How to cultivate boys' sense of ceremony?

Love yourself and life (the most important thing)

Whenever you love yourself, he will love you, and he will treat you as you treat yourself.

My boyfriend is a straight man of steel, so it's good to think that two people are flat together. There is nothing wrong with this idea, but it just won't create romance. It gives me presents every birthday. You can give it directly to the courier box. It's a gift he bought. It's not romantic at all! But I am a girl who likes surprises and rituals. In order to cultivate his sense of ceremony, I summarized the following points:

(1) Add fuel to the plain life, pay attention to the sense of ceremony, and make life full of happiness! Boyfriends will please you in the same way.

Buy a bunch of flowers occasionally; Occasionally with a beautiful copywriting headband, it not only highlights your life state, but also tells him that doing so can make me happy ~)

Be a delicate pig girl, take time to dress up and please yourself, and don't relax because of love.

Whether it's a date or something else, you must wear beautiful makeup, beautiful clothes and elaborate accessories when you go out. How can a boyfriend not give you a full sense of ceremony? )

Determine what you want or what you need to get rid of.

There are many men around: "Are you tired of doing so many famous things? No money? " "Who can stand you if you do this?" Don't be PUA by such words. Life is more than daily necessities. It's important to live a small life that you like.

How to cultivate a sense of ceremony;

At the beginning of love, boys don't know what you like. You can guide them like this:

Go shopping with him and pass by the flower shop to show his love for flowers; Wish each other birthday cards and prepare gifts for surprises. ..

Expression:

Many girls are full of joy waiting for boys to give her gifts and surprises. The result is that if you don't like it, you will be unhappy. Boys are not that smart! With so many brands of lipstick, cosmetics and perfume, how does a boy know what you want?

Sisters can communicate with him directly:

"Baby, we have been living together for almost a year! Should we celebrate? "

"Christmas is coming. I have a crush on this small bag. Can you buy it for me? "

"Kiss my husband, Valentine's Day is coming, and people want gifts. Can you give me a xx? "

Tell him in advance what gift/ceremony he wants, and he will know that you want a gift for xx, a gift for xx on holidays. After a long time, he will understand you!

Affirmation:

After receiving the boy's sense of ceremony, you must greatly affirm his contribution, let him know that he can make you happy and encourage him to do better.

Exaggerate formula: Exaggerate/Things+Exaggerate him

"wow! It's the one I planted grass for a long time! It's also my favorite color (compliment gift). I didn't expect you to take it to heart when I mentioned it casually You are so careful, the baby (praises him) loves you to death!

Finally, any single emotional appeal is not long-term and needs to be paid together.