The love in the world is great. Like Xiang Yu and Yu Ji, Romeo and Juliet, what else?

In all love, there are proud and frustrated. This love story from ancient Greece goes like this. To some extent, adonis, a beautiful young man, loves himself no less than Venus. The only difference is that Venus' love for him is tolerable in any society, although there is a little difference in their status and status. But adonis's passionate love for himself is hard to understand. So that his behavior is called "narcissism" by later generations, and it is classified as a pathological category in psychological research. This is very unfair to this beautiful boy himself. Because all love, as long as it is love, should not be ignored or even despised.

Of course, Venus's love for this beautiful boy is also commendable. The extent of her pursuit and her impatience make many arrogant and conceited ladies unable to understand. In a popular phrase, it is called "be a fairy, do her job well, or don't do it."

The indifferent Venus meets the indifferent adonis. From her point of view, she loves the wrong person, but what can she do? There is no right or wrong in love, she just loves him, and there is no way. Venus used all available methods. The description of lust in the story makes us feel a little upset today, but don't get me wrong. This is a sign that Venus loves him and has nothing to do with pornography. This story also expanded our later love literature. In a sense, adonis loves not himself, but a third party. In a broader sense, from then on, all the literary works about love triangle and even love in four corners and five corners came from a story called Venus and adonis.

Conclusion: wishful love is always accompanied by the rapid destruction of one person and the slow destruction of another.

② Edward VIII and Mrs Simpson.

This is the most talked about love story in modern times, which has been passed down to this day. In the history of the British empire for nearly a thousand years, no king has ever abdicated. And the reason why he stepped down is for two words-love. The woman who made him give up his political stance turned out to be an American woman who had been divorced twice.

In the eyes of the upper class in Europe, this incident is tantamount to a great rebellion. In the mainstream European society at that time, people could not give full tolerance and recognition to this matter. Thousands of supporters of the king heard the news of the king's abdication on the radio and collapsed to the ground in tears. Perhaps their actions also include great respect for this love. They watched helplessly as their beloved king stepped down from the throne. But everything is like this, there are gains and losses. The king lost his throne and kingdom and gained what he cherished most-love.

Mrs Simpson later sent her husband's body back to England as the Duchess of Windsor for a state funeral. The whole British Isles is in sorrow. At that time, there were many more people who agreed with their love than a few decades ago. People regard them as classics dedicated to love. Now that I think about it, without their love, the whole history may have been changed, and the current queen may never appear. A monarch who abandons his throne for love is irresponsible from the national point of view. From a human point of view, he regards love as his lifelong belief, which is the most perfect interpretation of the concept of "human".

Conclusion: Love has a price. The price of love is Mount Tai in front of those who despise it, and nothing in front of those who cherish it.

(3) Roy and Mara

On a bridge named China Railway in London, a beautiful, sad and touching love story quietly began with the roar of gunfire. Similarly, this love finally came to an end on this bridge. In fact, this love is not over, and it will never end.

This love is so perfect from beginning to end. In this story, there are no bad people, but all we see are good people. The moment Roy and Mara met on the bridge, great love began. Roy looked at the window above in the rain, which was the crowning touch of their story. On the way to the church to get married, two people asked each other their names. Everything seems so absurd, but it is so reasonable. It is this love that matures like lightning, but it makes one person pay everything for loving another person, and makes another person keep this love in his heart forever.

Everyone in this story is very tolerant, Roy's uncle and mother. Intolerance is an invisible atmosphere, an atmosphere that can make people suffocate. This atmosphere firmly controls everyone, and everyone is helplessly looking at the cruel reality step by step. But in a sense, Mara's death is the most touching part of this story. It was her death that made the story immortal. On the contrary, Mara will become another Jane Eyre, but Roy Mara's face is more romantic and better-tempered than Rochester Jane Eyre's. The story of Jane Eyre is really not a great and classic love story. It is better to call it a classic of personal struggle, or criticize the Victorian education system and family concept.

Jane, a British woman writer. Austin thinks marriage should be appropriate. But the story of Roy and Mara is beyond the scope of collocation. If we wake this great writer from the grave and ask him to comment on the love story of Broken Blue Bridge, I think she will feel very embarrassed, really embarrassed.

Conclusion: eternal love, love that can't be together forever, will be eternal love.

(4) Esme Halda and the bell ringer.

The bell ringer in the gloomy Notre Dame de Paris is called a beast, and the bohemian woman who escapes from disaster is called a beauty. The love between beauty and beast is an asymmetric love, and the contrast is so great that the intuitive feeling is not as emotional and unforgettable as this great love story. However, in the bell tower hundreds of years later, when people saw two bodies held together, they felt moved and moved for love. Beauty and the beast, at the last moment of their lives, hold each other tightly and never part.

The bell ringer loves Esme Holda more than he is willing to die for. Maybe the first time someone saw her, he had put his life in her hands and was ready to give everything for the woman he loved. Although he knew that it might not be rewarded, maybe his death would fly into the sea like a feather, and it would only be silent and no one would notice. But fortunately, he got each other's love, and it was forever.

Perhaps this kind of love is not as easy to accept and perfect as the love stories of other talented people and beautiful women. But this is also a story about love. This love story is still so shocking and extraordinary. The humanistic spirit of the Great Revolution era can be seen here. This story tells us that even people like animals have the right to love and be loved. Even two people, no matter how far apart, will have the opportunity to look at the same goal and be connected by the ribbon of love.

Conclusion: The truest absurd love may be the word love, which has nothing to do with absurdity and truth, as long as it is love.

(5) Xing Zi and Guangfo.

The story that swept the whole land of China in the first half of 80 years shows that this TV series is not based on love, but pays more attention to family ties. In the play, the two fell in love only for the sake of family tragedy in the future. Although this bedding is clever, we have to admit that it is cruel. It seems to force people to choose between love and affection. Such a choice is reluctant for human beings. Fortunately, the writer let Xing Zi die quietly at the critical moment, which eased our predicament. Our thoughts were pulled back by the screenwriter at the moment when we crossed the last bottom line of human morality.

At that time, there were always two explanations for the love between husband and temper. One explanation is that when they learned that they were brother and sister, their love suddenly became brother and sister love. Another is that their love is real love, but in real life, there is no way to deal with it, so one of them must die. Xing Zi finally died quietly in Guangfu's arms on a boat in a lake full of cherry blossoms. There are two explanations, one is to die in the arms of my brother, and the other is to die in the arms of my lover. Alas, people who held the former view accounted for the vast majority at that time.

In fact, love is love and will not be transformed into anything else. This pair of men and women, no one will doubt that they are born together. Even in real life, these two actors are a couple. This is what the screenwriter hates. He set any condition as conducive to the development of love, but set one condition as death, which is innate and cannot be changed by hard work. That is, they are brother and sister.

Poor couple who are in love. They have paid a lot for love, but not many people will understand. Only by hiding that sincere love in my heart, one will die, and the other will face the beautiful lake and recall the lost love.

Conclusion: impossible love, our society still needs to evolve, and we should think about who can surpass who in morality and love.

(6) Liang Zhu

This is the most popular love story among the people in China. To some extent, it is still recognized by ordinary people in today's love psychology. But today's men and women in the press will not be as stupid as Liang Zhu at that time, but will do nothing and become butterflies. In the modern society where Internet and mobile phones prevail, communication between men and women will no longer be as difficult and inefficient as in ancient society. People's psychological endurance will not be as fragile as it used to be. Until today, we can still feel the pain of that pair of men and women who were lovesick at that time. In fact, this kind of pain is very sweet to recall. Even at the cost of life, nothing can replace the gains gained at this price. The reason why the love story of modern men and women can't be a great love is because they pay too little and absolutely refuse to invest. After all, life is the bottom line that modern people can pay and cannot be easily surpassed.

The courtship in this story is also what excites us. The heroine disguised herself as a man, using some scenery and objects as metaphors to woo the hero. The description of this story is the most talked about. Because it transcends all the characteristics of the times when the story happened, both in form and content, it has a hint of modernism. Shallow researchers will draw a description of homosexuality from it. Furthermore, this is the great power of love, which can transcend the shackles of all times and concepts and make people do things that society did not understand at that time, but can be talked about by future generations.

The finishing touch is to become a butterfly inside. A humble life often represents freedom. People who yearn for love and freedom often do this, because these two points are their lives.

Conclusion: Helpless love can only find the continuation of their love in another world.

Maurer and Paul.

No one will deny the greatness of maternal love, but maternal love is one-sided. If maternal love can be rewarded, it can only be children's love for children. However, in Sons and Lovers, Lawrence strongly challenges this concept. No one will deny that Lawrence is the most important writer in the twentieth century, and no one will deny that Freud is the greatest psychologist in the twentieth century. However, I am afraid that there are far fewer people who can openly agree with the story told in this work than those who study this work.

Madame Morrel poured her surging passion into her son, from whom she got the feeling of love that she couldn't get from her husband. For this Mrs. Morrel, in her heart, she has regarded her son as her ideal lover. She took care of him and raised him, and everything she did was beyond the reach of a mother. She really took her son as the object of her love. This kind of love is not a simple affection, but a manifestation of love to a greater extent. And Paul also regards his mother as his lover, so much so that he feels that as long as his mother is there, he will never find a lover in his next life. Because this lover is beside him, and that is his mother.

In this controversial work, people discuss more about psychological and social aspects. Many times, the love inside is interpreted as the Oedipus complex. Although this English word originated from ancient Greece has a long history, it has been studied by people for thousands of years, and until today, there is no real result. Perhaps human beings dare not face up to what is inharmonious with the real society. Perhaps this society has formed a fixed pattern that no one can break. We must follow the path we set for ourselves and never look back.

In short, the most human love is neither fish nor fowl, it is a kind of love, or at least a fork in the tree of love.

(viii) Liu Xin and Dong Xian

The addiction of broken sleeves is an idiom that we learn a little older. Literally, it is very obscure, and it is really impossible to understand the true meaning without some textual research. Liu Xin, a bad king in the Western Han Dynasty, turned out to be a true lover. When they slept in the same bed, when he had something important to leave, Dong Xian's body pressed down his wide sleeves. He couldn't bear to wake up his lover and then left with his sleeves torn. This meticulous love for the lover is enough to make people of any age feel ashamed. Of course, his other half, Dong Xian, did the same. He committed suicide at home the day after his death, and when he died, he still kept the imperial seal left to him. Unfortunately, this pair of lovers are two men, that is, homosexuals who are despised by many so-called gentlemen today.

Many of us now, when we see this idiom, will understand it as a bad aspect and ignore the interpretation of love. No one has stipulated that love belongs to the patent between the opposite sex, and love between the same sex may be more sincere and thrilling. Liu Xin and Dong Xian are the representatives of this kind of love.

The truth of love, the desire for love, imagine that today, even between the opposite sex, there are few people who are so considerate and loyal to each other. This is the action that comes from love, and the driving force behind this action can't be anything but love.

In the long history of human development, same-sex love is no longer a young love. From the tolerant attitude of ancient Greeks to same-sex love, to the prosperous period of China and the Tang Dynasty, people talked about it openly and practiced it personally, until the tolerant adjustment made by modern western countries in social concepts and laws, we can see that it is not a deformed love, but it has not been recognized and developed in the long historical development process. Conclusion: Same-sex love can also be touching, great and tear-jerking.

(9) San Mao and Jose

When I first met Jose, Sanmao was a junior in Madrid, and Jose was just a high school student studying near her school. But by chance, on Christmas Eve, Jose, wearing a French hat, was waiting for her downstairs in her apartment to give her holiday gifts and blessings! At that time, San Mao had no idea about Jose, who was a few years younger than himself, but there was a trace of vanity in his heart: Wow! Is there such a handsome guy in the world? ! It's my pleasure to be his wife! Then she just taught him as a sister: don't skip class! Skip class again and I'll ignore you! But Jose skipped class to see her, until one day, Jose said seriously, ECHO, will you wait for me to get married? Six years! Four years in college and two years in the army! OK or not?

Seeing that he was abnormal, Sanmao deliberately angered him and gave him an ultimatum: Don't come to me again, I have a boyfriend! Jose was not angry either, just waved his French hat and said to Sanmao backwards: ECHO, goodbye!

Later, Jose really never came to Sanmao again, and occasionally met him on the road. He just gave Sanmao a polite hug and kissed her on the cheek. Sanmao's boyfriend always seems to be changing, intentionally or unintentionally.

The news that Jose reappeared was that six years later, a friend of Jose Tinto sent him a recent photo and a letter. The handsome guy in the photo is catching fish in the river, with a big beard and a bright smile in the sun. San Mao didn't care too much, just feeling: Jose has grown up!

After returning to Taiwan Province, San Mao suffered her first emotional misfortune, that is, her fiance died unexpectedly. After the pain, she returned to Spain, and the strange marriage in the dark began to approach them.

That day, she received a phone call from a good friend, saying that she had something important to tell her to go to her house. She doesn't remember that this day is the day when Jose came to see her, and when San Mao went out with his girlfriend in the afternoon, Jose called her for more than a dozen long-distance calls but couldn't find anyone. Near evening, Sanmao hurried to his good friend's house again. When they met, her good friend just told her to close her eyes and wait. At this time, San Mao was suddenly picked up and spun. San Mao opened his eyes and saw that it was Jose! She was too happy to speak, so she let such happiness turn into a whirlpool around her.

Seven months later, Sanmao and Jose held a secular wedding and began their happy and painful love journey.

Most of Jose's job is to become a diver. At the beginning, Jose's work place was far away from their home. Sanmao drove for three hours at 2: 30 every afternoon to pick up Jose from work at 5: 30, risking desert sand and tornado! What a firm and persistent love this is! Later, Jose went to another island and could only go home once a week, so Sanmao decided to check the car and luggage in the past and give up his carefully packed home to accompany his beloved Jose.

Every day, she goes to the dock where she works by bike, which brings delicious food, and the staff there also feel their deep and sincere love for each other. Whenever she arrives at the dock, the first person who sees Sanmao will guide her to the specific place where Jose works. Then in the distance, the diver on the shore will pull the signal in advance, and the underwater Jose will surface to hug Sanmao and laugh. San Mao ignored all the water drops, hugged his lover tightly, fed him fruit, or threw stones to play, which made the people next to him envious.

After Sanmao got married for seven years, Chen's parents flew all the way to Europe to see my husband. Due to regional cultural differences, Jose doesn't know how to address China's in-laws. According to the habits of westerners, he will call him Mr. Chen and Mrs. Chen, but this is not acceptable to Sanmao. You must call your parents. Jose was extremely nervous and cautious. From beginning to end, he still failed to call mom and dad. At dinner, San Mao, who was tidying up, suddenly listened to Jose chatting and said to her father, Dad, will you ask Echo to allow me to buy a motorcycle? Sanmao quickly hid in the kitchen, tears streaming down her face! Jose Ken called her father this way because of his deep love for her! !

It's a pity that in the summer when Sanmao's parents were sent away, Sanmao accompanied her parents to leave the island by plane, and Jose also sent them to the airport, telling Sanmao to come back early! However, this has become a permanent decision! ! The love of Sanmao's life fell asleep only a few days later ... Jose had an accident while diving.

Jose is only thirty years old! What a young and energetic age! !

Sanmao didn't eat or drink for several days in a row and fainted ... At that time, mother Chen brought her a bowl of soup and begged her daughter to drink it. Sanmao, who was extremely sad, didn't look at it. She insisted on going with Jose ... Later, Ping's wife accompanied Sanmao and kept comforting her until Sanmao promised her that she would never commit suicide.

Without Jose, there would be no lovely San Mao. In those days, Sanmao was busy making tombstones for Jose. Every day, she bought many flowers to visit her lover in the cemetery and talked with him until it was dark. ...

Maybe God gave San Mao too much love. Besides her Jose, she is also very close and easy-going to others. Whether he is a beggar or a tramp, he is her friend. Everything in the world is the embodiment of goodness and beauty in her eyes. A weed, a fallen leaf, a cloud and a drop of water ... all have life and language, so you can communicate with her.

A few years later, she returned to her hometown to worship her ancestors, but she never forgot to visit her childhood family, Uncle Zhu Qing, who was old at that time, and to worship the shabby hut where Grandpa once lived. After coming back from worshipping the ancestral grave in the rain, I passed by my childhood neighbor's aunt's house and insisted on accompanying the elderly. Regardless of the pain of fatigue, she personally pumped a bucket of well water, poured a bottle, and drank it all with the hometown she took from her ancestral grave ... How can such a woman who is affectionate and righteous not be respected?

At the stall, she took a fancy to a silver lock and a pair of ruby earrings, but the owner was the poor woman with a baby on her back. The simple and humble appearance made Sanmao reluctant to choose, but in the end, she bought back what she liked with many times of money, and a sense of guilt has been bothering Sanmao. In fact, the other party is already happy because of the unexpected money in his hand!

In the Saha Desert, rich people can always enjoy aristocratic status and luxurious life, but when Sanmao is a guest, he will hate those so-called rich people, but he will sympathize with and cherish those little slaves who serve their lives, never taking care of their status, but will be close to them and chat kindly, giving money and daily necessities to alleviate their current predicament. Whenever I see the story of her and the dumb slave, I am always moved to tears. In her opinion, the gift of a little money is a small insult to them, but in fact it really helps them solve their daily needs! Lovely, pure and kind San Mao is always so considerate of others!

It is precisely because of the love of Jose and Sanmao that they cry bitterly, and also because their lives love the world, so we love Sanmao and we love Jose! I was moved by their love, wishing them happiness and praying that they would fall in love in heaven. ...