Vivian Hsu trembles as she recalls "catching the mistress", the smell is unforgettable! Is it a woman's fault when a man cheats?

Editor's note: Vivian Hsu shared on the Internet with Youtubers "That Girl KIKI" and "Skimmy Your Internet Best Friend" that she had encountered a cheating scumbag, and even staged eight scenes of "catching the mistress" Clicking on the plot, Vivian recalled that at that time, a message came from her boyfriend on her mobile phone, saying that she was going to have dinner with friends, but Vivian felt that her boyfriend was lying, so she went to her boyfriend's house with her friends, and saw that the lights in her boyfriend's house were not only on, but also there were The sound of TV, and then Vivian pressed the bell. As soon as her boyfriend opened the door, she smelled the smell of cigarette smoke and the fragrance of the bath... (Source: Mirror News)

"I still remember that The smell, I knew someone was inside, I was trembling all over, but I still mustered up the courage to walk in, because I wanted to see what that person looked like... She was very beautiful... I will never forget that picture, and then, I walked out slowly That door, there is nothing to forgive, we will definitely have problems in the future, and I will be suspicious of this relationship."

Vivian encourages everyone to be brave enough to let go, but also be brave enough to love, "There is nothing that can't be overcome. There is absolutely no such thing as me not being able to live without you. Be your own master, and all heartaches and lows will fade over time. Never give up on a beautiful future and life because of emotional pain. When you feel that you are not brave enough, just listen to me. The new single "Goodbye to the Wrong Person"! "Should cheating be forgiven? Do men cheat because women are not good enough? Even if he comes back to apologize and ask for forgiveness and get back together, you only need to tell him: I understand, I have received your apology, but I will not forgive you.

Watching the hit drama "Only Thirty", I was so angry that I vomited blood. The perfect wife Gu Jia was cheated on? ! Smart, beautiful, emotionally intelligent and talented. As a full-time wife, she can negotiate business, raise cute children, drink green tea, and single-handedly turn her giant baby husband into the owner of a fireworks company... It stands to reason that marrying such a treasured and virtuous wife will make you laugh out of your dreams. However, look at what her husband is doing. When the little girl took a big lick on his ice cream with an "innocent" look on her face, he smiled a bit and ate it happily, without any hesitation.

When a message from the little girl popped up on his phone, he looked at his wife who was on the phone, wrapped the phone in a book, moved to a hidden place, and looked at it secretly. When I saw the *** sent by the little girl with "trembling hands", I replied with a mean "You are so bad". He is addicted to chatting with little girls. When he comes home, he finds his wife unhappy and starts quarreling with him in various ways. He thinks his wife is vulgar and wants to fawn over the rich wife and ignores the children, and he even thinks his wife doesn't listen to him. Subconsciously, I was just looking for reasons for my cheating - I cheated, but I am a good man, and she was the one who forced me to cheat. No matter how good the disguise was, it was eventually discovered and the incident came to light...

The netizens were filled with indignation and hatred after seeing such a coquettish operation. Are you blind if you still cheat on your wife when she is such a good person? We always think that as long as a woman is good enough, she can tie a man down. But in fact, no matter how good a woman is, she can't stop a man who wants to cheat. Whether a man cheats or not has nothing to do with whether the woman is nice or not. They're not blind, they're just cheap.

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I once had a colleague who was very beautiful and had a good temper. He could dance, make cakes, and design his own clothes. Just three months after joining the company, I was pursued by several male colleagues. But her ex-husband cheated on a 40-year-old woman with a child. That woman cannot be said to be ugly, but she is really ordinary, with an average figure, doesn't pay much attention to dressing, and has no special skills. Three years after the divorce, my colleague still can't let go: "I just can't figure out why he cheated? And with a woman like that?" In fact, there is no reason. A scumbag cheats without a reason, only an opportunity.

Look at Zhang Yuqi, isn’t she sexy? Wang Quanan still goes out to prostitutes; look at Zhou Yangqing, who is beautiful, independent and thoughtful, Luo Zhixiang still plays "multiplayer sports"; and the Japanese national goddess Sasaki Nozomi is so beautiful that it makes people's hearts tremble, but where is her husband Ken Watabe? Having an affair with someone in a functional toilet in an underground parking lot! In fact, most men cheat, not because their mistresses are great or their wives are bad, but because they feel fresh and fragrant outside.

Some netizens said that he asked his son: "Dad bought you a Transformers worth a thousand yuan, why did you snatch a child's toy worth dozens of yuan?" The son said: "Because I have never played with this. .

"Not having fun is all the reason why a scumbag cheats. Few men who cheat really want a divorce, they just love to play. For them, even if their wife has 100 points and their mistress only has 10 points, they still get It's good to get 110 points.

So, don't indulge the scumbag, don't forgive, make them pay the price, let him lose your 100 points, just keep the mistress's 10 points. Cheating is cheating. Don’t ask why, once you are unfaithful, you will never be cheated a hundred times!

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Cheating, probably It is the most fatal problem in marriage, and it is also the most difficult to withstand the test. There was once a reality test program in the United States that specifically tested the loyalty of partners. The results were shocking. No man successfully passed the test, and everyone "took the bait."

However, my boyfriend started flirting with a girl right after they met, and even made an appointment to have a hotel room with her. Her boyfriend is a fat, reliable-looking man from an IT program. The team hired a woman and lied that the computer was broken and asked him to fix it. Within 5 minutes, the two of them had sex. Human nature is always the one who can withstand temptation. People, even if the woman at home is a shrew and a slut, she will not cheat; but if she can't stand the temptation, she will cheat outside even if she marries a fairy. However, there is no doubt that there are still people who are busy. In order to clear up the scumbag, they even put the blame on the woman. Just like Xu Huanshan cheated. Some people said that he cheated because Gu Jia gave him a lot of pressure invisibly.

Some people even say that perfection itself is a fatal problem. How many people can be on the same wavelength as a perfect person? It would be strange for a woman like Gu Jia not to be cheated on. This is the logic of a scumbag. It was me who cheated, but it was you who was wrong. Women must not be fooled, and don’t try to find reasons for others’ mistakes.

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A friend of mine and her husband went from school uniforms to wedding dresses. The man has a successful career, is gentle and considerate, and dotes on his friends like a child. She is good at cooking, and she can also take care of the baby, make milk, change diapers, study with the baby, and do everything. He is such a model husband. He eats alone with his female colleagues at the company every day, chats, and talks about all the friends in the hotel. The sky is falling. How could such a perfect man cheat? If it's wrong, it must be her fault, she's not good enough. My friend has fallen into deep self-doubt, doubting that she is not beautiful enough, has a good figure, is not gentle and virtuous enough, and is not sexy enough in bed...

She is such a beautiful woman, but she has such low self-esteem that when she walks on the street, she feels like she is dancing in a square. The dancing aunts are all more attractive than me. She worked harder on skin care, fitness, and hobbies to enrich herself, and she worked harder to be good to her husband. As a result, she went on a business trip and hooked up with a college student she met on the plane. This time my friend finally realized that it was not her problem, but that the man was disgusting. Not to mention the school beauty, even if you give him the globe flower, he will still cheat.

Her only fault was that she was not confident and took the blame of the scumbag on herself. When a woman cheats, everyone will accuse the woman of being morally corrupt, shameless, and sympathetic to the man; but when a man cheats, while scolding the man, people will also “analyze” the woman’s problem—too strong, or too independent, Furthermore, if you are not beautiful or sexy, you will not be able to attract men. To make matters worse, women themselves are reflecting.