Marriage is the grave of love: what process did two people go through from the first meeting to marriage?

Will love last forever? Many men and women in love think that marriage is the end of love, which is why so many people say that marriage is the grave of love.

1. My wife and I first met through friends. My friend got married four years ago, and I went to be his best man. She is one of the bridesmaids. The autumn wind blows and the maple leaves are red. The most beautiful encounter is always in a short time, drunk as a dream, and the beautiful lanterns are eclipsed. In the chaotic wedding, after three rounds of drinking, the groom, my friend Fat Boy, said that a sister was waiting for me in the lobby and wanted to know me. I happily walked downstairs from the second floor of the hotel, wondering what kind of woman the stairwell would be. Quiet? Hyun-sook? Cheerful? There was no escape. She saw me the moment she came out of the corner. Like a child, I ran from the dark corner of the stairs to the center of the lobby. She stood under the gorgeous crystal lamp waiting for me. The light is dim and the scene is ambiguous. Before I ran to her side, I saw her laughing and saying, be careful of the carpet. It is this gentle reminder that goes deep into my heart. I am surprised that this girl is very gentle, and she is also surprised that I am so clean and young, unlike a 27-year-old man.

2. Communication Everyone is having a party upstairs, but the lobby on the first floor is quiet and empty. In the warm light, I think she is particularly beautiful. Suddenly I grabbed her little hand, warm, soft and smooth. It was the first time that I was single for more than 20 years, and I took the initiative to pull her out of the hotel naturally. Too bright places are too conspicuous. Let's talk somewhere else. I say this to hide my panic. I like the smell of her body and the touch of her hands. That kind of feeling makes me very excited, and my skin is getting warmer, as if I were going to melt her. She followed me shyly, acting so quiet and clever, and didn't blame me for being rude. We went out of the hotel in the corner of the parking lot, whispering, and didn't dare to chat loudly. My mouth is close to her ear, and her mouth is close to mine. So I said, she replied, they really talked.

3, inciting to meet again, in the cinema, with the development of the plot, I am very entangled, entangled with whether to continue to advance, a sentence from the movie? You protect the world and I protect you? It's like giving me chicken blood, which makes me more confident to hug her and put my head on her shoulder. She didn't object, just sat a little closer. I gave her a popcorn backhand, and she took it with a clever mouth. At this moment, her warm and soft lips touched my fingers, my hand slipped and I pinched her chin. I saw the bright smile in her eyes in the dark. I know this should be love. Just gently leaning on it is enough, and you don't need much action. When the movie changed, we left and found that the movie was not over yet. Leaving early is not because the movie is boring, but because it is too quiet and there are too many people, which can't relieve our fiery hearts.

4. After the passion comes out, we are as sweet as milk tea and as fragrant as oolong tea. The beautiful collision began, and we blended and rejoiced. We found a place with few people. I pushed her against the wall and bowed my head to kiss her for the first time. She didn't shy away, closed her eyes, and in order to show that she was not unfamiliar, I began to explore without delving into it. With excitement and affection, my breathing gradually accelerated until we.

In order to go to the appointment again, I arranged my work in advance and flew all the way to her. She flew into my arms like a bird. I was happy to see her lively and clean appearance. I hugged her crazily and kissed her gently, as if she could not suffocate. This is a strong love, and it is the first love I have experienced in my life. Desire, love, warmth and consideration, like restless spring buds in spring, are slowly brewing.

6. Blending people is lonely and fragile. Sex will make two people contact at the nearest distance and give each other tenderness. When we met for the third time, we went straight to the point. We haven't seen each other for more than a month, and our inner loneliness makes us anxious and irrational, and our reason is temporarily dispelled. Deep love will make us have more fantasies about each other. I always wish I could hold her all the time, and she always wanted to be buried in my arms. That kind of longing and urgency, only love.

7. Cohabitation is like an ordinary couple, meeting and dating, deepening feelings, countless times. We talked like this for two months, and we fell in love openly. I took her to a party with friends, and she took me into her girlfriends circle. The more we know each other, the more we want to be together. Finally, we decided to live together and live together before marriage. We didn't care that much. Eager love makes us want to be together as long as we have time.

8. After getting married for half a year, we got a license and got married. Under the crystal lamp in the lobby on the first floor, she stood quietly, waiting for me to come out of the corner and hold her hand. The wedding recreated the scene of our first meeting. With the blessing of relatives and friends, we finally came together. The end of the wedding means the end of love. I always thought so, but I didn't know this was the beginning of a truly lonely life, because we needed it.

9. People who are too young will never know what love is. They thought that the purity of their first acquaintance, the longing for love and the warmth of cohabitation were all long-lasting, but in the end they all found that life deceived us. Many people are praising love, praising the unforgettable love, but no one teaches us how to keep love for a long time, how to find the meaning of love in dullness, how to respect each other from each other's point of view and get along well.

10, it's okay to be broken, and I met my lover. She is not a bad person or an unreasonable wife. I basically have no worries about food and clothing. She takes care of family, but we are all too grumpy and headstrong. In many forbearing quarrels and trivial matters, I broke out more and more times. She broke out only more often than I did, and I took care of all the former gentle ladies. I used marriage to teach her what is reality, what is the essence of men and what is patience. She used marriage to teach me what is tolerance, what is sensibility, what is ideal life and what is progress. The origin of love is mutual illusion, and the essence of marriage is blending, which is to smooth the edges and corners and make you and me consistent. However, in the process of smoothing the edges and corners, we hurt each other too deeply to forgive each other. Finally, the chicken feathers in that place were replaced with divorce certificates.

The first love marriage, such a beautiful experience, was ruined by our quarrel and intransigence, because we have no three views and no normal heart. If you want to love for a long time, the most important thing to overcome is passion, because that is, if you want to possess it, you must find ways to transform it. This is a big mistake. May you and I stop in our dreams and feel the beauty of life. May you and I be well, and there will be an afterlife if there is fate.