What's the craziest thing you've ever done for love?

Thank you for the invitation. Probably the craziest thing I've ever done for love was walking 30 miles to meet my boyfriend. I just missed him that afternoon. The bus was gone. I had made an appointment to meet him the next day, but I wanted to see him right then, so I walked from Buji to Yangshan. It was only 6 o'clock when I went there. , it got dark while walking. There was a long stretch of road without street lights. I was very scared. I even bought candy on the way. My boyfriend called me at around seven o'clock. He knew me well. He had already guessed me. I would go look for him, but at that time my family didn’t know about him and me, and it was hard for him to pick me up in a big way, so he ran all the way to pick me up. When he saw his boyfriend, he was really touched. My whole body was covered in sweat. It was past ten o'clock when we walked to his house that day, and my feet were almost useless, but I was really happy.

The first time I went to Dongguan to find her, the magic city flew to Guangzhou! I didn't tell her, I wanted to give her a surprise. As a result, we took the wrong bus when we arrived in Dongguan and ended up in Dalingshan Forest Park! The last massage came out an hour later! Finally, I found a job in Dongguan, worked for a few months, and then left Dongguan

This is my second trip to Dongguan this year! The magic city flies to Guangzhou! We made an appointment to go to Zhuhai on May Day. The flight at 5:55 in the morning was in Pudong at 6 o'clock in the morning. We arrived in Guangzhou at 9:30. As soon as we got off the plane, we rushed to the train to Dongguan. The weather was so hot that I got on the train. I thought she would leave in the afternoon. As for Zhuhai, it’s time to rush there now. When we got to Dongguan East, by the time she replied to me, she was already on the Didi bus to Zhuhai. All right. I immediately took a taxi to the main station and took a bus to Zhuhai. The carpooling failed, it was 180 yuan, and the bus was 100 yuan! There was a traffic jam on the road, and when I was about to arrive in Zhuhai, she said she was at the Shekou Pier in Shenzhen. It seems that there are no tickets back to Zhuhai. It was four o'clock in the afternoon, and I finally asked her if she could go back to Zhuhai. I flew from the capital city to Guangzhou early this morning, from Guangzhou to Dongguan East, then to Dongguan Bus Terminal, and then to Zhuhai Gongbei Port. I want to see you right away! Finally, she bought the last boat back to Zhuhai. I saw you at 5:30 - Coco

A girl I like is going to Yueyang to meet a netizen who invited me to go with her. It feels very painful! I was only 20 years old at that time and had just emerged from society. She and I were high school classmates. We played very well in high school. After we came out of society, we have been in contact and visited her several times. That time when she went to Yueyang, she seemed to have a very happy chat with the male netizen, and she felt a little stupid! Later, I went to Changsha and separated from my male netizen. I went to a hotel to sleep in a room at night. The boss said that there was only one room (now I think about it, it was the boss’s wife who gave me a divine assist). I was so young at that time, so I became worse than a beast (see Those who have seen the joke will understand). The next day during the total solar eclipse, I confessed my love on the streets of Changsha but was rejected, and we no longer contacted him after that! Now that I think about it, maybe I am really too naive, always thinking that I can't give others happiness but I still pursue it (she went to Wuhan to play with me before but didn't dare to confess her feelings, maybe she missed it then). It was the most difficult time for my family at that time. I felt that I had low self-esteem and could not give others a future, so I did not try my best to pursue it. When I came back to it, I also missed my fate! I hope she is happy now...

When you love someone, it is worth doing crazy things for him.

However, later, we broke up.

I was in the north and he was in the south. One summer vacation later, I secretly went to his city, walked the streets he had walked, went to his university, and ate his favorite food. meals. Say a final farewell to him and never see him again. It has been 4 years now, and I have a new boyfriend, and I will never do crazy things like him again

I like a female classmate in high school, and she also likes me. I also like her because I am a senior in high school. No telling. She is in my isolation class. She always passes by my class to go to the toilet during class break. I always wait for her to pass by in the corridor just to see her brightest smile, which is beautiful and cute. She also wants to see me every class break. Go to the toilet once.

During the physical examination for the college entrance examination, she cried bitterly after being pricked twice before the blood was drawn. It happened to be my turn, so in order to make her laugh, I asked the nurse to prick her three times before drawing the blood. Then I told her, look at me. It took three pricks to draw blood, and then she started laughing.

After the college entrance examination, because no one had a phone at home at that time, of course there was no such thing as a mobile phone. Her family was in the city and I only knew it was in that community. I missed her in the countryside and went out early in the morning. I took a ride to the door of her community and waited for her. When she went out, I waited at the door for more than ten hours and didn't show up. I went to an Internet cafe to spend the night and secretly took a shower in the toilet. I continued to wait at six o'clock the next morning and waited for more than ten hours. She finally went out at about five o'clock in the afternoon, but unfortunately her mother was also there, so we said hello. She secretly blinked at me three times, and I understood what she meant, and then she went shopping with her mother. After dinner, she secretly came out to see me after six o'clock. She took me to a corner of the park where there were few people and hugged me tightly and said she missed me very much. I said I missed you too and I had been waiting for you here for two days, and then she cried and called me a fool, a papaya, and a fool.

In this way, the two people talked about how they liked each other in high school and did something silly and couldn't stop laughing. They were really happy. In the blink of an eye, it was past twelve o'clock in the evening. I made an appointment for the next meeting, but I still couldn't bear to separate. I walked her to the gate of the community and she hugged her tightly, making me miss her every day. . . I survived a long-distance relationship for four years in college and got married not long after graduation. I have a son and a daughter who are ten and eight years old respectively.

Times have changed, things have changed and people have changed. On June 30, 2013, she left her six-year-old daughter and ran away from home. I placed my daughter in a neighbor's house and drove with her photo to search all 53 hotels in Xian'an District and the city. At five o'clock in the morning, I still found a car with a familiar license plate at Fengyuan Hotel in Xian'an District. I found my comrade who was on duty at the police station at the time and took the law enforcement recorder and three colleagues to the front desk of the hotel and found room 310 registered with her ID card. When I walked to the door of the room, I hesitated: Considering the impact and harm my children might suffer when they grow up, I decided to withdraw and only sent her a text message: "You are in room 310, Fengyuan." We were driving on the roadside. Waiting here. In less than five minutes, I saw her and my former best friend (who was 164cm tall and 55cm tall and had been held above my head with both hands for more than ten seconds) going downstairs and driving away in a hurry. For this kind of person, if I hit him, I am exalting him and belittling myself. She has lived with me for more than 20 years, raising my children and taking care of the housework. If she is well, I am also at peace!

There are great brave men in the world who are not surprised when they are faced with a situation of exhaustion, and are not angry when they are attacked for no reason. It's not that you dare to pick up the sword and go to a strong field to face life and death and kill the enemy bravely; it's that you can put down the butcher's knife and choose forgiveness when facing an enemy who is weaker than yourself.

Jump off the building! Does it count?

In the winter of my sophomore year, after the dormitory lock time, my girlfriend’s dormitory called me and said that my girlfriend didn’t come back. I was a little worried and wanted to go find her, but what should I do if I couldn’t go out because of the regulations?

My roommate came up with a trick. He tore off all the bed sheets and tied them into a rope. He lowered me down from the second floor window. After less than a meter, the bed sheets tore in the middle. I was stunned and fell down. Because the incident happened suddenly and I was not mentally prepared, and the ground was covered with frozen ice and snow, I severely strained the muscles of my right leg. My roommates sent me to the hospital overnight to put on a plaster cast. Damn it, this time they have a legitimate reason to leave the dormitory!

I received a call from my girlfriend’s dormitory in the hospital, saying that she had gone back. I was so angry that I finally realized that this was obviously a deliberate act to get angry and torment me! I broke a leg, so I could only lie in the dormitory, use crutches when I went out, and was supported by my roommate to go to class. I had to explain to the teacher why I couldn't sit properly and put my leg on the bench. In the end, I couldn't go back to the winter vacation. Chinese New Year at home!

This is not the most irritating thing. The most irritating thing is that my roommate later told me that his bed sheet had not been washed for more than half a year, so it broke! Damn it, why am I so unlucky? If I had reversed the rope and hung it, it would have been fine!

After that, the entire floor and the entire college knew about my heroic deeds of jumping off the building! Damn it, I didn’t expect to become famous in this way!

I want to ask you if you dare to be crazy about love like me! Is this song by Rene Liu written about me?

In fact, it is really ridiculous to talk about it, but when it is ridiculous, you can see the loyalty of love. It has also become a beautiful memory in our love. I was also crazy about my love.

My home is in Yichun, Northeast China. My wife works a hundred kilometers away from our home. She works as an accountant there. I remember it was a snowy noon. My wife suddenly called me and said, "Husband, I don't want to do this anymore." I want to go home. Hearing this sentence, I was very anxious, if I didn't know that my wife had not been wronged. She is a strong person who never gives up easily. I said at that time, wife, wait for me to pick you up right away. At that time, the highways were all closed, let alone the more than 100 kilometers of rural roads. I was really scared to take this road at the time, but when I thought about my wife's mood around me, I felt how much she needed to be by my side. So I looked for the couple who are my best fourth brother. The three of us set off on the road despite the heavy snow. There were many dangers along the way. We walked 100km for nearly two and a half hours, and were finally reunited victoriously. It took more than two hours to pick up my wife. My wife was so moved that she cried, and I smiled shamelessly and told her that I was crazy about love!

It’s not crazy, but this incident is definitely the most unforgettable incident between the two of us.

On my birthday the year before last, which was the Mid-Autumn Festival, the school had a holiday, and then we rode to Wolf Alley Valley, which is more than 30 kilometers away from the school. My girlfriend rode my car. , I borrowed a friend’s Diesel, the one with particularly thin wheels.

When I went there, there were no problems. But when I first came back, my car was broken, and the inner and outer tires were worn out. There was no way to repair them. Then we were on the field road again, watching. The sun is going to set and we are anxious.

Then, I let her ride while I pushed the car and ran. Later, I felt that this was still not enough. It was a bit tiring and a bit slow. Then, I took her on her bike with the broken tire in my other hand. We rode for at least 20 kilometers, and then returned to school at around eight o'clock in the evening. I thought this was crazy.

This is how we returned to school

In 2008, Liang Hong and I were still an ordinary Chinese couple.

At that time, we came up with an idea to spend 10 years traveling around the world.

In the past 10 years, we have done many crazy things together: camping outdoors at minus 50 degrees, jumping into the Amazon River full of piranhas, being wanted by the Taliban in Afghanistan...

But the most romantic and fun of all the craziness is undoubtedly flying over the Rainbow Kingdom.

In Beijing in 2009, Liang Hong and I rarely went to see a movie together, Pixar's "Up." The picture of colorful balloons flying with houses made us both excited.

Since then, we have had a dream in our hearts: to do a balloon flight.

Later when we arrived in South Africa, we thought: flying over the Rainbow Country with colorful balloons couldn’t be more wonderful.

South Africa has always been a place that Liang Hong and I have longed for. Nelson Mandela, South Africa's first black president, is my idol.

"It always seems impossible until it's done. Things are considered impossible until they are done."

Mandela's famous saying is that we have always Keep walking the motto.

Ballooning requires very high terrain. We traveled all over South Africa, but it was either mountainous or windy, so we never found a suitable place.

When Nanhua Temple, the largest Chinese temple in the southern hemisphere, appeared, my eyes lit up, it was here.

The vast land around the temple is mostly farms and wilderness, so the site is suitable.

More importantly, Buddhism and Mandela pursue equality and tolerance. This has some wonderful connection with what we want to express by flying over the rainbow country.

It seems that there is a force in the dark that leads us to find this Chinese temple. Master Huixing, the abbot of the temple, said: "It is fate that has brought you here."

But it was not all smooth sailing.

We rented a helicopter to survey the site. Looking from the air, there are several high-rise buildings nearby, as well as high-voltage power grids, which might hit them while flying.

There are even more places that are not conducive to landing, such as lakes and fences.

I jokingly said that I have thought of several ways to die: being scraped against the power grid and electrocuted to death, hitting a fence and getting entangled in barbed wire, falling to a farm and being beaten to death by corn stalks, and falling into a pasture. Trampled to death by cattle...

The next day, the entire team got up at 6 a.m. to work on the equipment, and hired some nearby workers to help us inflate hundreds of balloons.

Instead of planning, we underestimated the difficulty of inflating the balloon with helium. The workers worked very hard, and many black monks in the temple came out to help.

But after inflating hundreds of huge helium balloons, it was already half past eleven.

The most eye-catching one is a black balloon with Mandela’s face printed on it.

The seat bag under the balloon is my cockpit. I sat on it fully armed, carrying a GPS, walkie-talkie, and flight instruments.

In addition, I also carry a saber and a pistol.

When the balloon goes up to the sky, it can only follow the wind, and humans have no control over it. What I can do is, when necessary, cut the rope and let some balloons float away, or shoot and pop the balloons to complete the descent.

Everything was ready, but the wind came, but it was a strong wind.

The meteorologist in charge of the weather said that if we fly now, all the balloons will definitely burst into the sky. It’s a challenge, and we can’t risk our lives.

All we can do is wait.

Accompanied by hundreds of colorful balloons, we were trapped under the bright sunshine of Nanhua Temple.

From time to time, balloons were blown up, and everyone had a trace of worry on their faces. The hope of everyone in the team is pinned on the evening. The strong wind is afraid of the setting sun and hopes that the wind will recede.

Four hours later, the strong wind finally dissipated.

Another problem arose. After an afternoon of strong winds, the ropes of the balloon became tangled together.

In this case, if the rope is cut, the balloon will not fly out at all.

In this case, you can only use a gun, but the bullet has strong penetrating power and may penetrate multiple balloons, causing a rapid fall.

Rebind? It's too late, there is only one way, that is, shooting can only hit the outer balloons. This is a test for my shooting skills.

Winter in South Africa gets dark early, and we can’t wait any longer.

After dozens of test flights, the wind force finally met the requirements.

I stabilized my mood and said, "Three, two, one! Take off!" I took a deep breath and cut the anchor rope.

The buoyancy of the balloon quickly pulled me into the sky, and I felt weightless for an instant.

The instrument on my body was alarming, showing that my ascending speed was 1.7 meters per second, five times that of the elevator. I could hear the whistling wind in my ears. A force of wind blew the balloon and urged me to run forward. Some low buildings swished back under my feet.

When we climbed to about 200 meters, we felt that the wind speed was stable and there was no roaring in our ears. I am moving at the same speed as the wind.

At this moment, my tense nerves relaxed and I began to feel the pleasure of flying. Opening my arms, I want to embrace the whole sky. "I can fly!" I shouted in the sky.

This feeling is absolutely different from flying. Everyone has a dream of flying when they were children. Decades later, my dream finally came true and I soared in the sky.

Look at the vastness of the sky and the heights, and feel the infinity of the universe. I was filled with joy, the feeling was so wonderful, an indescribable physical and mental pleasure.

I am immersed in the thrill of making my dream come true. The blue sky above our heads is clear, and the golden roof of Nanhua Temple is shining in the setting sun. The setting sun in the distance is shorter than me, and I am chasing it away.

The cows in the pasture looked up at me blankly; some cars driving on the field also stopped to pay attention. Over low hills, through fields and pastures. The balloon with Mandela's face on it guided me to fly in the Rainbow Land.

Liang Hong is also in the sky at this moment - she is riding a helicopter, watching me from a distance and protecting me.

Later, we both learned to fly, flew around the world on our own domestically produced aircraft, and took my fat wife up to the sky to touch the clouds.

But flying over the Rainbow Country is the most romantic and beautiful of all difficult journeys.