It is never the last straw that crushed the camel.

It was never the last straw that crushed the camel, but every straw, which was overwhelmed again and again. All the little things that break you down are just an introduction, just like the last building block on the building block tower. As soon as it fell, the previously crumbling building block tower collapsed instantly.

I remember chatting with my roommate once. She said that the civil affairs bureau was very busy after the college entrance examination, because many mothers waited until their children finished the college entrance examination in order not to affect their children's study, and most fathers were in a state of despair. I don't know why. I may have always felt ok, quite good, and my child received the news of the other half's divorce after the college entrance examination. I remember hearing the saddest sentence about marriage: "After so many years of marriage, you are no longer my husband, but the father of my child". Divorce is no small matter. I believe that every mother forgives after being hurt, forgives and is hurt again, goes back and forth, and finally makes a decision.

All painful decisions are not just a temporary impulse, but a little burden after so many years and so many things. I remember one time in college, I cried myself to death because I didn't eat ice cream. At that moment, my mood collapsed and my roommate asked me why I was crying. It's just this little thing, so I'll buy it next time. In fact, I cried that day not because of an ice cream, but because all the unhappiness, depression and negative emotions have accumulated since I went to college. Ice cream is just an introduction.

Including falling in love, many boys think that girls often quarrel with him because of trivial matters, but he can't see her patience, the harm caused by his casual behavior to girls, or the deliberate change of girls, and he can't understand how many times she has convinced herself that it doesn't matter during this period.

There is no real empathy in the world, and you can't feel it without stabbing yourself. In a program, Yang Mi said, Why do you want others to understand your efforts? Don't they try to deliver takeout? Don't they try to record a program for a day? Everyone is working hard. You can only learn to love yourself, really love yourself.