said goodbye, and was scolded by love rat.

Some people may say that because girls are a vulnerable group at this time, they are afraid of what boys will do. The girl booked her own hotel first. What does that mean? What does it mean to be cynical about boys and then leave?

The boy in the second story seems to have done nothing wrong, which is a model of online dating, but he is still said to be love rat.

Every time I see such remarks, I think it must be from a girl. Anyway, as long as they don't like it at present, it's love rat, not love rat.

Sometimes I really don't understand the present society, don't think about anything, just be myself.