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My boyfriend is very careless about hygiene in his life, and I'm a little neat. Should we break up?

If you choose to break up for such a trivial matter, you may not find the right other half. The most important thing between lovers is mutual tolerance and understanding. How can two people be born together? Didn't they all come together because of mutual tolerance and understanding? If you put up with this little thing, then you are really not suitable for dating. I think it's normal for boys to be less clean than girls. After all, most boys are like this, not just your boyfriend. If you want to find a clean boy, it's hard. When things happen, what we should do is for two people to sit down and have a good communication. You can talk to him and make him pay attention to hygiene. I believe he will correct it, because he likes you, and boys are willing to make many changes for the people they like. If you break up with him without saying anything, I think it is your fault. If I were that boy, I would feel very puzzled and even think that you are particularly unreasonable.

In fact, there are many different living habits between couples. Boys themselves are more informal than girls, so it is normal for them not to talk about hygiene as you do. Maybe his living habits are normal, but you are particularly dissatisfied with her because you have some cleanliness addiction. At this time, both sides should be considerate of each other.

If you have any dissatisfaction with him, I think you should raise it, instead of guessing around or not liking him alone. If you bring it up, he may correct you behind your back that you don't like her and never know that you hate him for it. Naturally, there is no chance to correct it. Therefore, when couples encounter problems, the most taboo is not to say anything. He won't know unless you tell him. How will he know if you don't tell him?