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After the blind date cost the boy 45 yuan, he said, "Let's find a hotel to have a rest." What should girls do?

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Really, I don't want a blind date anymore.

Originally, my parents urged me to go on a blind date, especially my dad. He thought that if I didn't get married at the age of 27, no one would want me. No matter who the other person was, I couldn't wait to marry me at once.

I said that the relationship between two people is very important. Father said that feelings can be cultivated slowly. He married his mother at that time, but he still had no feelings. Finally, it took him so many years.

Dad always scolds me for being too picky and says I don't know what I'm looking for. I'm not satisfied with this or that. When I said I liked it, my dad scolded me, saying that if I picked it up again, I would have to find a mistress with a baby.

So, they didn't adopt my point of view at all.

After graduating from college, the requirement for the other half is not to have a car or a house. At this age, if the family conditions are not good, it is really difficult to buy a house in your twenties on your own.

What I hope more is that two people can work together, have a common topic, work hard for each other, and get better and better in the process of getting along.

I told my father my idea, but he didn't understand it at all, saying that he had crossed more bridges than I had, and he knew better than me what kind of person to look for.

My parents, they don't consider each other's personal abilities, such as academic qualifications. I just think that if I have a house and a car at home and my parents can work, that's how I feel about climbing.

Many of the boys they introduced me to graduated from junior high school or even didn't graduate, but their parents bought a house separately, that is, they worked outside for a lifetime and finally bought a house for their son in the county. I don't want to. Dad scolds me when I feel speechless.

After all, in their view, I am 27 years old and have no picky capital.

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What I value more is basic education and quality.

I don't mean to read more books. Many people are excellent without going to college, but I don't want to take risks, because they have different life experiences and most of them are interested in different topics.

Several boys introduced to me by relatives at home were also insisted by my parents. I really don't think we can go together at all. They talked about how to call when I was outside and so on. Or simply have nothing to say.

In the end, I didn't succeed, so I was sarcastically said that I looked down on them or something, and then my dad came to scold me and said that it didn't matter if I went to college.

Really, before I could say anything, I was labeled as picky.

I just think it doesn't matter if the other person is going to college or not. At least I hope our growth paths are similar.

I admit that I am introverted and I will talk more when I am familiar with it. Sometimes I don't know how to explain it, but I feel annoyed.

Two days ago, my family introduced me to another boy. I heard that he is a cook. I said I didn't want to see it, but my family told me again. My mother said that man was honest and he was looking for it.

In desperation, I went, and then after I went, I felt that the definition of honesty for adults was fat and ugly, and then there was no advantage, so I had to be honest.

Besides, I really think he is not honest at all, and even quite obscene.

Because many places are closed, we only met briefly. He bought me a bottle of water and some snacks, about 45 yuan. I don't want it. He insisted on giving it to me, so I took it at that time.

At this time, something that made me speechless came.

When he arrived at a hotel, he suddenly stopped and said, "Let's find a hotel to have a rest." I was confused at that time and didn't know what he meant.

He also explained that he was bored, but a little tired and wanted to go up and have a rest together.

I was so angry that I gave him everything he bought. I left alone and he tried to catch up, but I stopped him.

When I got home, the adults asked me how a blind date was. I just said I didn't like it. There is no doubt that I was scolded by my father again. I was tired of talking for over an hour.

I don't understand: I'm only 27 years old. What the hell are my parents in a hurry? No matter what kind of person the other person is, I hope I get married at once. I'm not doing well. Are they happy?

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Many parents are anxious about their children's marriage.

Of course, their hearts are good, because according to their time, girls are really old if they are not married in their twenties.

However, it is no longer their time, and the wedding event is no longer "the life of parents". People are increasingly pursuing happiness and marrying love.

In order to achieve this goal, some people have been waiting for years, looking for years, and are always unwilling to make do. This is a kind of responsibility for life.

Let's talk about blind date. In fact, blind date is like a double-edged sword, which has both advantages and disadvantages. Many people think blind date is unreliable, but many people find happiness through blind date.

So the blind date itself is no problem, the problem is the blind date.

Originally, there are all kinds of people in this world, and everyone's knowledge and quality are also uneven. If blind date is used in this way, it sometimes tests the reliability of the introducer.

Someone introduced it, but it will still be compared according to the conditions of two people. And some people are really bad elements. As long as both of them are single, they dare to get together.

Therefore, under this premise, sometimes blind date seems to be completely chaotic.

Just like my friend, she feels that the two people are not so well matched, and their life experiences are completely different, so they can't talk together.

She felt that the other person's speech was very grandiose, and she tried to show that she was better than her and earned more money than her, but it backfired, especially the last sentence he said, which made his impression in her mind drop to negative points.

She doesn't know, what kind of psychology did he ask that sentence?

It's just that when she came back, she also received a message from there saying that she didn't like it at night, which was a sigh of relief.

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Marriage is a life-long event.

I believe many people have met absurdly before meeting the right person. No matter people or things, we should keep a good attitude, don't feel sorry for ourselves, and don't lose confidence.

Sometimes, it is because of the contrast that there will be gratitude after meeting.

So, if you encounter something that makes you feel bad during the blind date, don't lose confidence in the blind date.

These are not representative.

You should continue to find the person and love you want, expand your circle of friends, don't be stingy to take the initiative to find and talk, and don't marry a person who refuses just because you will, so divorce is a matter of time.

As long as you have a yearning and put it into action, you will meet the right person at some time one day.